She is going to end things, 100%. I could sense it from her tone of voice (telegram voice note) , she wants to meet tomorrow to talk, this comes after a few days we haven't talked , she also mention the last couple of days were wild for her since her therapy session (she is holding varios trauma etc, I am guessing our things came up during that session and she realized we are not suitable or whatever).
It sucks but it is what it is, was just my turn. Now again she wants me to meet tomorrow and talk, I really don't want it to be too dramatic, just a quick finish so we can go on our separate ways, how should I approach this to make it as less dramatic as possible?
SeasonedRP 2y ago
Send her a text that says "This relationship isn't working out for me. I'd like to end it and see other people." And then ignore her and start talking to other girls. Don't meet with her tomorrow.
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Listen to this OP. She already checked out. Don't do closures.
https://archive.is/snbRX
"This relationship isn't working out for me.
I'd like to end it and see other peopleGood luck out there."Hanscheezburger 2y ago
it's good that you accepted this. keep that mindset as you go in. remember it wasn't her fault or yours that your LTR did not work out. And even if someone was largely responsible, there's no point putting blame on anyone now. Thank her for the good times, wish her the best and move on.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Get some liquid ass and a pooter. If she breaks up with you unleash the shitty breakup method. Act all sick, ask her to drive you to the hospital, release the liquid ass in her car and make fart sounds the whole way. Take an uber home from the hospital.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Call her....... "What do you want to talk about? I think it's only fair that I know what's on the table before we meet".
Then meet in a public place, eg coffee, and bail if she's dumping you. Thank her for all the great times, smile, hug and move on.
chadmoney 2y ago
Ghost her. Closure gets you nothing
Growing 2y ago
"Yeah. You need to tell me why my phone has been misbehaving lately"
Agree and amplify.
Chances are, since you are not taking it seriously, she won't.
But if you see her lowering investment, pull away.
If she continues, plate her.
If she continues, move on.