this is the first plate who don't afraid to lose me every time she's upset or i ignore her because she causing drama, she either blocked me/delete me on social media/ delete my number or will not initiate for 2-3months but she always comeback eventually to be my plate again.
been like this for 2years on and off. unlike other plate when they know they did something bad they will communicate or say sorry if they know i don't like what they did. but this one plate seems like she's ready to lose me even tho it's obvious she like/love and want to LTR me the sex is hot when everything is ok.
she's 9/10 and lot of option and maybe that's the reason why she's not afraid to lose me when there's alittle fight between us?
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Because you're a simp. You keep rewarding her bad behavior and she knows it, hence the attitude.
LudgerKresnik 2y ago
enlighten me, how you can say i keep rewarding her bad behavior when she did something i don't like i always withdraw attention and don't give her my time? i always soft next her when she did something i don't like and 2-3months is enough to let her come back so i can f*ck her again.
but the fact that she don't learn her lesson even tho i keep soft nexting her doesn't make sense unless you are saying hard next her and never let her return to my life so i "don't reward her behavior"?
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Bingo. She gives you shit, soft next. Repeat the shit, soft next again. Third time's the charm, hard next. You're her safety net. Don't play her game.
Chad pumps and dumps, guess I call OP, he always puts up with my shit. It's simple, you don't like her behavior, hasta la vista. If you're ok with her shit, which you proved you are, don't whine she doesn't respect you.
This one is batshit BPD drama queen. Stop painting red flags green.
I had bitches playing that game, after a while, you just drop them. They'll spam you for a while, then move on. You can fuck her on a night out if you see her, but treat as ONS.
Initial-Glove 2y ago
She doesnt see it as "soft nexting".
She sees it as something that will always be there bc it always is.
LudgerKresnik 2y ago
got it, so when she initiate again should i just ignore her and act like she never exist?
johnnysmallseed 2y ago
Another Oneitis post. You wonder why she doesn't desire you? Because you are a chump who comes back like a good dog and she knows it. Let her go.