As title says im looking for some tips on proceeding with dating and vetting for possible (o)LTRs, and how (if?) you think that process should differ from plating.

If any existing resource covers this more please point me in the right direction.

Im not looking for an LTR specifically but i sometimes want to invest more than others. Current example i have is a chick who might be a good prospect just judging from first date; great sex, submissive, hot as hell, relatively conservative, fun.

She enjoyed it a lot but after the date ive been having some analysis paralysis just thinking of whether i should angle further dates differently than my normal routine (lower value girls usually, no interest in more than sex).

Just try to plate and then upgrade in time? Or invest more in the dates from the get go to potentially show some higher value?