Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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williamwild0099 1y ago
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I can't stand father's day because it just reminds us of EXACTLY HOW society sees fathers.
Mother's day? Flowers, spa days, etc.
Father's day? Tools, suits.
Mothers are appreciated, fathers are reminded to get back to fucking work. Mothers are celebrated for the 9 months of work that father's allegedly give nothing to.
Sure, we only provide resources, security, and safety during the most vulnerable and least productive period of their lives. Sure, we only LITERALLY CUT OUR LIVES SHORT to take care of them.
Fuck.
winteryknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This is what happens in many churches on Father's Day.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well, it isn't like the fathers are there.
Church is a smorgasbord of single mom ass.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Off-theme, but I like it.
Don't be surprised if a different mod removes it.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
It's a bit crongy IMO, but if you and @moorekom like it, who am I to say otherwise...
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
While I don't think it's great, it's fine. If we compare it to most shit memes we get, then it's great.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
It's a quality shit-post. I have no issues with it staying up.
@YourFuryNourishesMe, you should cross-post this to Reddit.
YourFuryNourishesMe Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Done (I think). Feel free to message me if it was not.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Nope, it's good.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
In a way it is relevant, fatherhood is not celebrated. It is yet another reason the "good men" are hard to find.
Edit: obviously any other mod's call if disagred, I'm just commenting
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
And if fatherhood was celebrated, will they find their good men?
NO!
Why not? Because authority and responsibility.
Point at any problem in the world of gender dynamics. They all come back to an imbalance of authority and responsibility. That's what makes relationships desirable to women and undesirable to men.
This is in addition to the fact that women need men, but men want women.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
This is a great point
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That's a bit of a reach, but I like it.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Like a nice little reach around in life
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
True, gotta find a "good man" before he even becomes a father to her kids. You've got a point with the reach
YourFuryNourishesMe Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If I might add my two cents to elaborate further on what Vermillion-Rx has previously said, it's not so much that fatherhood isn't celebrated (as if, like anything pertaining to the maintenance of real life, needs to be), but that it has been relegated to more of an obligatory recognition. Obviously, fatherhood should be recognized, but to what extent? Should we (God forbid) place it equally upon the toughest-job-in-the-world alter of parenthood, with the oft-celebrated (single) motherhood? When something is obligatory, it is not fully appreciated; and if it is not at the very least appreciated, then it's worth declines. It's not so much that fathers, or fatherhood, need to be celebrated; it's more to the point that if fatherhood is not, at the very least appreciated, then it is not valued. Not to write a novel, but if a woman truly wants a good man, then the appreciation and recognition of the qualities that make him one, as well as his capabilities and qualities as a potential father and a husband, become integral to her choosing of a man.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Great way of putting this. I have thought the same myself about other characteristics that women say they want, but actually regard men leading with as "weak" or "nice guys".
I suppose there's some merit to their logic in that if someone goes on a job interview and says he comes into work on time, doesn't have a hangover, and shaves and grooms that they won't be impressed with him. With "Real Man" (TM) being defined as basically as something a man should just "be" with minimal effort, they can then raise the bar for all their other demands (good looks, excitement, tingles.)
They then claim to be victims of misogyny when they live up to men’s minimal standards (because she’s single) and “have my own place, my own car, and pay my own bills” when they say that men are “nice guy losers” for just that. They claim to be victims of sexism when men, and others, hold them to the same standards they hold men.
We should do the same to women: If she gestates children successfully without doing drugs or smoking and her kid isn’t in rehab, that’s the MINIMUM. Yes, it’s more than finishing in a cup or a one night stand, but it’s still the minimum. “Woman up”.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Well said. I'm awarding you Jr. Hamster analyst flair for this comment. Keep up the good work.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
@typo-magashiv
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
I appreciate the acknowledgement, I perhaps wrote that less than ideally, fatherhood isn't celebrated AS MUCH as it ought to be.
But I think you described it in a way that I wouldn't have been able to. People view fatherhood as an obligation. Even trashy mothers are celebrated by enough people for just being around to have the mother label and having given birth. A father who is around is mostly viewed as doing a duty, whereas a mother who is around is an accomplishment worthy of gifts and praise even if she does next to jack shit as a parent.
Edit: I'm not saying a lot of people don't value fathers, but there aren't nearly as many people valuing fatherhood as there are motherhood. Hence how speakable OP's meme was
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
My father’s day yesterday went like this: My wife and daughter made an extra effort to be nice to me and I got a VERY tiny card saying, quote “Happy Father’s day: [signed]”. I was thrilled. That’s all I want or need.
The motherly role has been romanticized because it’s so primal: She gestates for 9 months and, when they can, produces milk for the most vulnerable period of a person’s life: the first year. (My wife had problems with milk production and we went with formula.) Motherhood is romanticized as nurturing.
Yet, fatherhood is a role that matters as much considering all the children of single mothers that rot in prisons. My 6 year old daughter looks to me for steady, rational guidance. I nurture her in balance with discipline which requires massive emotional maturity and personal strength. A father’s role requires not only the 16 years or so of personal sacrifice, but also the time before then to reach that level of maturity.
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
1 is actually the bad boys/Alpha seed
2 is actually single moms
The rest are all incels, Homer Simpsons, or abusers. Actual fathers never get celebrated.