I'm honestly surprised that this wasn't talked about a lot on r/asktrp but here we have it: what are your experiences when approaching girls when they have their own company around them?
I usually find the hottest girls are always going out in public with their girl friends. I've seen this at the gym, grocery store, school etc. I've never approached a girl in a group due to the fear of her friend cock-blocking/humiliating me.
Nadox12 2y ago
Hi mate,
I approached a ton of girls, single or in groups, alone or with my friend. I dont think there is a huge difference between being solo or in a group. But you should focus on the friend too. Maybe its even better to talk with the friend more than with your target.
I even had the experience in the evening when I was approaching groups with my friend (not in clubs but like on streets with bars or like random in a crowded place) I had a lot success, even more than in daygame.
So dont worry about that, just have fun, you can meet girls with a bitch ass attidude while there are alone or in a group. So there is no difference.
You can use direct approaches but I switched to indirect approaches for groups, because I had so many times the situation that the friend was way cooler than my initial target. While approaching indirect you can choose your target during the conversation, keep that in mind :)
User4566 2y ago
Could you give some examples of indirect approaches you've used? Thanks man
Nadox12 2y ago
As everyone says you can say literally anything, it depends on how you say it.
Most of time we just asked them if they know a cool bar around here. That was the opener after they have answered we just started with cold reads xD "You look like you are from ..." And thats it basically now its on you to run game.
Another examples: "Hey you know where blabla is..." "Hey you know how to go to..."
hannulv 2y ago
The goal here is to internalize the approaches and body language that display high value. Studies show that an audience can determine whether a public speaker will be good within the first 2 seconds. Similar shit goes on during an approach... a fumbling walk, deferential head bow, etc, will be self-disqualifying.
Start with a system, like mystery method. (Almost any system will do as a starting point.) The mystery boys were chubby and fugly, but they learned how to move and act in a way that conveyed confidence and high value. Once you have real confidence and value, it will come more naturally, but in the beginning you need to master a system of approaching that works so that you can behave differently than the disqualifying fear that you feel. Practice your sets on groups of girls that aren't that hot, so you aren't nervous until you get things down. As you get experienced and comfortable, the stage fright will become manageable, and will even start to help you. Master test takers and actors feed on the anxiety they feel to power their performance. You will eventually do the same.
STAYShredded 2y ago
I find girls are usually more receptive when in a group Tbh, they are already in a social state and will find you slightly less intimidating particularly if ur a tall dude as they have a girlfriend around.
User4566 2y ago
Dude, I am tall. 6'4" to be exact.
Maybe that does scare girls.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Ok, have done it, and honestly it's terrifying but the results can really be worth it.
You have to get to know the whole group. Anyone who you leave out will poison everyone else against you. Usually 1-2 will warm to you pretty easily. Or as a friend of mine said "great thing about a group: at least one of them will find you attractive".
Basically you befriend the group, flirt with the target, don't concentrate on her straight away.
The biggest danger is that the group will conspire to palm off their fatty onto you. Be aware of this dynamic and be friendly and courteous to the unattractive ones, don't flirt with them much, and make sure that you are not amenable to being the one to take care of the unattractive single one.
Bulba 2y ago
Don’t go straight for the girl, display high value to the group first and try to conquer their trust. Hot girls always go out with their girlfriends because it acts as a natural barrier against guys who don’t have game.