They always are available for me, let me fuck them as nasty as i want, they never turn down sex, they never outright disrespect me like some girls do to some guys, they are always pleasant.

But sometimes i get a bit irritated from more "minor" disrespect like being 15 minutes late, occasional "dry" texting, not initiating text as much, texting on the phone when with me, etc.

It makes me feel like I dont have them on lock, but other times i realize that i do: never complaining, always available etc.

The thing is that since these are very minor infractions, i dont really call them out on it, because i think thats bordering into insecure/controlling. I recall my dad blowing up over the smallest things before, and me losing respect for him deep inside because it struck me as insecure.

Its like i wont be 100% happy until they fix the small things. But I believe that this trait, is a good thing. A girl wants a strict partner to discipline them, its the root of bdsm and dominance.

It makes me feel a bit ridiculous for complaining about small things (to my self, not her), when there are girls out there who fuck their boyfriends once a month, dont suck dick. dont swallow, dont let him pull her hair, talk shit about him in front of his friends, etc.

It makes these minor infractions seem trivial in the big picture and like im oversensitive.

Does anyone else struggle with these? Are these "minor infractions" fine? Is there such thing as perfect game where the girl doesnt even commit any minor infractions, i would like to know, considering most guys are actually beta with women.