3rd time meeting with a girl now, we talked about stuff and life and I talked openly about myself and my goals (some of you would see this as a problem but the reason I told these is for her to get the impression that a relationship will never happen) and as to what I can offer her. she said relationship is definitely not what she is looking for, yet she is still suggesting dates and shit (lol). I told her I wanna keep people on good terms and don't want to hurt anyone (maybe went a bit too far here) and kind of gave her the impression of maybe we should end it now. she told me she wanted to keep seeing me. this was yesterday and I told her I'd message her next week because she started saying that I never initiate contact (haven't once). some background here: she hangs out with some of my friends (same school as them) and goes to the same gym as me (FUCK) so that's why I'm acting so careful. when it came down to fucking, I told that the condom feels so senseless and she hinted at she being on pills but she backed out and said can't remember if she took it on time.
so for the questions: should i fuck her raw? condom is so annoying, but i don't want to get her pregnant either. not worried about stds should i feel bad for cutting it off whenever i want? if i do want to cut her, should i do it f2f or via text? ask anything, I'll respond.
MonkMode 2y ago
You should have fucked her by now. Never trust a bitches birth control especially if she saying dumb shit like I forgot. She is baiting for pregnancy. No, you shouldn't have feelings. Text "I really enjoyed our time, but let's just be friends". If she goes crazy, just ghost her. They get it. Face to face is probably dumb unless you want a last fuck.
If you do fuck her w/out a condom, pull out and cum on the hoe.
itsentirelypossible 2y ago
we did have sex but i didnt penetrate her, the condom feels so shit so my dick flopped a bit after that. i still managed to get off. she said no to sex w/ condom because "i dont wanna have children" (duh). and yeah i was being a bit too nice i guess, if i wanna cut it off i cut it off. i'm the prize.
a woman can still get pregnant from precum but yeah i kind of plan on doing that maybe. fucking and pulling out.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
(Never trust a bitches birth control)
OMG THIS!!
NEVER trust them and it's not just that, hey STI's. Not fun, especially the ones that can't be cured.
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Your feelings are stupid and you should feel bad for having them.
Stick to what you want and don't be swayed. Keep the frame on your side. Ever tried to wife up a girl and they gave you the "I'm just enjoying life right now", "I'm not ready for a bf" or something similar? Keep that as a canned line like that whenever you get hit with this shit.
Not exactly sure how you can have sex without penetration but hey, do you. Condoms every time.
itsentirelypossible 2y ago
you get what I meant by that. and yeah. I learned from that and I learned from this, gotta stop giving a fuck about her and keep true to the trp beliefs. I didn't go full blue pill, I feel like I hold my frame, I just told her what I wanted with my life when she asked and some other shit, I know enough not to look like a beta bitch. but I gotta stop giving a fuck and use her how I want. cut her off when I want. she develops feels? too bad, good bye. I'll hit her up next week for a meet and before that, not gonna talk to her
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Your mindset seems to be right and it's not terrible if a girl gets feels. Just don't lead them on, or catch oneitis for red flags.
I'm going to give you a piece of advice that might help overall:
"...and keep true to the trp beliefs."
As helpful as trp is in strengthening your life and interactions, it's not a cult, culture or complete philosophy. All it is, is a tool. A great educational one at that, but simply a tool nonetheless. At the end of the day, you have to live your own life and basing it on solely trp- instead of your own wants and beliefs and needs, supplemented with an understanding of what's been shown through this lens, is foolish. Have fun out there brotha
itsentirelypossible 2y ago
cheers mate all the best to you. do you use condoms every time you fuck? dude it feels so dull.. I also seem to not get off easy, some issues with my dick I think
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Plates, yea absolutely. I go for the thinnest ones and buy in bulk to save $. Sucks to wear one but peace of mind afterwards is worth it.
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whytehorse2021 2y ago
After clown world mutilated my genitals when I was a baby(circumcision) I can't feel anything with a condom on so I always go raw and cum right on her cervix to maximize the chance of pregnancy. I prefer doing it in countries where abortion is illegal and I make sure they don't know who I am or where I live. Usually cheating wives or prostitutes.
itsentirelypossible 2y ago
what the fuck :D you all right bro?
master-of-losers 2y ago
Doing it with cheating wives is the best, then you know there will be a cuck father to raise your child.