Yo. Started new semester = new half year class with new people. Went home with girl after class to do homework, after that we went to her room after and after some time + tension she initiated, and I tried to escalate but she asked if we could just b friends. I said that I'd rather if we could b more than that, but friends was ok (since we're same class didnt wanna outright refuse), but we ended up making out for some time, but she had to go n I followed her halfway to the bus (my home direction anyway) we held hands n' when I said bye and left she called my name to make out in the middle of the road. Next class no teacher and we had alrdy decided to do it together. we met up at school but she said she was tired and wanted to do it at home (without directly inviting me) worst part I was not on my game that day at all, and also tired and should've went home or stayed at school to finish (but didn't) and even asked if we should do it at her place, she seemed tired and conflicted too. we touched and cuddled abit but didn't kiss and tension had definitely deescalated. we finished schoolwork pretty fast and I said she could sleep and I'd just go home. next class she was absent n i thought I'd try reaching out via text to gauge her interest which was completely ignored until hours later with just "no" prolly bad move, was purely impulse). anyway this story was just to give some context. what should i do next/monday? obv. didnt text her further, but should I try and defuse and stay as friends or act like nothing happend - although I'd rather get back to where we left it day 1 since we get along pretty well. but yea, how to handle this?
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DeadPill 2y ago
It’s still kinda early. If you haven’t hooked up by the 5th time you hang out with her, I’d just move on. If she really likes you, removing your attention from her will make her wonder what she can do to get it back.
Growing 2y ago
Dude.
Don't shit where you eat.
You'll regret it if you do.
And don't agree to friendship with bitches. Just be indifferent.
Honestly, you should read a lot of RP content.
You seem not to understand.
Don't ask, suggest.
"Can we go to my place?" Is cringy even for me to type.
"Hey. I got some fresh sheets today. Come on, I'll show how laundry done by a man feels like"
Concerning her, end it.
Tell her some shit like it's better if we remained classmates.
SwallowMyPill 2y ago
Don't care much about "shitting where i eat" since it's only 1 class with 4 months left. Valuable experience so don't regret it.
Agree that text was cringy.
Suppose I will let it go and pull back. What do u think I abt proceeding as if nothing has happened at all - still making eye contact and flirting/teasing for fun as I'd do with any other girl?
RedPill115 2y ago
It sounds like she feels like the chemistry isn't there. Maybe it's not a match between the two of you, maybe there's something wrong with her - I've known girls who sometimes like the attention but don't actually like sexual stuff (they're not common but there's plenty that look very attractive), or other girls who have gone on antidepressants and it killed their sex drive.
It sounds like she wants to back out without hurting your ego, it's best to just let them do that, stop being concerned about it, and move on.
SwallowMyPill 2y ago
Ye who knows. I'll just pull back and move on