I dated a girl for 6-7 months. I know it wasn't long but i over emotionally invested in her, and well totally fell in love. I ignored red flags and got burnt badly.
it took me 1.5 years to get over it not joking. I'm now free of her constant memories in my mind and happier but here's my problem.
I've tried dating and being with other girls but it just never really feels like it did with her. I should be happy i dodged a bullet but for some reason i just never really feel the same high i felt with her.
It's gotten to the point i haven't dated or been laid in 8 months now and have lost interest.
BethereinZen 3y ago
For fucks sake I hope this doesn't end up to be me. I will say, I usually feel that way with some of the longer term girls I dated. I feel it heavily but it usually goes away after a few weeks. Maybe check out the book, "master your emotions". Might help. Helped me after a tough breakup, oneitis and all.
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hcltart 3y ago
The first girl I slept with broke up with me the next day(after dating a few months and only oral). It's been 10 years since that, and I still think about her when I'm lonely and sad. The first serious relationship or girl you sleep with is the closest you ever will be to the beta fairytale dream marriage. Once it's gone it's hard to give up on the fairytale.
I will say that when I was fucking much hotter girls(she was a 6/7), she never crossed my mind.
undersiredone 3y ago
dam bro, feels.