Hi, I'm from your SEA guy, your typical 25-ish boy template. have strict parents and living with a strict society too.
I have been married to a girl that I didn't look at much before we get married. now I know how toxic she is and so many red flags from her. I never think of divorce because I think it will become a red flag for me later on when I want to find a new girl. So I think of teaching her how to become "a better girl/human" and decreasing some of her red flags if I can... and many of my friends said that too
"no woman is perfect" "teach her first" "don't give up easily"
Btw my wife doesn't have a good relationship too with my family.
What do you think guys, should I just end this one or try to give her time to learn and be a better girl/wife for me ?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 3y ago
Check out the sidebar at the married red pill subreddit. Start there.
Keep in mind, that you cannot make another person change.
The best you can do is change yourself. She'll either become more attracted to you and enamored with you such that she becomes more like the kind of wife that you want, OR you'll be more prepared to cast her aside and upgrade.
strictseaguy 3y ago
After long thinking I'm taking the last one, now still trying to overcome the feeling of loss and working on myself again to make it good again, I'm gaining some weight when married
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 3y ago
Good luck. Get healthy, and start fucking as soon as you can.
moorekom 3y ago
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=V2cQHS5twNk
Hear that clip. Bring her family and your family to your side. And then, weaponize them against her.
strictseaguy 3y ago
will look it up, thanks man
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