The third and final installment in our "Response to Women" trilogy.
OK baby. You used to fuck hot guys, but you're not like that anymore. I see. Your preferences changed and now you like hardworking good kind men with steady jobs and paychecks, and their own apartments and cars. And that's because those hot guys were just losers and you didn't want to get serious with them. You just didn't see yourself starting a family with any of them and you just don't "prefer" those hot guys anymore. You think I'm a nice guy who will be a great father to your kids that you will have. OK.
You used to do all kind of fun things in bed, but your "preferences changed" and now you don't like those things anymore. Right. Because you're "not like that anymore" and your "preferences have changed". Your "tastes" have changed.
OK baby. I understand. I really do.
I used to take my past first dates out to Ruths Chris and then out dancing. I used to spend money on them.
I took my past girlfriends on lavish trips to Europe and the Far East. Fun times. We had so much fun.
But all those girls were just for fun. They weren't girls I ever wanted to get serious about. They were losers and no one I'd ever start a family with.
I'm not like that anymore. I've changed. My preferences have changed. Now I want someone down to earth and sensible. I want someone who's gonna be here for me and for us.
So no more Ruths Chris and expensive dinners. First dates are drinks at this local watering hole I like. Because, well, I'm just not like that anymore. My preferences have changed. My tastes have changed. I'm DEEPER than that now. I'm not the shallow spendthrift I used to be.
And dinners, dates, vacations? No more. Nope it's time to get serious about saving money and work work working, and that goes for you too, babycakes. Now, it's Applebees and Olive Garden. If we splurge maybe Red Lobster for surf n turf. Vacations are to a national park. Wasting money on expensive dinners and vacations - well, I'm just not like that anymore. My preferences have changed. My tastes have changed. I'm not that shallow guy anymore. I need to know you want ME for ME, baby. I need to know you're here for ME.
I'm just not like that anymore. My preferences have changed. My tastes have changed. It's time to stop playing around and get serious about life. No more fun and frivolity. No more waste. No more of that unserious stuff. Time to buckle down and pick someone I can really use, exploit and take advantage of build something with.
Because I'm just not like that anymore. My preferences changed. My tastes changed.
I'm so glad we understand each other, baby.
OwenWentFullMGTOW 2y ago
Joke if you want, bro, but I actually used this with a woman once. The wench was griping about how a woman's past shouldn't matter, she should be loved for who she is TODAY and all that.
So, I fired back with something like "I totally agree, nobody's past should matter, I used to take my girlfriends on expensive flings and five-star dinners but now I want to get serious, save money and build a nest egg. It's time to focus on what TRULY MATTERS, you know?"
Her tone changed in an instant, of course.
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CA-GMOW 2y ago
My question regarding this is that what if one day, those same guys pop up, would you now leave me to be with them cuz now their circumstances have changed. And your do like up with him.
And obviously they're going to astray.
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CA-GMOW 2y ago
Couldn't agree any more.
There should be a law where people are independent for finances. If people split, anything that was brought in the marriage goes to the owner. Only new assets are split evenly. And the children are 50/50.
No alimony, no child support.
Idk. Anyone cheats or is found they cheated later on. The loyal people should get more of the share due to loyalty.
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CA-GMOW 2y ago
Totally agreed.
I would even say that inheritance should be considered as an asset out of the marriage. So it doesn't get split, but rather stays with the person who inherited, because that person who gave it to them, gave it to a specific person not the couple.
And lotto or raise in income or anything that the person gains after the divorce stays with that person. (Even an hour after the seperation). Once it's over, it's over. No more splitting.
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Nope. What happens is women end up hating the men they settle for.
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They’re settling. You have no fucking idea what these men have been through.
“Dependable man” to a woman means settling for a beta simp chump you don’t want to fuck.
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So... all you can say is "Not all women are like that" and "my friends are allegedly not like that"
Big fucking deal. Heard it all before. GTFOH with that shit.
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I'm not using "just my experience". I'm drawing on the collective experience and reports of hundreds of thousands of men posting and reporting at the Red Pill and other manosphere sites.
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OK. I think this place really isn't for you.
Chiliresident 2y ago
Yes sweetheart - my money I now spend on my hobbies and pursuits. I hope you like riding in the golf cart when me and the buds play 18. Or when we go hot rodding. We’ll have separate accounts and split bills 50/50. I‘m a big believer in feminism now and girl power. You got this!
paristeta 2y ago
The only thing missing is, "taking it slow", so only coffee dates for the first two month..
Rider_on_the_crest 2y ago
If women are expected to always put out within 2 months of dating how are they supposed to not rack up a high body count while looking for someone they're a good match with?
paristeta 2y ago
I have no idea. Maybe we need some kind of a contract, where both partner can formalize their commitment to each other. Waiting after a conclusion of such an contract could be the answer.
Rider_on_the_crest 2y ago
That sounds awfully complicated and like it wouldn't work. Signing a contract doesn't mean much - the only way to know a person truly is to spend time with them. I don't think it's possible to have it both ways.
paristeta 2y ago
Making contracts not easily breakable would be a benefit for both parties. And it wouldn´t be to complicated, because it would have a standardize form. I´m already thinking of a name, what do you think? It would be an age of happiness, bu happyage dosn´t sound right, maybe merry instead of happy? Merryage or so...
Rider_on_the_crest 2y ago
You think people should marry within 2 months of knowing eachother?
paristeta 2y ago
Case by case but overall women should wait for sex till marriage.
Rider_on_the_crest 2y ago
And men shouldn't? Who will men have sex with outside of marriage except for other men?
paristeta 2y ago
Since women are the gatekeepers of sex, it just dosn´t matter.
Rider_on_the_crest 2y ago
You also already seem frustrated when women don't want to have sex for months. So they should they wait for marriage or should they put out within 2 months?
paristeta 2y ago
How do you know? Are you me?
Rider_on_the_crest 2y ago
I'm basing it on your original comment.
NBA_MSG 2y ago
Don't forget friends first. And by that I mean the man will have to pay, plan everything, dress to impress, and still be charming and give her attention. You know, friends stuff
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That's the girls' 3 month rule. No sex for 3 months. Go on dates during that time, but no sex.
PIPXIll 2y ago
It can go the other way. No spending anything (or maybe more than $10) on a date for 3 months.
It's all walk, coffee, and geocaching.
car23975 2y ago
Haha I am doing this if I ever go on a date.
PIPXIll 2y ago
when you go on a date. You can do it. But when you want to.
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While you bang other women.
PatnarDannesman 2y ago
Men with a future don't want women with a past.
The used-up, post-wall roasties aren't suitable.
OhBarnacles_007 2y ago
You're on a roll today. Good content.
Lately I've found myself going the mgtow kinda thing. I'll lightly "date" but girls today are terrible. They have issues, no direction in life, working shit jobs, trying to find themselves or meaning of life bs. None of them have any life skills what so ever beyond social media and being basic. After a while you realize all of these girls are about the same, average, mediocre, talking to them is a chore, they don't have a personality beyond live laugh and love.
And worst of all they want a guy to be 100 perfect while they are train wrecks. Dating girls today is like deciding which project and bailout you want to get involved in.
I'm getting older and I'm losing interest in women in general. I'm more happy pretending they don't exist and doing what I enjoy.
Flashy_Glove6208 2y ago
Love how this series of posts exposes the dual mating strategy hypocrisy.
Guys, do not engage with leftover women 27+.
They did not want you in their prime, tell them to kick rocks in their decline.
Don't fall for a bait & switch or a gold digger smoke and mirrors.
ianthegreatest 2y ago
25 is the new 30
Mgtow_Maester 2y ago
Women detest it when men dare to give them a taste of their own medicine.
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Her body, her choice.
My money, my choice.