I girl I've hooked up with this girl a few times in the past. She recently messaged me and said:-
Her - "!!!" How are you?
Me - I'm great thanks. How are you
Her - I'm good thank you, was thinking about you and wondered how you were doing with all these lockdown being back
Me - It's nice hearing from you. I'm pretty great all things considered and I have some cool things lined up once the world opens again
Her - Awwww good I'm glad! OOooh sounds exiciting care to share?
I could reply with:-
"I've got some great places to travel to once the world opens up"
Or I could simply reply with "Let's meet and I'll explain more" or "Let's meet and catch up" Do you think should I chat a bit or go straight in for the meeting?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 3y ago
I've never been a fan of going back. Whatever issues caused you two to split will inevitably arise again.
moorekom 3y ago
Pick a place that is familiar to the both of you, tell her you'll be there this day and invite her to come join you.
Fernendo 3y ago
I said let's meet Friday and she just replied with
"Is (name) wanting to break the rules?
I feel like I'm being corrupted
I'm not able to do Friday though."
I notice that she didn't suggested a date she is free. Maybe I should reply with "I don't follow BS rules" and leave it to her to suggest a date she is free. I don't think she deserves a longer reply as she hasn't even given a date she is free.
Anonymous-O 3y ago
I think you should go straight for it. The chit-chat could kill the heat and create too much of a friendly vibe. "tell you what, let's meet up and we can talk" should do the trick. If she declines why do you care? Forget about it. Abundance dictates that you should not care too much about losing one girl.
Fernendo 3y ago
Thanks for your reply I was starting to get an abundance mindset until covid closed down all the places I could pull girls lol