She had me gnawing at her neck and grabbing at her chest, after a minute into it she asked if I was hard and I wasn't.
She got so upset she is seriously starting to question if I'm attracted to her.
She is easily the hottest girl I've been with and I never question being attracted to her.
It's totally normal to not get hard after a minute of gnawing on her neck right?? I tried telling her that just because I wasn't hard it doesn't mean I'm not attracted to her.
12monkeys 1y ago
don;t explain
direct her what to do instead or
'you girl have been dealing with this virgins that get hard when you only talk to them'
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Yeah, dont let her grab frame. OP is DEERing.
You're about to fuck. You dont stop and talk about some trivial thing that popped into a woman's head. Take her hands behind her back, take off her panties, and shove them in her mouth. Fuck her. Maybe she gets the idea.
NEPat10 1y ago
What is DEERing?
I can definitely say she has repeatedly interrupted the moment to discuss some trivial things and it takes me out of the zone.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
A core concept of TRP.
It's explained here: https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/talking-with-women-always-dare-never-deer.50493
whytehorse2021 1y ago
She's got it backwards. I make my wife bite my neck and scratch me with her claws(vampire fetish). I can't imagine getting hard from biting her. I'd probably fuck her up and have to take her to the hospital with her soft girly skin. Maybe your girl has a vampire fetish and is confused that it's supposed to turn her on, not you.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
She's getting you to do what turns HER on........ and can't fathom that this isn't turning YOU on.
yes
Words words words........ it's like explaining a card trick to a dog. So don't do it.
This is the kind of problem you fix with LEADING.
Instead of answering this logically, you tell her to do what you like, then you get hard, then you're both happy.