Short question so you don't have to read the details, how do you maintain as a plate? This one leaves on a mission in January. So short term plate automatically. Just don't know how often to contact her. Do you always invite over? Do you continue to do dates or just go more for sex faster and frequently? Obviously I need more options, and I'm working on that.
Date Details: We had randomly met twice before. Once I asked her to dance when she was waiting for food. Another time at the lake my buddy sent her over to me for a canoe ride. Got her number after the ride. Only did light Kino during ride and asked her about christians having sex, which she said she is not a virgin.
I took TRP advice and invited straight to my place. Also flipped the conversation when she couldn't make the time, saying give me a couple dates/times. Did a brief walk through the house then we did a hike up my hill in back. At top I stood behind her, caressing and kissing, reaching for the pussy, which she aggressively swatted away. On down the mountain we went.
Once back we played some pool. Shoved my cue up her cooter, and she was unphased making the shot.
Back to the couch, I positioned her back to me and I caressed, tugged her hair. Kissing her neck. She turned around and aggressively came at me like a Xena Warrior Princess. "Take off my shirt" I told her. I worked her top off but she need to instruct me through the front opening bra. I held her hand to the bedroom. "Take my pants off." were my next instruction, and without hesitation, they were off.
I went for her pants and again, swatted hard. But she did suck my tungue pretty good earlier.... So I took my dick to her face. Took forever to get hard even with a little viagra. Maybe fatigue?
It'd be 30 days since female interaction, so I was teatering on an orgasm with a limp dick. Finally, semi erect, I fucked her face hard until I shot a massive load in her mouth. She swallowed everything maintaining suction on my cock as I shoved her face on my dick.
"Better?" she asked.
Right afterwards she had an alarm on her phone to go home (or wherever) . So I walked her to her car and swatted her ass goodbye.
Fun Stats: She is 5'11 fit/jacked/feminine. Nice tits, soft body over her build. Feminine face, thick lips. Leg press 500+. I don't know how one would rate her. She was in a class of her own. 7-9 I'm guessing, 10 doesn't exist.
I'm 5'7 155 lb fit. Yeah her stats are nuts in comparison.
Intrepid_Place53900 about a year ago
she leg presses 500+? I don't think so
MonkMode about a year ago
She competes in highland games.
I'll get her in the gym and confirm. Lol
Intrepid_Place53900 about a year ago
make her legs go all the way down and then press all the way up. :)
I can do 500 easy if I go half way, and I'm an old bastard who doesn't want to blow his knees out
whytehorse2021 about a year ago
Before you throw away a potentially good woman, find out why she won't have sex. If it's the whole waiting for marriage thing ask why she's not a virgin. Some women actually do make mistakes and learn from them. Or maybe she was on the rag. If it's the marriage answer, friend zone her and save her for later. I think I talked to my wife once a week while we were friends and I was fucking other women. Eventually you'll have "had your fun" and will be "ready for a real woman" and you can be like oh what about my friend over here, yeah okay let's make babies.
Anonytrp about a year ago
Well done, keep pursing her
unplugged69 about a year ago
All plates break, that's why you are always gaming OTHER chicks because investing more in the ones you have gives you no returns whereas investing a little bit in new prospects can net you very good returns.
The fact that she asked "better" means you were giving off needy vibes and showing you were an average frustrated chump. You're also pedestalizing her, saying how she's much better, etc. She's JUST a woman dude, women are worthless. It reminds me of that story of Senera Williams saying she can beat any man at Tennis below rank 200, some random dude from Rank 203 easily beat her AND her sister while smoking and drinking on the court. He was middle aged and overweight and they barely scored any points, it was LAUGHABLE. Needless to say they never played a man again.
You see, even the most amazing woman in the world at ANY given task, is a loser in the land of men. So next time you see some awesome woman and are in awe, remember if she had a dick she would be a fucking loser, she's only on a pedestal because she has a vagina so remove her from that pedestal immediately and your chances will improve dramatically. Imagine she's your bratty little sister and treat her as such, tease her, make fun of her, DON'T take her too seriously.
As for the "I couldn't get hard", it's not because you were tired. It's because as most millenial men you were trained like cattle to watch porn, CONSOOOOM pot and fast food, play video games and fry your dopamine receptors. Here's what you need to do:
Eat clean, no fast food, learn how to cook lean protein and veg
LIFT, start with 5x5 as it's a simple program to start with but VERY effective
Now start gaming women, chatting with women, flirting with women all without being needy for sex, you know when you get home you can rub one out if you need to (WITHOUT ANY PORN) but always try to maintain female interaction even if you're not smashing them. Eventually you should have 2-3 plates spinning at any given time, but you need to KEEP doing this and talking to new women. You don't know when a plate will break or when you find a better one and wish to replace Karen ballbuster with Stacy sugartits, got it?
Keep this up for a few months as it will take some time to re-train your weak body and mind, I guarantee that if you don't give up you will see results and in 1-2 years you will be a completely different man. Don't feel bad, this society is shit for all of us and we were made to be weak to make it easier to rule us. Men are more independent thinkers that's why you constantly see ads AGAINST men, and constantly see them push the type of degeneracy that damages men the most. Making pot legal, and porn legal, and prostitution and all that weimar shit was always going to happen, you need to be a strong man not the weak cattle they are trying to make you into.
Ideally you should start reading stoicism, it will help you deal with a hostile world. The ancients knew what the fuck they were talking about, for some extra lolz you should look up the play "assemblywomen" written 2000 years ago in ancient greece, it's a comedy of women taking power in Athens and becoming fat feminists who try to make it a communist dystopia. The sad thing is that it's happening today and it was predicted LONG ago.
MonkMode about a year ago
I was more curious on communication with plates, frequency, content, and type of contact (always purely sexual?). Are they initiating contact more than you? Does the game change after you fuck?
Still gaming women. One flaked last night and the other was a tinder chick giving off bad vibes. Also hit the club, but it was gay.
I don't think I gave pedastal behavior. I dominated the pool games, I maintained DARE (best I know, it's new to me), maintained forward position while walking, generally was aloof to everything she said. This bitch was a beast in comparison is all I was trying to get at. She made several comments regarding her Simp orbiter (or intimidated guy friends). Her stature makes her unapproachable by most men. Been porn and jerk freeish for 3 years (used to jerk 1-3x a day) .
Stoic reads 6 month. I only do so many passages a day to better internize the ideas. Was focused on rest of RP reads prior. Lifting 4 years. Fast food free 20ish years. Haven't even owned a microwave 20ish. Only used pot briefly to quit drinking 4 years ago. Video games disappeared with alcohol. 37 years old gaming sub 24. I swear women are all broken at 30.
Will read assembly women. Thanks.
unplugged69 about a year ago
Good job maintaining dominance, DARE and aloof/IDGAF, I think you did a great job and you should keep going in that direction as you will improve a lot.
Great job getting off porn, that shit is pure poison, and I'm very glad you are reading stoicism I feel like it does not get preached enough around here but it helped me immensely.
Man it sounds like you are on the right path and you don't need to change much at all, keep doing what you're doing. You're never going to be a perfect superman but you'll be better than 90% of guys and that's all you need, just be the best version of yourself.
As for communication with plates, it's really up to you but generally speaking I meet up once a week with each plate, I don't call them and I keep texting to a minimum but I do a bit more than logistics to give them some comfort that way. It's hard to say how much to text because each girl is different, some text more than others, try to adhere to 2/3 golden ratio as that's always worked well for me in the past.
The game does change after you fuck because before you were doing all the initiating and now she will initiate 20-40% of the time, but you're still the guy and you should initiate more. However while the game does change since the power balance shifts after you smash, you should act the SAME, it will fuck with their heads. I remember reading years ago that when you first kiss on the first date (ideally in the first hour or two) then you DO NOT mention it, you go back to being aloof, I didn't get it at the time but still used it. Basically she's sitting there thinking what the fuck we just kissed and he's talking about snowboarding, what an asshole chad is.
The same shit applies to sex, you fuck her and tell her to leave since you gotta go to bed early. She will text you, try to get comfort, you provide the bare minimum. Next time you meet you do the SAME shit, date, 3 venues, kino, polarize, be hot and cold, take her back to your place, escalate, LMR, freeze out, etc. You keep doing this until she starts doing non-sexual favours for you and basically gives you the "I love you right now" eyes, that's when you will need to dish out a bit more comfort, for example after sex cuddle with her a bit because it will make her feel a LOT better.
Or if she starts saying shit like "oh where is this going" etc, kiss her and hug her, that often provides enough comfort without having to say shit and then her hamster can spin and make up some stupid story about why she's still fucking you after 6 months of no commitment.
MonkMode about a year ago
Thanks. This is very helpful.
Musicgoon425 about a year ago
You keep escalating and fucking to maintain her as a plate. She sounds high maintenance. Get more options. This one is going to be gone soon.
MonkMode about a year ago
She gone. Was semi sexual in 2nd meet up text and she responded with she didn't want to be sexual right now with someone. She just sucked my dick, so her pussy was just off limits. Should probably have been discreet but yeah she would have been a lot of maintenance.