Hi boys,
Because of everything going on, I've been looking for dates on dating apps and I gotta say, being a 5'10" ugly guy I'm really not getting anywhere. Anyway, the girls I match with often ghost me, the ugly ones, I usualy ghost.
I think it''s because I'm not able to show I'm a valuable person. I wanna show I'm the type of person that has a good sense of humor, a nice job and has his shit together (all true). That I'm the type of person who may not be attractive but I'm the life of every party. That she'll be lucky to be with me because I'll make her life better. How do I project this energy over text?
Please dont tell me online dating sucks, I know it does. But that's what Im working with right now.
Harry-Azcrac 3y ago
Like that dude said, become valuable. Hit the gym a couple times a week. That is something anyone can do and regardless if your face is ugly, create a body that outweighs that. Also, one big thing is like that dude said, they should be at the bottom of your priority list. This causes them to want you even more because most guys they know prioritize her because they want to fuck her but by putting her at a low priority, she will WANT to work to become that (which she never will)
Also, fuck your looks. Personality pulls chicks. You obviously know your worth. You must believe you are a fucking god. You are the best and that all of woman kind s beneath you. You should strike interest into a woman's heart, then fucking leave because you have better things to do. She will chase YOU, not the other way around because you are not showing the attention most guys do and have better things to do making her want you.
Texting is the same. When you text, please god do not fucking reply to her within an hour of her texting you. You have a life, job, hobbies now that you're working out, she is nothing. You reply when you have time and want to. This will turn her the fuck on. She knows you are busy and doing shit because you are replying to her hours at a time unlike every other guys. Again, she is chasing you, you do not care about her. A big thing is meeting her in person ASAP. Not needy, but just a simple, "Friday at 9:00 let's go bowling at..." This shows dominance and that you're decisive and know what you want. Whether she has plans or not is irrelevant, she is most likely going to move them around to accommodate you because you rarely text her and finally gave her some real attention by telling her to meet up with you. If she does have immovable plans, she will tell you and you can, when you have time, text her another time.
masculinetransform 3y ago
Become valuable. Improve your physical appearance. Focus on your purpose. Women should be on the bottom of your list of priorities. They have no inherent long term value, remember that.