I need some serious advice, I don’t know what to do. I still care for her and she is in danger, but she also did monkey branch on me. What should I do ?
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Anonytrp 2y ago
Let her family know.
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
I think you know the answer to this one.
Interloper 2y ago
She was dead to you the moment she monkey branched, and is no longer your concern.
redhawkes 2 2y ago
GTFO with this simp shit. Not your circus, not your monkeys.
Musicgoon425 2y ago
Don't be captain save a ho.
I had an ex that would drink and get mean. Every once in a while she would text me with a new black eye that each guy she hung out with after me gave her.
I would just say ,"if you stopped drinking and running your mouth you wouldn't have this problem. Go to AA".
This isn't your problem. Don't simp.
Mma67 2y ago
Step 1 - stop talking to her Step 2 - stop caring for her Step 3 - focus on improving yourself Step 4 - find a new chick be the object of your seduction Step 5 - let the old bitch know how much better off you are now and how much hotter your new chick is than her
Overkill_Engine 2 2y ago
If she wanted her welfare to be any of your business, she should have stayed with you. Tell your peepee and ego to shut the fuck up and give her the same treatment you would for a stranger of no sexual interest to you. Real life isn't some beta fantasy novel where rescuing m'lady shows her the power of twue wove and everything ends happily ever after and she sucks your dick again.
Frankly, she's far more likely to resent any direct intercession by you and blame you for the consequences of her choices. Call the cops at most and proceed to fuck off in any direction other than hers.
placer 2y ago
The portrayal of domestic abuse as presented in "The Burning Bed" and permeated in to popular culture is a myth (indeed, people who saw the real fights between Mickey Hughes and Francine Hughes saw it as a case of two people going at each other, and felt "The Burning Bed" was fiction).
The fact of the matter is this: If women were logical and sensible about relationships, they would immediately terminate a relationship the first time he hits her. If women really did not want a relationship where they are physically abused, they can call the police -- there are laws on the books in many states that mandate the police arrest someone if there's a domestic assault incident -- and they can live in a shelter for domestic abuse victims while getting a restraining order and doing everything to stay away from their abuser.
A lot of women want a man who dominates them and abuses them.
That said, there is absolutely no reason for a man to ever hit a woman; for a man to hit a woman is really pathetic and cowardly. If a woman verbally abuses a man to try and make him hit her, he leaves. If a woman attempts to use physical force to stop the man from leaving, the man can use the minimum of physical force necessary to be able to make an exit from the situation, or to attempt to reason with the woman so that he can leave.
A woman will only get out of a relationship with domestic abuse when they are good and ready to, and many women sadly choose a "man" who abuses them.
Source: I have family who have worked extensively with and consoled domestic abuse survivors.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Did you know there are these big dudes with bullet proof vests and guns that get paid to deal with this shit? Just call them and clear your conscience.
BootySpillingOut 2y ago
If there's a real threat can call the police or her friends/family and let them handle it. Not your problem, but if there is a problem you can let the relevant people know about it.
On the surface this just sounds like you're overreacting, needy, attached, and about to make a fool of yourself, but of course idk the story.