I met a girl she really is terrific but i know she had a past in college with many hook ups it really bothers me for some reason my friend tells me that every girl has a past, and that virgins don't exist i agree i don't even want a virgin but there is a difference between a girl who had tonnes of hook ups and one night stands and a girl who doesn't it seems like thats just an excuse ive read as well guy saying that every girl has high n count and hook up sthese days is trhis true so we should just accept it?