Hi, I'm from your SEA guy, your typical 25-ish boy template. have strict parents and living with a strict society too.

I have been married to a girl that I didn't look at much before we get married. now I know how toxic she is and so many red flags from her. I never think of divorce because I think it will become a red flag for me later on when I want to find a new girl. So I think of teaching her how to become "a better girl/human" and decreasing some of her red flags if I can... and many of my friends said that too

"no woman is perfect" "teach her first" "don't give up easily"

Btw my wife doesn't have a good relationship too with my family.

What do you think guys, should I just end this one or try to give her time to learn and be a better girl/wife for me ?