I had one occasion to impregnate a chick that wanted my DNA and raise baby with her guy, far away. She didn't know anything about me apart from number we barely communicated as I can speak some of her language. Technically on holidays I could impregnate many chicks this way without being later identified having on top temp phone number. Difference was this chick wanted to specifically get it. It didn't happen but later she got IVF - her guy was shooting blanks I think and was muuuuch older.
Then I was thinking about black guys running away from their women after putting bun in an oven [ I talk about myth never checked stats], but...
Q: Do you think impregnating woman on holidays by consensual raw dog + fake FB to keep contact to confirm fact, will satisfy my biological urge to save my blood line from extinction? OR will I have still an urge if not for more offspring then for parental investment?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I got a vasectomy, I have never once had a desire to reproduce but have had a desire to finish raw (haven't done it even with the vasectomy just out of abundance of caution)
I don't know if there is a distinction without a difference in my answer, but no, I've had no desire to have my seed actually impregnate someone
Whether the biological drive to finish raw is an evolutionary indication of that is a different argument
Oh, sorry I didn't answer your text version on your question, only the title version.
No, satisfying this urge in the way you have described runs the risk of following you if she is determined to make it be that way and finds out a way to do so. Also do you want a potential son to always wonder who his father is or a daughter that becomes a massive cum dumpster from the dady issues of not knowing her origins.
Not worth it man in my opinion
Plus, your non-involvement or unsatisfactory level of involvement in their lives will ultimately lead you to wanting children of your own anyway, so better to just save it for kids you actually want to raise
tierteen 1y ago
Thanks for commet.
Never finished raw or in recent history, anal?
Yeas there is risk but the way I see it it planned is minimal. I have always talked bullshit to the girls on hols anyway even I didn't try to impregnate them, just in case, I could assume there is a minimal chance I'm a father already as not with all of them I have kept contact and with none of them I have used rubber.
I have related to that elsewhere in the thread: in current climate most likely it will happen anyway and it would cost me a fortune on top of stress. + And in extreme case I could liquify my assets and relocate to that strange country [or better bring her to neutral country where I nor her normally lives] and if something would go awkward I could vanish. Yeah I know sounds like Jason Bourne becoming daddy, but that is more like doodle of plan C.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
No problem
I only got my vasectomy less than a year ago. I used to be deathly paranoid of pregnancy and so I still have lingering paranoia about it. At the moment needs to be a longer term partner and I would probably ask she get an IUD or some other form of contraceptive if she wants me to finish in her raw
When has anything ever gone as planned with a woman? They can't even figure out what they themselves want moment to moment. I still would urge caution in your desire to do this.
Don't underestimate the level of solipsism a pregnant woman has. A pregnant woman's hamster is infinitely worse than your run of the mill woman
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tierteen 1y ago
Do you think [hope] it will satisfy nature imperative and that will give you peace of mind and focus your progress on other goals, or you have other reason, ie:
I can say I'm mixed bucked of these reasons
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tierteen 1y ago
ha sounds like reptilian brain
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
Minimal investment in maximum offspring is a mating strategy which gets more DNA out there but less viable offspring. Maximum investment in minimal offspring gets less DNA out there but has the most viable offspring. I took a mixed approach and shot my load into lots of hoes/ONS and also have a wife and 2 sons. I know at least 3 had abortions and the rest I'm not sure.
What settles your instinctual mating drive is when you go through a full pregnancy with a woman. There are hormonal changes that occur and brain changes. It lasts about 7 years and then resurfaces. 7 years of age is basically when a child can feed and bathe themselves and are no longer much of a hindrance to the woman. The kid can be off at school all day while the woman is getting plowed by tinder guys. Hence the 7 year itch. So yeah just keep getting your wife pregnant every 6-7 years.
tierteen 1y ago
Thanks for unfiltered comment.
DO you have condensed literature on the topic of 'instinctual mating drive' and 7 years after Tibet "The itch"? Condensed as I go trough other stuff atm and only if you have it in the top of your head as I will likely not have time to get to it next few months and in the end might consider just doing it or not anyways following mother nature say so.
BTW there is little overlap in your second paragraph. From what I understand it starts on commenting men and then women. Then I understand that men get the 'drive to settle' for unspecified time [pregnancy period?], while women will get settled for circa 7y.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
It's called K-selective vs R-selective mating strategies. Women are k-selective because they have to invest a lot in offspring no matter what. Men are r-selective because we don't have to invest and are more likely to die in combat.
The only condensed stuff out there is searching these terms in google scholar. Men transform after impregnating a woman to become more parentally invested, protective, territorial, etc. It's interesting because we also lose interest in a woman if she doesn't become pregnant which is one of the problems with birth control. The male instinctively knows the female is barren and pursues other females.
Anyway, you won't satisfy your urge to reproduce until you reproduce. It's biologically impossible as far as I know. It's also practically impossible unless you can get the woman to carry the baby to term. It's basically like jacking off. It's all wretch and no vomit... it never really gets there.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
crazy question of the week :)
tierteen 1y ago
I come to terms that I might not rise to the very top men [especially for my age group] short term [very top in trem of retaining LTR that got pregnant]. I would like to focus on different stuff and would like to please my reptilian brain to get the fuck out of the way - if possible.
I know there are chicks that will want the seed and I likely know where to find them, to sign covert contract.
I also come to terms that that finding that 'better women' is going to be hard in my age group [ I'm seeing one cute chick that had some chances to be better suited for being one but as facts come up, she isn't - then other p;late is right out only a plate]. It is all good to be a 50yo millionaire and bang chicks at 22-28 but let's be honest, what would be chance to retain one, long term even having this status and good [not perfect] game etc. I do not know and not sure do I want to wait to find out.
Learn, adapt, overcome [or at least have open mind]
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
It's not a covert contract if it's signed.
Bear in mind that signing away your legal responsibilities for children will not hold up in court - they'll rip it up and demand child support from you.
The chance of retaining a chick in a happy (for you) relationship for ten years is close to zero for every man.
tierteen 1y ago
that is what crosses my mind, if not 0 then near detection limit
I only would do it away from home, no traces, maybe married
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
married makes no difference
"away from home" would need to be in a different country with no extradition treaties