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Narcissism is increasing and it is caused by society becoming more individualized. I have a narcissistic ex-mother and ex-business partner. More men are narcissists than women. More women are BPD than men. A hallmark trait of narcissists is they constantly need praise: "See what I did for you? Wasn't that nice of me?". Another trait is belittling others: "Wow, you can't even do THAT right". And one last trait is they will start arguments so they can tell you how great they are: "You asshole. I cook, clean, do everything around here".

What's really funny is they have an insecurity. My mom was the fat girl with a skinny sister. My partner was beaten by his father. Once you uncover their insecurity they unleash narcissistic rage. When you stop giving them praise it's just constant fighting which is usually when people end the relationship with the narcissist.

Yes and whenever I come across them, I turn the tables and carry on with my life as if they don't exist. Sometimes, I get some good reactions out of them and they basically beg me to talk to them whenever I see them in person.

Other times, I get nothing. Which is fine.

meaning that perhaps narcissism is a real issue with women (and people in general),

It's more of a problem with women.

So I wonder if narcissism is a real and common thing?

it is

and part of my disdain towards women in general comes from the fact that they all lead people on

They do. Instinctive, easy, and they plan for it and maintain it, including instant excuses for when they are called on it. They know what they're doing and they make it happen.

I gathered this opinion after all the retards on Reddit said it’s fine for a girl to go out of her way and to pretend to be interested and pull someone in, claiming that it’s the guy’s fault because “guys like you make girls uncomfortable so they lie to be safe”,

reddit is full of women and betas.

Our gynocentric society blame men for everything (including female behviour) and absolves women of all responsibility (see above about it being a man's fault).

The whole "they lie to be safe" is just an excuse, because the same behaviour happens online where safety is not a concern.

So my point is, IF leading people on is a narcissistic trait, that means that it is possible that not every girl is a piece of shit, just as long as you can find a girl who isn’t a narcissist.

Some are better than others, but there are no unicorns.

I read that narcissists say shit to pull people in, called lovebombing, but it’s only for their ego.

BPD people does this too.

This was a huge issue with oneitis, so if it’s an actual condition she had and not just how women behave, then it’s compelling evidence that women aren’t all total heartless cunts, only the narcissistic ones.

Most are somewhat narcissistic, selfish. Women are mostly sponges, men mostly givers. They vary, but it's not like women have protective instincts towards men.

I’ve even heard people here, however, say leading people on isn’t treating the person being led on like shit, but I’ve thought about it and I disagree

It's treating people like shit, and anyone who says otherwise is purely pro-female and fuck men. Which is most people.

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