First of all in no way am I trying to say people shouldn’t be confident, I think everyone should be comfortable with them selves. But for me for example, as I a kid I was never confident, however as I grew older got my body right, my career and other skills, from that work my confidence came. I see a lot of girls that are unattractive and also not that successful in other areas in their lives. However they walk around like they are a lottery win, again I support people feeling good about themselves. I’m just confused how they get this self belief from thin air. Kinda makes me jealous I had to work so hard for mine.
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pofkaf about a year ago
99% of women aren't confident at all. It's a facade that was created by constantly seeking validation on social media. Put them in a stressful situation, and they fold. Put them in the presence of a truly dominant man, and they submit.
SgtBuchannon99 about a year ago
That doesnt mean they are not confident per se. Theyre just not built for that. A lot of women i know are socially confident on a communal level: think workplace, school, social circles.
Theyre not made to run businesses, build the world, etc. So its not folding.
Boris1998 about a year ago
I can personally attest to this. When I was a little boy, I used to find girls intimidating; they always seemed too confident and unapproachable. As I got older, school and life became more stressful for everyone. I now see multiple girls legit crying and mentally breaking down on Snapchat, lunch, classrooms every day. Its fucking pathetic.
SgtBuchannon99 about a year ago
I agree, but man im assuming you are 18-25? The coronavirus era is rough, i would hate to go thru it at 18 and in college. Good thing it hit after college for me.
These little girls were normal in 2019 and once the covid BS started now theyre starting college + real world + dealing with BS political covid stuff.
Boris1998 about a year ago
Yeah, im 18 and starting college this fall. I agree that the COVID era was rough but life keeps moving. I am likely going to continue not entertaining relationships as a college student. Too much BS and not enough time if I want to focus on achieving my education and personal goals.
SgtBuchannon99 about a year ago
Yeah you understand my point? Same applies to you too. College is already stressful now add covid lockdowns and bs associated with it.
pfeilmacher about a year ago
It's all a show, brother. Women are insanely insecure....why do you think they lie, cheat, branch swing, and manipulate so much.
Vermillion-Rx Admin about a year ago
A lot of women get propositioned for sex even though most of the time it's because they are only better than masturbation and not because they're hot. But they hamster it anyway that they're extremely desirable.
This is only compounded by the fact that any time women start a dating app profile they get matched like crazy.
The same thirsty fuckers also spam their insta and Facebook with likes and comments.
It's all BS but women leech that attention like it's precious oxygen.
But deep down they're not confident, they can never keep a man
RedPill115 about a year ago
Women have a different "dominance hierarchy" than men do.
The closest men who act similar to women are middle managers. They always "need" to act like they're important and in charge, and it has nothing to do with how they actually feel. After a certain line additional "confidence" from them always signals a lot more insecurity.
NeoSpartan about a year ago
What are you talking about? I think this all your head dude. I've only ever met a very small number of confident girls. Most are meek and shy af.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a year ago
Some girls are just really bitchy, and I think this is an internal way to hamster for the reason that they don’t get interest from men. “I’m standoffish, im blunt, these dudes ain’t shit and I don’t hide it”.
I don’t have the link, but there was that obese girl who thought a guy was shorter than her (or pretended to think that) who responded to “can I pull you?” With “Fuck no”.
I guarantee you that girl wasn’t even getting pumped and dumped by guys as good looking as that guy (he wasn’t Chad but wasn’t as ugly as her), let alone LTR’d.
francthegreat about a year ago
its the validation they get from men and society 100%. even the “shy” ones have massive egos that they have learned not to display
SgtBuchannon99 about a year ago
As someone who had 9-10/10 looks growing up as a male, which i imagine is what its like for a lady, its just natural. I was naturally treated as a Chad since 15 when i hit puberty. I remember girls having dozens of crushes on me even in elementary. Naturally i grew confident because people treated me like i was a chad, and girls did too.
Im older now in my 20s im still good looking but in a more manly way, i lost my boy-ish charms but i basically have a handsome face and swole body. I used to walk into any room and guys and girls would comment on my looks, now as im older its more of a charisma thing instead of coasting on my looks.
I imagine this is what its like to be a girl. When you look fucking good, you know it, you look in the mirror and go damn... and when you have girls throwing themselves at you they put you on the pedastool not yourself. In other words pretty girls think theyre the shit because the pedastools guys put them on.
Hanscheezburger about a year ago
That's not confidence. That's entitlement coming from constant validation.
If they can wear flip flop, tshirt and shorts, no makeup to go on a date with a hot guy, then I'd call them confident
mattyanon Admin about a year ago
It's largely bluff and fake. Neg them and they'll crumble.
From men making clear and consistent offers to them. You'd be confident too if half the women you meet were offering you meals and drinks and company and support for sex.
Yours is real, will last longer, isn't based on other people, is more independent, etc.
whoami_root about a year ago
Women get approached all the time for sex, which they (mistakenly) use as validation that they're a worthy women for a relationship. I mean even if you think about what we preach here in TRP - cold approach hundreds of women. I mean, if you were hit on at least 1x per day from age 13+, wouldn't you think you were the shit too? That's where the whole abundance mindset from women comes from - there's always a guy that's going to hit on them.