Hi. I have a bit of a dilemma. Let's say that another man or woman is disrespecting a girl you care about in X social circle. What is the appropriate response for each gender? Do you stand up for them or is that white knighting?
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coolsocks00 1 2y ago
In general, you dont need to save someone from disrespect. This is white-knighting and you're gonna be Captain Save-a-Hoe who gets a fast pass to the friend zone. You already sound like an orbiter to this girl, which is an issue if you legit dont just want her as a friend.
Appropriate response depends on the situation. Whatever you do dont make the girl the focus. The person behaving badly in a social setting is relevant, the recipient is not.
carnold03 2y ago
Unless the female in question is your grandmother, mother, sister, daughter, or wife, it's best to not concern yourself with how girls allow other guys to treat them. Just accept that if a person doesn't want to be disrespected, they wouldn't continue associating with someone who treats them disrespectfully.
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Not your circus, not your monkeys. Watch the interview with Whisper, he talks about the protective instinct and how to turn on/off.
Whiteknighting for a woman is one of the most retarded beta shit you can do, especially between two bitches. At the end, both of them will turn against you.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
If she's in your friend group, it's not really white knighting. Unless it is.
Tread carefully, but sometimes this can work out.
and as Zavss said.... girls will almost never stick up for you. It's just not how they are wired. What are your motivations for protecting her?