So I installed Badoo to see if there was a 4X year old skank for an easy lay, and I matched with a "18" year old girl in a few minutes (everyone that knows how Badoo in South America its aware is a low quality woman fuckfest).
This girl looked really nice (8.5 points, lets call her L) and we talked for a while (I even belived she was a bot or hired person just to bait you into the app), she was smart and had good tastes (punk/metal music, books, etc.) so I asked her out expecting her to schedule with me the next day or so, but she was all about meeting that day. She lived kinda far from my house (1 hour travel on bus) so she was waiting for me to pay her the ride in uber (she didnt asked directly but it was implied) So I did, I took the gamble and asked a uber to go pick her up (previously she asked me if her female cousin could go with her and I said yes).
So I was waiting for her to arrive with her cousin in uber thinking about how bad could that go but she arrived and it was real. I took both of them to a bar just below the flat im renting (kept that a secret) and we talked for a while (the convo was going really well but L was kinda shy, and the cousin was an obvious party slut), her cousin started to feel like a thirdwheel so I offer them to go for a walk in the neighbourhood (it is winter here and really cold, so I expected them to have cold) we walked a few meters and they started to complain about how cold it was, so I told them if they wanted to go up to my flat and listen some music there while chilling with beer, L doubted for a while but the cousin agree. We went the three of us to my flat and we went to my room (we rent the flat between 3 childhood friends), we talked a few minutes while listening music and I asked by whatsapp to my friend in the other room if he wanted to join so he could be my wingman and took the cousin from me (she was an easy lay), he did that, he came to the room talked with the cousin for a while and asked her if she wanted to go buy beers with him (hes the mvp here), they went out and there I stood alone with L.
She was shy but talked a loooooooooot (a lot about her family, her studies and her musical tastes we both shared) So we talked, we talked and we talked, I was having a feeling she was talking that much cause she was shy, when my friend and the cousin started fucking in the other room, I started approaching her. I did some light kino, she didnt resist so I started hugging her and kissing her, after a few seconds I was turning off the lights banging her agaisnt the walls. But still I felt something wasnt right, she was responding very well but not initiating, so I asked her "Are you a virgin?" she stood frozen and said "No, of course not", so I use all my trp knowledge and went really rough on her, pulled her hair, spanked her and all the jazz, but she stopped me from going to her pants (a few times) so I asked her "what was wrong" and she told me "she was on the period", I told her I didnt care about that, and that I was a vampire (shes really into vampires) she laugh and told me she cared about that even if I dont, so we keep making out i took all the clothes of her from the hips above but never the pants (she was still resisting) that cycle repeated 2 times with weird silences between them until she leave when her cousin was done fucking with my friend. I was really confused, I though I didnt liked her, but was so into doing every except fucking.
I walked them to the door and said my goodbyes only to be kissed by L and told "I will write you later". So after they leave, I asked my friend how it went, he told me about what he did and I told him about what I did. When I finished my recap of the night he told me: "Ohh so thats what happened, the cousin told me L was a virgin and she didnt handle men well, even her mom bullies her about being a virgin" Then everything clickled and I told myself "what a retard I am" Trust you instinct guys, I didnt trust mine and look how that went.
Now I dont understand why lying about that, and how she still kissed me while I was being really pushy with her. I kept chatting with her today by whatsapp but it was only a few words to each other (shes not showing interest maybe) But I chatted with her cousin too and I played silly and told her I was sorry about being maybe a bit pushy with L, and that I even asked her if she was a virgin cause she was being too passive. Now here comes a weird thing, the cousin played a fool about telling my friend about L being a virgin, and she went along with L history about being on her period and that I need to wait for the next time to give it another try. Why the cousin told my friend L was a virgin and its still telling me she was on the period and saying shes not a virgin?
Im confused.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
I took this as something else, and was like "well that went better than expected".
You went the wrong direction here. Even if she wasnt a virgin you dont "go really rough" on a girl you're not even having sex with and who's not feeling it. Nothing wrong with hair pulling and spanking when the time is right, but you should always start easy and increase it when you get good feedback.
In order to have good sex early on it's important for the girl to be properly immersed in the act. Experienced sloots dont require any comfort, but girls that arent damaged goods often do.
Onestepeveryday 1y ago
Thats exactly what I thought
Yeah I kinda overdid it, the thing is I was getting good feeback until I went down to her pants, she was moaning a lot and even she sttutered when I made her say what was she feeling.
I think this was my main issue here, I usually go out with broken girls that are really into being submissive and abused. It was a long time since I went out with a "decent" girl.
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Onestepeveryday 1y ago
Yeah I wont bring the topic out with her, I got her answer even if its a lie. I dont know if chase her after the awkward moment, maybe the usual method of waiting for her to come wont work here cause she will feel used.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Please add paragraphs
Onestepeveryday 1y ago
Sorry about that I really suck paragraphing on english
OPPTRP 1y ago
Paragraphs
Onestepeveryday 1y ago
Sorry man, I kindad fixed it, I hope so.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah women get periods. In about a week she'll be ovulating so that will be the best time to cum in her and get her pregnant. If she is a virgin start out slow with a finger. You'll know because that finger will barely fit in there. If it's a big loose hole she's not a virgin.
Onestepeveryday 1y ago
If she wasnt lying about the period, I will try to schedule for that date.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
sounds like LMR to me.
Ok.
Here's what I think happened:
She's a virgin. Cousin tells your friend that she's a virgin. They talk later and she said "Onestepeveryday told me I'm a virgin but I said I wasn't". Cousin then changes her story to cover for L's lying to you.
Meet her again, it's all cool. She lied about it because she wants to cover for herself...... you kinda shouldn't have asked. It's not a big lie really. But in future don't put women in a position where they have to lie to you, and certainly don't discuss them with their friends and expect their friends not to be loyal.
Onestepeveryday 1y ago
What you say sounds very resaonable, it really was situation im not used to and lost frame. Shes taking a lot of time in responding in whatsapp about some logistics im trying to setup (a movie date cause she told me she love horror movies, so I do. Its to build some comfort).
Should I wait or should I next? Also a plate wanted to meet me today, should I take a few pictures and upload them on social media so L sees im busy living life and going out? Or will that make me look like a playboy in a bad way?.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
If you like her, see her a few more times. If not, don't.
Doubt she's ready to lose her V card and move straight into a fuckbuddy relationship, so don't ram the other girls thing down her neck just yet.
Onestepeveryday 1y ago
yeah I like her, was refering about waiting for her to reply, waiting 8 hours for a reply its usually a sign of un-insterest
Seems legit. I have to engrave on my mind that using dirty tactis that I use with plates wont work here. I will go to see my daugther all the weekend I should focus on that and forget about this until monday.