Back in my pre-TRP BP beta loser days, I'd sometimes get the dreaded "I need more space", "I need to focus on myself", etc blabla.
Post-TRP this hasn't happened that much anymore, but I still wonder what a good reaction would be on the spot, like right after she says it. If I disagree then I'd seem needy, and if I agree then I'd lose frame.
I'm thinking of just making a joke, something like "Oh, you mean you're getting fat so you need more space?".
What would be some other good responses?
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Dude. If a girl ever and I means EVER tells you that she needs space, give her all the space in the world.... Walk out that fucking door and don't look back. If she blows up your phone, leave it be for a week or so. This is not a test, she needs to miss your attention, comfort and commitment. If she reaches out to you after whatever period you decide, she HAS to prove she's capable of being in your life. End of Story.
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whytehorse2021 2y ago
I'd really like to meet this Space guy. So many women want him.
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
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unplugged69 2y ago
Don't treat it like s shit test you need to squash with some funny line. Just say something like "Ok cool" and leave. I guarantee you that she will blow up your phone to try to get your attention, act busy and aloof but don't be butthurt.
At this point I would hard next because if she has to tell you she needs space it means that:
a) she's already getting dicked by brad or chad or who ever the fuck
b) you are giving her waaay too much attention and validation
c) she thinks you are beta and has you hooked.
You can just about survive scenario b, but not a or c.
If you are experienced you can just withdraw attention and the plate her later but this won't work well for a noob since she's contacting you to regain frame and once you're in her frame again you are her beta bux loser. Best to move on to a new chick
master-of-losers 2y ago
Thanks! I sometimes have trouble distinguishing what should be treated as a shit test and what should be taken seriously.
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Keep reading and learning. These are basics.
Musicgoon425 2y ago
That joke is pretty cringey. I wouldn't say that. You'll look super insecure and butthurt.
"I need more space", is womanese for ,"you don't give me the tingles beta boy". When she says that, she just dumped you.
Most chicks that find you high value won't give you space. Usually they are clingy as fuck and obsessive.
What you want is for them to feel low key dread when you are alone. Like some ho will come around and hop on that dick. That's the sweet spot right there.
Growing 2y ago
In person, walk away On text, don't respond On call, " I could use some of that time for something"
SeasonedRP 2y ago
Give it to her. It means you two are done.