I sometimes wonder why some men are more into women who are more assertive, who have more male traits, who also look slightly more masculine. While other men are into submissive types. I myself can't stand masculine women. Some of the masculine traits I'm talking about, are: they can have loud/deep voices. Some talk back like a sailor. They can be unruly and difficult to deal with. And they give off masculine vibes. I don't really attract these types of women, and I'm glad. But I don't find them attractive. If they're good looking, but masculine, I still don't really want them.
Why do I like feminine women more? Why do I attract them more than the other? IMO, I've found that they're easier to deal with. There is not much of a power struggle, since at least she can let me be the masculine figure in the house who provides structure and leadership, while she nurtures the children. I see them more fit to be housewives, and not career women who put their career above their own family and children.
But my question is: why are some men more into one of the two types of women? What are some common traits or characteristics of men who are attracted to one of the two? Why are you into masculine/feminine women, over the other? I've read that more masculine men tend to attract feminine women. I don't know if that's true, but I'm curious to hear your viewpoint.
slutmagazine 2y ago
Feminine men are the ones who are attracted to masculine women. And vice versa.
This happens because the feminine is insecure, and needs a masculine to provide structure and emotional stability.
In the case of feminine men and masculine women, nature has been perverted. The man is still a child and the woman has twisted herself into becoming something that she shouldn't have become. This is usually because of environment. Feminism for example makes women into inferior men rather than superior women.
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RedTerminal5 2y ago
Yes, very! I have noticed that. I've noticed that many masculine women on average don't seem to like men very much either, since they didn't have a strong father figure to lead them, resulting in them despising other men. Because how a woman's father is, usually indicates how she views men in general. I haven't found many masculine women with good father figures at all. Many of the feminine women I've known usually have a good bond with their fathers.
Yeah, since they didn't have a strong father figure to protect them or teach them values. So they compensate by being manly. But living with someone like that who regularly lives in the fight or flight response, it's just too tiring to deal with. So I'd rather not have that at all.
Eh, with two masculine figures struggling for power and having constant fights, to show who's the most dominant one? Nah, I'd rather not have that. The other thing too, is that when I have children, I want a woman who nurtures the children. I think that families with both masculine and feminine parental influence leads to better and healthier children and families. Having both of the same thing a lot of times just leads to unnecessary conflicts and misery, which is bad for all.
If you've got more things you'd like to mention, don't hesitate. And btw, thank you for the links. Appreciate it ;)
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RedTerminal5 2y ago
I talked to a guy today. He told me he found masculine women 'hot', and that they're masculine, because you allowed them to dominate over you, since they're shit testing you. I don't really agree with that, since there's always power struggle in relationships where both partners are masculine, giving me too many headaches.
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orbilius 2y ago
From the standpoint of evolution, it's important that no womb goes unused. For that reason, male preferences are quite varied.