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There is a certain subreddit that discusses female dating strategy. You need to be aware of this. This subreddit portrays itself as a self interested dating strategy site for "high value women". In reality it's a Machiavellian subreddit populated with hateful, delusional women trying to go all dark triad. Here's what you need to know.

This subreddit encourages women to:

--withhold sex until a man commits and while getting a man to commit, to have sex with men they don't want commitment from, and lie to men about it

--insist that a man pay for everything while dating him

--refuse to date men who offer to "go Dutch"

--cheat on husbands and boyfriends

--ride the cock carousel

--overtly lie about how many men they've had sex with

--marry men for provisioning ability and money, rather than for affection, common interest, or sexual attraction

--use fraud, deceit and subterfuge to extract provisioning from men while dating them

--assert maximum power over their interactions with men by any means necessary for the express purpose of using, exploiting, and taking advantage of the men they date/have relationships with

--demand that any man interested in them demonstrate all the interest, take all the risk and initiative, do all the pursuing, and do all the work on the relationship

Supposedly, this is all for the purpose of showing that these women are "high value" and to extract commitment from high value men.

The strategies usually don't work to get the men they say they want. This is straight from the 1990s book The Rules by Sherri Schneider and Ellen Fein. Most attractive high value men will not put up with this kind of behavior from women. These are strategies tailor made to snag unattractive men, because they tolerate this behavior.

The attractive men they say they want (players, pick up artists, high N men, high earning men) won't commit to these kinds of women. They will have sex with other women while "dating" these women. Then if they get sex from these alleged "high value" women, they'll move on afterwards, or perhaps after a few weeks or months. These women get nothing other than fleeting short term relationships with such men, because once those men get what they want, they move on, especially after the lying, cheating, and manipulation take their toll.

The strategies ultimately destroy the relationships they do get. These strategies also snag unsuspecting good men, including some attractive men. But in the end, the lying, cheating, manipulation and dysfunction always cripple and kill the relationship. These strategies lead to resentment, dead bedrooms, and divorce rape.

Their high value is sexual only, which doesn't get them what they claim to want. Lying, cheating, and using and exploiting men are not behaviors of high relationship value women. It's common for high sexual market value women to act like this. It's common for sexually promiscuous women to act like this. It's common for dysfunctional women with mental illnesses or personality disorders to act like this. It's common for sociopathic women to act like this.

Women who follow this strategy will bounce around from relationship to relationship because the men they're attracted to won't put up with it, and the men who will put up with it can't keep their interest long enough. When an unattractive man she's exploiting is finally bled dry, she'll discard him like a used tissue and move on to the next one. Don't be that man.

Women know how to behave well with men they want. They also know when they're not behaving in manners conducive to good relationships. Women know how to be bitches and how not to be bitches. So when a woman is being a bitch to you, most of the time she knows it and is doing so intentionally, or knows it and just doesn't care.

A high relationship value woman is honest, faithful, loyal, attentive, a clear communicator, reliable, giving, compassionate, practices good physical and mental self-care, does what she says she'll do, and does what her man asks of her. It is true that all women have it in them not to be these things. But a high relationship value woman at least tries to do these things.

They expressly rely on deceit and manipulation to achieve their objectives. Women who employ this kind of strategy are clear: They will manipulate, use, exploit, and take advantage of you. They will lie to you. They will manipulate you with sex. They will feign attraction to lure and fraud unsuspecting men into marriage, then cheat on you and divorce rape you. Even before they get you into marriage, they'll date you for months on end while they have sex with other men. They'll use you for your money. They'll use your time and attention. And you'll get nothing in return.

Guys, reviewing this material and thought process is helpful to understand what women are doing and what they want to do. It's being laid out there in black and white for you to see. They're telling you clearly what their plans are for you.

To highlight how bad things are, here is what one of their moderators has to say:

The “average chump” is most men. Hilarious that men like to deceive themselves that they’re better than that, but at the end of the day, most of you are the same. Some suggestions at sex and a little attention, makes you stupid and women will continue to capitalize on that. The guy we oogle in magazines is the very small minority of men, and is the one that we cheat on our boyfriends and husbands with when we’re bored, and because dick is so cheap.

Next:

So yes, continue to delay sex with the one you actually want a relationship with and if you’re really horny, find some hot but unsuitable for relationship guy to fuck on the side to bide your time. It’s the only thing that works to get you to what you want from men, maximize benefit and stay one step ahead.

We’ve realized that when it comes to men, unless you show them that you can be just as toxic and just as shitty as they are, they never take you seriously and will walk all over you. If all women were aware of men’s manipulation tactics and not only had ways to spot and counter them, but also have tactics of their own, this dating market would be so much better for women. And that’s our goal.

Then:

we will continue to manipulate men as we see fit.

Indeed. As we've all seen.

Men calling us pieces of trash does nothing. It’s lost it’s sting and significance because we’ve now realized that men will shame women for literarily anything, esp if it does not fit their own selfish imperatives. As long as the women here are getting what they want, maximizing their benefits, even at the expense of men, then I’m good.

Next:

I’ll still continue to use the men I don’t want for money while fucking the ones I want, because men are incredibly stupid, easy to manipulate and dick is ridiculously cheap.

Going on:

I love being “equally bad”. Because that’s what men deserve. And until women use more men and discard them like the trash they are, you idiots will never learn.

Next:

Women have a lot more value than men and are the ones that choose who to have sex with and be in a relationship with. Men’s only value is money and if anyone should be submitting, its the man.

Pay close attention to that one up there. That's what they really think.

[what's being described here is the woman making the man stop during sex, just before ejaculation, for the purpose of "training him" and sexual dominance.] You ladies make me so proud. Love this. Done it a few times and the results were similar to what you described. My guy whined and bitched for a while, eventually did what I wanted him to do and then got rewarded with sex after he was done. Worked like a charm.

Sadistic.

No past hurt here, but knowing the fact that men are only useful for money has actually really improved my dating life and helped me find better men.

Then look at this clear description below of how to manipulate men into relationships. This happens all the time. Don't let it happen to you:

My advice is that if you see a potential relationship with a particular guy, wait at least 6 weeks before having sex with him.

Use those 6 weeks to suss out his intentions towards you and build a good relational foundation before jumping into sex. It’s also a good way to weed out the guys that are just looking for sex. Feel free to talk about sex with him during those 6 weeks, flirt and [ed. lie] show that you’re sexually attracted to him [ed. feign attraction for the purpose of reining him in] and look forward to having sex with him when the “time is right”.

If you have a high libido and feel sexually frustrated, you can either invest in a good vibrator, or find some other guy that you’re attracted to but you know won’t be good relationship material, just to tide you over in the meantime. Ideally someone you’ve known before and can trust to be discrete, clean and is STI free.

Another bit of "strategy" dooming a couple to beta bux, dead bedroom, and divorce rape:

If he actually offered exclusivity, and you guys were confirmed bf/gf, but you were still dating other men on the side, then you have two options:

1.) Lie about seeing other men and paint it as a misunderstanding on his part

2.) Leave him or allow him to leave.

If you enjoy sleeping with the FWB and you know you won’t be able to hold off on sleeping with the “potential relationship” guy, if you weren’t at least getting your sexual needs met somewhere else, then keep both for now.

Because sleeping with the relationship guy too soon can ruin your chances with him. He does not need to know about the FWB guy. There is no benefit to being “upfront” with the truth about seeing other guys. If you’re having difficulty lying, then you need to ask yourself what’s more important to you. The guy you’re trying to get into a relationship with, or him potentially leaving because he’s insecure due to your honesty.

Guys, it's all right there. Read it and be edified, and know that what we have told you is the truth.

4) What they get right: Most men can be easily manipulated with sex. So, don't let a woman manipulate you with sex. You guide and steer the relationship. She can get out of the car anytime she wants, but you drive. You ALWAYS drive. And, women want men to love them. Men really don't want love from women. Men want their women to respect them. Men want their women to do what they ask them to do and to help do what needs done. Men want their women to go with them where they want to go. Men want their women to help them both get there.

This has been a public service announcement. Be well, my friends.