Say you have a regular looking guy, doesn’t work out much, isn’t very wealthy, spends a lot of time on video games, regular guy. But he has all the Redpill knowledge. He knows not to validate women too much. He knows LTR’s are a bad deal so he is very reluctant to enter one (keeps distance from the girl emotionally). He doesn’t fall in love and act soft after getting pussy.
On the other hand you have a guy who works out a lot and looks amazing. Wealthy. Much handsomer than the regular guy. But he has no redpill knowledge. He drives hours out to see the girl at her place, pays for all the dates, hands out validation and compliments. Treats her like he is ready to jump into a relationship.
Who is the real alpha, who is going to get the girls? Is it a matter of the external or internal.
Would a girl really choose a lesser guy who barely wants to give himself to her over a huge catch who is ready to give himself to her.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Bro. You can find the answers to this basic question and much more in the sidebar and the recommended reading.
Short answer is A is the alpha, B is the beta. They both get girls but get different outcomes.
Read this: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/
aweawea_ 1y ago
I've been consuming online content such as RP and other similar self improvement stuff for years but it always felt fragmented and i did not understand the main message and i thought something is wrong with me because i was still left with a bunch of questions similar to that one.
The thing that has finally started to change my life is The Book of Pook. Probably because its all in one place with not much bs. I recently had that recommended and honestly, even tho i am just starting to implement stuff in real life and i am yet to get pussy, i no longer feel like "i don't get it" anymore.
I don't think i am qualified yet to give advice but i feel like giving my opinion and maybe someone could correct me if i am wrong.
First off, i don't think the first guy you described should be called a regular guy, playing a lot of video games is honestly not normal, this is coming from someone who admits they were addicted after denying it for over a decade. Working out is a must, even just for yourself, and it helps in numerous ways and its just a great thing. Wealth is not but having a plan to improve over time is. All the red pill "knowledge" is nothing compared to going out and getting experience with women. I don't think there is alpha or beta and certainly neither of those is an alpha (they could be but not for those qualities). And if there is an alpha, its internal, not external (as per your question, Pook has that covered and everything else you asking). Also i don't think an LTR is necessarily a "bad deal" and something to avoid.
At this point i think the most important thing for me is just going out, becoming more normal (i want it) and interact with women while keeping aligned with RP and continually improving and humanizing myself.
PS: I am open to getting destroyed if i still have it wrong. I am here to learn.
financehardo420 1y ago
obv person A has redpill internalized so his approach with women, if/when he does interact w them might be better. however it’s going to be an uphill battle for him to get in the position w a chick. by all standards he’s average af. doesn’t lift, isn’t attractive or rich etc. has no value to offer a woman besides that he won’t put her on a pedestal. while these days doing shit like that makes you stand out, it only works if you yourself are desirable ie high value.
other guy is basically a description of me lmfao. and me being too eager for commitment w my oneitis is pretty much what ruined it. however, bc at the end of the day i am a high value male (wealthy + attractive etc), she’s still all over me. if i really want i can get her back easily. on the other hand, having been bit in the ass by the experience, i’m 10000000x more reluctant to act the same towards other women now. dude B might be a bit overly nice but given enough negative experiences he’ll learn to unconsciously apply redpill to his lifestyle. or actually read ab the redpill. being wealthy and attractive = women are constantly interested in him; just a matter of time tbh.