Have been together for 8 years. She's ideal, if you ask me, except that when my health goes down, she starts with the shit tests. I haven't escalated so far, I just ignore.
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Deiandre 2y ago
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Semenbaptism 2y ago
I've got an idea, it's called divorce.
Had a buddy that got cancer, his wife left him because it was too much to deal with. He's beat cancer and that psycho bitch is gone. If you ask him, life's going good.
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Musicgoon425 2y ago
So ideal to you means kick a man when he's down? Sounds like a low value woman to me.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Massive red flag
Here is what happens:
when you are sick, she feels threatened by losing everything you are giving her, and she focuses on herself and starts to get abusive towards you. This is what narcissistic people do.
Shit tests are a mild form of abuse.
in short: fundamentally she cares more for herself than for you, even when you're sick and she's fine.
moorekom 2y ago
This. A loving wife should be ride or die. This woman isn't that. She's there for the perks mainly.
pfeilmacher 2y ago
Sounds like a horrible cunt.
She obviously doesn't respect you. She's probably had other cock in her since you've been married.
You committed to her, but she did not commit to you. DIVORCE.
Growing 2y ago
Why are the comments so extreme.
It's nothing. Rollo wrote anout this too. The way you'd hate seeing your wife mildly slutty in public is the same way women feel about weakness.
Shit tests are juat a way of confirming that you are still the man.
You want her sympathy? She'll never give it to you when you want it. It is best coming from her.
Let's say you are struggling to get to the remote. Struggle all the way through to show you don't need her.
This says to her subconscious mind that stupid things don't take you out. The more she sees you struggle and achieve something, the more inclined she'll be to help you.
"Let me help you"
"I'm fine"
"But you are in pain"
"I said I'm fine"
That's you withdrawing from het which is alpha. Women seek out alpha. She'll find excuses to be around you and surprise! The excuse will be bringing you things she knows you need.
Let's put her aside for a minute.
Does anyone owe you anything? Compassion, love, kindneas?
Nothing? O.k..
Let's go back to her.
Do you think she owes you anything?
In as much as the answer to that question sucks, it is teue.
Live life like it solely depends on you. Others are supporting characters who can or cannot assist you. They have their main character role in their lives.
In short, kill the codependency.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
If your point is "women are like this", then you're right.
If your point is "women are like this therefore it is fine to commit to them" the no...... just fucking no. Not all women will shit test you when you're poorly.... but the ones that do should not receive commitment. These are the same women that will betray you in a heartbeat when it suits them.
Female nature: yes. Acceptable: no.
Growing 2y ago
Commitment is a man's choice.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Pressure flip. Works every time on my wife.