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Hey everyone. I have lurked for years but now I feel it's time I post. The reason why I am is a good friend of mine growing up got caught up in the metoo bs. I am not going to give too much details out of respect to his family but I personally feel things have gone too far.

This friend was always respectful and never would do anything with an unwilling female. He was very left wing and honestly kinda pissed me off at times with his sjw bs. The irony is, his mental group of people he associated with would set their targets on him next. The industry he was in allowed him a lot of social encounters and parties. There were some females also in his industry who decided to target the men for their own advancement within said industry. A list of cooked up BS accusations where made and posted online within the community accusing these men of using their status to "take advantage" of these women(even though they had concented) and their employers were contacted. My friend was let go from his job as a result and his reputation ruined in the industry. The next day he went missing. He was found days later. He had jumped and killed himself.

My message to guys is be careful who you associate with and what you do with women. If you have something they want, they will ruin your life to get it. Even if you don't have anything valuable and they decide to change their mind about your encounter after the fact to save face, they will. If your life is ruined as a result, they could give two shits. Also stay away from leftists, too many are loyal to their ideology that they will alienate friends if the group decides to make that friend an outcast. They are not to be trusted male or female.

Final point... if your life gets into a position like my friends did, always remember that it will pass and your life is not over no matter how bad it seems at the time. Suicide is not the answer. The sad thing is back in April, I talked a guy out of jumping off the same bridge my friend did 6 months later. I only wish I had been able to do the same with my friend.

[-] banjew 93 Points about a year ago

It's happening to me.

In my small community I got divorced and took the red pill quite quickly. The combination of focus and lifting soon enough made me quite popular, got invited to professional circles, speaking engagements, etc.

Suddenly I get a restriction order from a girl I dated in 2016. I kid you not. In the same restriction order it says I stalked her, in 2016, and never again. Also, not a single proof. It doesn't matter, she won automatically, no trial was allowed, not even a chance of defending myself.

Now I'm waiting for the sex abuse or "misconduct" trial, it will come at me any time. Her friends harass me via anonymous message "you are going down" "rapist" (we only kissed), etc.

She obviously talked to everybody and Im already a pariah, this happened in like 2 weeks.

Honestly I have thoughts of suicide. I got depressed but then I said fuck it, this too shall pass.

NOTE: She's not the only one that denounced me. Another girl is accusing me of shit over twitter, like having "toxic masculinity" and "chauvinist". Want to know a funny thing? Never met her in my life. Not. A single. Time. She's accusing me that my friends disrespected her. Yes, that's not a mistake. She's accusing me of things that my friends did to her. My friends, not me. But she's accusing me. Literally "You are a pig, your friends called me a whore!"

Unbelievable.

[-] BewareTheOldMan 54 Points about a year ago

I get a restriction order from a girl I dated in 2016...it says I stalked her, in 2016, and never again. Also, not a single [bit of] proof.

Record/screenshot all harassing and threatening messages, be prepared to countersue and file for defamation and libel, and follow up with lawsuits to each and every person after you are proven innocent. If you forego litigation, at least you have proof of others behaving consistent with this woman's accusation.

This is crazy.

It's getting so bad the feminists, social justice warriors, and their lackey sympathizers are trying to establish a counter-narrative to these numerous and forthcoming sexual harassment and assault accusations.

Women are still expecting men to interact as if there is no change in male-female workplace dynamics. Note this opposing article titled:

If You Think the #MeToo Movement Means You Can’t Hug a Woman Anymore, You’re a Simpleton…

https://www.theroot.com/if-you-think-the-metoo-movement-means-you-cant-hug-a-w-1821141087

They're not even bothering to change tactics and going right back to default name-calling and shaming language. No one can possibly believe men are this stupid.

The fallout is all around us and smart men are choosing less and less unnecessary interaction with women. A mere accusation is enough to ruin a man’s life whether there is corroborating evidence or not.

There was a time when if you received an accusation of anything short of murder you were expected to continue working (if practical) and avoid major changes to your life. The assumption was that a person might be innocent and needed a source of income and normalcy to ensure personal wellbeing and mental stability if they were in fact proven innocent. Even if a person was guilty…at least the expectation was to determine guilt or innocence in a courtroom.

I’m not an attorney…but the right to face your accuser, right to a trial by jury of your peers, and due process is all somewhere in the U.S. Constitution – the base document for establishing the United States of America and other countries as well.

But I guess the Constitution is automatically rendered invalid with a harassment accusation…duly noted.

I have no disagreement that sexual harassment, rape, murder, and other general crime is wrong, but it seems when some women are given power and authority, they are eager to wield it in an uncontrollable and unreasonable manner.

Be careful out there…

Edit: The article is written by a gay man on behalf of women and trying to act as if there are no changes in the #metoo workplace environment. No issue with his sexual orientation, but someone pointed it out.

He's basically a minion and lackey that supports the female agenda…essentially a basic garden-variety useful idiot.

[-] Throwawaysteve123456 8 Points about a year ago

The US is pretty soft on defamation cases as long as you're not a celebrity, then the standard drops big time. Keep in mind, you only need to win on a balance of probabilities; if the evidence suggests that 50.1% chance you didn't rape her, you can sue her and her friends.

[-] [deleted] 21 Points about a year ago

men need to start:

1) filing lawsuits for defamation against these women, and invasion of privacy (depending on the state... florida law for example is how hulk hogan won). many of these will be open and shut cases. she's going to get on the record saying a bunch of shit that's provably false. even if you lost them, text messages and emails can be subpoena'd practically forever.

2) suing employers for discrimination. if there's evidence or the guy admits he was a shitbag, that's fine. but many of these men are being fired without warning or evidence, on sheer allegation alone, often without any investigation, and often long after the fact. while an employer does not have the obligation to give the employee any sort of due process, the employer does have the obligation to treat men and women the same. when there's a different procedure for disciplining men accused of harassment vs literally all other infractions (including women accused of harassment), that's textbook discrimination. some people, especially leftists, are under the mistaken impression that the civil rights act does not apply to men. some teachers in far left law schools even have claimed that in cursory reviews. but that's not what the civil rights act says, and the supreme court has expressly rejected that argument. and universities are already getting destroyed in this respect. one of the latest cases on this ended in a $2.48 million settlement against the university for discrimination against men.

fight back.

[-] throwawayred521 7 Points about a year ago

Once you put their money on the line all these fake allegations will disappear just like a bad dream.

Money is more important than vagina people's feelings in any corporation/institution's eyes.

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[-] [deleted] 7 Points about a year ago

Keep your head up. May be time to pack up and relocate and close all social media if you have the ability to.

[-] banjew 2 Points about a year ago

Relocate where? to another internet? :) that wouldn't help at all.

[-] 30percentslave2USgov 4 Points about a year ago

Due to being a dumb kid and acquiring quite the criminal history (drugs...just say no kids) I eventually decided to relocate, both physically and "to another internet", so to speak, by changing my last name. I even got to pick a cool last name that sounds great with my first name lol. Staring over can be done and if the situation is bad enough then it can certainly be warranted.

[-] tekn0_ 1 Point about a year ago

Really curious about your story here

[-] gELSK 1 Point about a year ago

// , There is another internet.

Also, why do you only have 1 fb account?

[-] [deleted] 0 Points about a year ago

If these women are local to you in physical proximity and are using the small community you live in to tarnish your reputation moving to a new city may be in order. As for the internet you can make new accounts and delete the ones they know about. If things get out of hand and they post things about you, just brush it off as it's not you and some other dude if it ever comes up on your fresh start. Things will probably just die down though if you disinguage.

[-] i4mn30 5 Points about a year ago

How the fuck can the courts not want any solid evidence? This is scary.

[-] banjew 6 Points about a year ago

Women are first class citizens.

The restriction order is "mutual" meaning she also cannot contact me. But this already affects my work as I cannot go to any meeting or conference that she go.

[-] kemchik 1 Point about a year ago

and why is she allowed to go meeting where you will be? Is it like that game whoever get to meeting room first then the other cannot get in?

[-] banjew 2 Points about a year ago

Is it like that game whoever get to meeting room first then the other cannot get in?

Yep. Something like that. In fact it's worst: The first one that call the police wins.

[-] LeftHookTKD 1 Point about a year ago

America is corrupt as fuck. Land of the free my ass. If you are a woman you are privileged beyond belief.

[-] redditer0 2 Points about a year ago

If I was acused of something I didn't do by somebody I don't know, or that is so fucking obvious that I haven't done I'd open a YouTube channel and start showing how these fuckers are trying to destroy my life.

Yeah, it's risk taking. But without risks there's no rewards.

[-] juliusstreicher 2 Points about a year ago

Her friends harass me via anonymous message "you are going down" "rapist" (we only kissed), etc.

You need to get a restraining order against these people, ASAP. If one of them gets drunk and starts gabbing about you to some dipshit White Knight, you could be physically attacked.

Further, contact an attorney about that Order against you. It can yet work against you if you don't get it removed.

[-] banjew 1 Point about a year ago

Yep. Not scared of the girl to be honest. But she got lots and lots of beta orbiters and white knights that would do anything for her. That's scary. I'm working on a restraining order against her for this very reason.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

Good man. Fight the one against you, as well.

Good luck.

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[-] Herdsengineers 63 Points about a year ago

Leftists eat their own. It's like in the French Revolution - the leaders started the Terror, beheading and guillotining their opponents, then were brought down and guillotined by their own side, that they had been part of leading and building up. (Danton and Robespierre both died in this way)

[-] [deleted] 27 Points about a year ago

Leftists eat their own.

Not just them, but every ideological extremist group does this. We see it in the middle east, and elsewhere, too.

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[-] Throwawaysteve123456 8 Points about a year ago

Exactly, even south park dedicated an entire season to talking about the 2017 victim Olympics. There's nothing more entertaining then watch two victims argue who has had it worse. Meanwhile I'm terrible for being a white male, despite having a job since I was a kid, putting myself through university, and doing well financially since then. So terrible. By the way, that wasn't a victim statement, just showing I actually contribute to fucking society unlike most victims.

[-] gELSK 1 Point about a year ago

// , I've had a job since I was 11

[-] reckful994 6 Points about a year ago

Hence the reason that every left wing ideologue is consumed by thoughts of "revolution" like its some romantic and exciting endeavor.

Real revolutions stem from starvation, foreign troops in the streets, or tyranny where the powers that be are killing everything that steps one foot out of line. They are bloody, painful, and generally fail.

[-] scissor_me_timbers00 13 Points about a year ago

What's hilarious is how much this whole romanticized "Revolution" idea has been commercially packaged and sold to the fucktarded millennial generation (my gen).

I remember seeing at the grocery store some Axe deodorant or body spray or something and they had a new scent, "Revolution" with some typical fucking image of a raised fist. Good Christ, the pathetic irony...

[-] JF0909 3 Points about a year ago

Women and millennials have to be the easiest groups to market to.

[-] KnowBrainer 4 Points about a year ago

That explains the left's bipolar attitude toward violence.

"Don't declaw your cat because it's cruel and violent" and "Someone accused him of harassment, he should be castrated and killed!" coming from the same mouth on the same day had always perplexed me.

It makes more sense when viewed from a "if your only too is a hammer" perspective.

[-] Herdsengineers 3 Points about a year ago

Seen it in history in the past too. Look at the French Revolution and how things ended up for Danton, Robespierre, etc.

[-] afkb39sdfb 3 Points about a year ago

Over 100,000 people were guillotined. After they were done with their opponents they did turn on their own. It became North Korea tier of watching and reporting your neighbors, friends, family, etc.

Source: history channel documentary back when history channel was about history. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/French_Revolution_(DVD)

[-] LeftHookTKD 1 Point about a year ago

That's why both the far left and far right and insane and these people ruin the country. The best thing for the country would be if people didn't identify with either group.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

IIRC, that wouldn't have helped in the French Revolution. If you weren't a Jacobin, etc... you were "anti-Revolutionary" and you were persecuted as such.

[-] [deleted] 49 Points about a year ago

they will ruin your life

If you're a weak ass pussy and let them.

Our ancestors survived being overran by alien hordes from far-off nations (Mongols for me), hunted down into the jungle by rival tribes, cohabiting the plains of Africa with lions. Feminists ain't shit nigga

[-] [deleted] 61 Points about a year ago

Til one gets you fired from your high SMV job and you are on your ass. Society has their back and your life can be severely altered on one accusation no matter how tough guy you are.

[-] vengefully_yours 84 Points about a year ago

Take it from a old guy who has started his life over with nearly nothing but his hands 7 fucking times. Lived in his car while active duty military because all of his pay went to his lying ex.

It's all temporary.

The thing is when we lose everything, we can build it back again. Bitches can't, that's why they branch swing. I've been through some shit, I'll hop through more before I die. That's life for men. Accept it.

Here's another thing you need to understand. Right wing or left wing, those people will turn on you with any accusation about sexual shit. That's everyone, didn't matter of their a feminist or a racist Jesus freak, none of them will believe you're innocent if a bitch claims otherwise. That's fucking everyoneman, accept it and understand it's going to happen at some point.

Don't be a bitch about it. Don't apologize for shit, especially when you didn't do anything wrong.

[-] [deleted] 9 Points about a year ago

Totally with you on this one. The left are currently the ones causing the most upheaval atm though. To the extreme imo.

[-] sourdieselfuel -5 Point about a year ago

The right just tried to get a pedophile elected into the senate. Pretty sure there are glaring problems with both sides of the political spectrum.

[-] PM_ME_UR_TECHNO_GRRL 8 Points about a year ago

Alleged paedophile. There is a big difference. Don't play their game.

UVA frats allegedly raped a girl as well.

[-] [deleted] 5 Points about a year ago

Yeah but the ones having a fit and pulling society apart from the seams has mainly been the left. I'm not blinded by partisan politics. I know the right have issues too. But progressives are a nightmare by comparison. Honestly a cabin in the woods away from the madness is sounding more and more appealing.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

If you have proof, you should give it to somebody who can use it. Like a police department. What kind of info are you prepared to take to them?

Further, there hasn't even been an accusation of sexual contact, even by the accuser. WTF do you say 'pedophile'?

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[-] Whitified 5 Points about a year ago

Don't apologize for shit, especially when you didn't do anything wrong.

Except all those who have been accused have already apologized. Even the ones accused of ridiculous claims. Even the ones accused by non-workplace females.

Check out this apology by Steve Lebsock:

“I have come to realize that it does not matter that, at the time, I may have perceived my words as playful. It does not matter that, at the time, I may have felt that we were flirting. It does not matter that, at the time, I may have felt what I said was okay. The only thing that matters is how I made these three women feel,

Incredible, isn't it? He basically just plead guilty to whatever he's accused of and will be accused of. Now compare it to this confession, extracted from Soviet torture victims:

I once more repeat that I admit that I am guilty of treason to the socialist fatherland, the most heinous of possible crimes, of the organization of kulak uprisings … as will be clear to everybody, that there were many specific things which I could not have known, and which I actually did not know, but that this does not relieve me of responsibility. … I am kneeling before the country, before the Party, before the whole people. The monstrousness of my crimes is immeasurable especially in the new stage of the struggle of the U.S.S.R. May this trial be the last severe lesson, and may the great might of the U.S.S.R. become clear to all.

Notice the similarity?

Both are creepy, mechanical apologies, extracted under threat. That the victims don't find themselves guilty of any crime should be obvious for all to see. Yet it doesn't matter whether you plead guilty or not, the mob has already found you guilty the minute you're accused. A "confession" is your last shot at begging the mob for mercy, and at least might convince the mob to not do any further damage.

No single man can stand against a mob. If the mob demands a confession, what else are you supposed to do?

[-] Chaddeus_Rex 9 Points about a year ago

You get fired, then take the company to court on discrimination charges on the basis of sex/race (male/white man). Take your ex-boss to court personally as well. Take the woman to court. You cook up allegations about the woman and stick to them no matter what evidence is presented to the contrary. You want to get the media involved, build yourself into the perfect victim of oppression. Do not stay silent and spread the word on social media and forums. Let other men do the same thing and we can beat this shit together.

[-] LeftHookTKD 2 Points about a year ago

This is the best option, but even then you are at a huge disadvantage simply because you are a male and she is a female.

[-] Chaddeus_Rex 1 Point about a year ago

Yes. But use every advantage you have. Plan it out. A man's capacity for planning and strategizing can beat even a woman's natural advantage. Woman won't plan, they'll just rely on the pussypass to get ahead.

[-] Psychocist 8 Points about a year ago

fired from your high SMV job and you are on your ass

If losing a job puts you on your ass, you need to work on building more in-demand skills.

[-] [deleted] 9 Points about a year ago

Yeah and on your next interview you can tell them you got fired for being accused of sexual assault and hand them your references. You better be shitting gold bricks for them to take the risk hiring you after that great PR.

[-] Psychocist 11 Points about a year ago

Ya know what, fuck jobs then. Build a business and stop relying on employers to survive. Diversify the risk through many customers and many streams of income.

[-] Whitified 5 Points about a year ago

then they'll call a boycott on your business. There's a reason why everyone fears the feminist mob

EDIT: Now you see why everyone fears the Mafia in those crime countries? It doesn't matter who you are, or what you do. They have power, they're with the State, and they will always find a way to screw you up somehow. The only hope is to be on their side.

Make no mistake, feminists is the Mafia in our countries.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

Yeah, boycotts ain't shit unless big groups are involved.

[-] [deleted] 2 Points about a year ago

I agree with this statement but even companies who don't play on the sjw tune get targeted.

[-] Psychocist 3 Points about a year ago

Which is the whole point of multiple income streams.

[-] Chaddeus_Rex 3 Points about a year ago

Tell them you weren't fired for sexual harassment, but that you were discriminated against on the basis of sex.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

No, then the hiring company will diss him as a malcontent. Most jobs don't tell why somebody got fired anymore, so, just make it some sort of compatibility issue, or "my wife had psych. problems, and I had to take too much time off to take her to the hospital", etc...

[-] Chaddeus_Rex 1 Point about a year ago

Most jobs don't tell why somebody got fired anymore

Oh in that case you're 100% right.

[-] Slut_Slayer9000 2 Points about a year ago

Sounds like you picked the wrong industry. Yeah corporate America might be out for you but even then if you have enough value then they will even overlook that shit. Value trumps everything.

[-] [deleted] 3 Points about a year ago

I myself work in healthcare sciences but ya I knew I was fucked from the get go. I am union at least so I have some protection but the culture is very left wing feminist.

[-] Slut_Slayer9000 1 Point about a year ago

I don’t know how guys do it these days. I’m lucky I don’t have to deal with any corporate bs.

[-] [deleted] 1 Point about a year ago

Honestly I have concidered a career change but i make good money and Uni at 32 doesnt appeal much. I did just get accepted into a computer science BSc program but I am on the fence with getting more student debt.

[-] [deleted] 4 Points about a year ago

Til one gets you fired from your high SMV job and you are on your ass

have some savings or a good portfolio, start day trading, sell drugs, move countries, survive

and it is just an accusation after all. it has no legal ramifications til proven in court. it just has social consequences for dumbass companies who fire you without evidence

[-] [deleted] 8 Points about a year ago

Yeah but it still causes upheaval and stress. The main point is society is extremely hostile to males with high SMV right now. Best to minimize the risks of getting a target on your back.

[-] [deleted] 18 Points about a year ago

I agree.

Not that I give a shit about politics, but I was watching CNN (cuz the morons at the gym had it on), and there was this democrat senator lady who basically said "Trump, you gotta resign, you have been accused too many times!"

Even to someone like me who doesn't give a shit about politics, and is mildly anti-Trump, seeing that bulletin pissed me the fuck off. Who the fk is this bitch to tell someone to resign because of an ACCUSATION? That's where our society is right now

[-] wayneinthegame 12 Points about a year ago

Im not into conspiracy theories but it seems pretty clear they've been revving this stuff up as a way to get to Trump

[-] [deleted] 7 Points about a year ago

Lost the election so they have been having a one year long temper tantrum trying anything to get power back including eating their own(Hollywood).

[-] VasiliyZaitzev 10 Points about a year ago

Srsly. It's like we've been stuck in HRC's therapy sessions for a year. Can you even imagine Romney "screaming into his pillow" after losing the election to Obama? Or worse, discussing that publicly?

[-] Original_Dankster 3 Points about a year ago

It's no theory, but it's definitely a conspiracy.

[-] [deleted] 9 Points about a year ago

Yeah things will collapse eventually on this trajectory if we let these pc cunts run the show for much longer.

[-] [deleted] 2 Points about a year ago

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[-] blackedoutfast 7 Points about a year ago

truth. the guys who are getting caught up in all these sexual harassment accusation aren't really high SMV guys, it's guys who would be complete losers in the secual marketplace but weaseled their way into positions of power/authority and then used that to get their dicks wet.

women like it when a high SMV Chad acts like a Chad. they hate when some fat, ugly, creepy, beta, caricature of a jew tries to act like Chad, and they feel forced to go along with it just because the guy has some kind of power over her career. seriously, just look at harvey weinstein. look at al franken. those guys aren't high SMV, eomen aren't attracted to guys like that. they just had jobs that gave them a lot of power over other people.

[-] FaderOne 3 Points about a year ago

That’s why it’s good to have four or five things in play… Jordan Peterson recommends this as if one pillar of your life fails you have other ones to fall back on

[-] SpaceTimeinFlux 11 Points about a year ago

Imagine an enemy that can weaponize society against you. That is the game we are playing.

[-] banjew 3 Points about a year ago

hunted down into the jungle by rival tribes, cohabiting the plains of Africa with lions

This is true, but remember that our ancestors often ostracized people as a form of capital punishment. You were left out in the open to die.

This is exactly what's happening now, and while you will certainly not die anymore, the psychological effects are the same.

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[-] Ganaria_Gente 0 Points about a year ago

That's a lot of tough talk there, buddy. Good luck acting masculine when she has daddy govt/court system on her side

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

There are even ways around that, or ways to turn the govt. to your side.

[-] iLLprincipLeS 0 Points about a year ago

The earth continues to go round, whether it's the man who kills the lion or the lion who eats the man. The stronger asserts his will, it's the law of nature. The world doesn't change - its laws are eternal.

[-] 420KUSHBUSH 31 Points about a year ago

Society now feels like one giant ongoing story similar to The Most Dangerous Game, replacing the hunter with feminism and the island as western civilization, with men as the prey

[-] i4mn30 4 Points about a year ago

Seriously these fake metoo cunts need to be handled.

[-] tibikush2012 28 Points about a year ago

A commedy show in Israel some years ago (like 8) had a character who was super rich. Every girl he brought home (basically in every episode it was a different girl) was asked by the character to be filmed and to say in the video that she agrees to have sex with the character and she was not forced to.

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[-] Chaddeus_Rex 21 Points about a year ago

In these situations a man must deny, deny, deny and cook up allegations of their own against the women. Even if they get fired they must go after the woman/women with everything they have; try to get them fired, take them to court, take the company to court for discrimination based on sex or race. Do as much collateral damage as possible.

In any conflict within the company, have it be known that you are willing to go to great lengths to destroy someone, that you are frankly a bit unhinged (not in the bad sense but that people don't know what to expect next from you).

That's how I think you beat/avoid allegations.

[-] BewareTheOldMan 21 Points about a year ago

In my Blue Pill days I established a cohabitation situation with a Single Mother...of course I now know it was stupid, but back then I was ridiculously naïve. Even my ex-wife told me this woman needed someone to pay her bills, take care of her kids, and was "using me" for my money. I was Blue Pill, faced regular rejection from single and childless women, and (if I wanted female companionship) was relegated to dating Single Mothers as I was divorced with 3 x kids of my own.

The ex-wife had her own agenda, but she was correct on every count.

Quick Backstory: This woman was a Single Mother, 2 x kids, financially unstable, no practical or marketable job skills, formerly married to a drug-dealing/former convict/physically abusive ex-husband, had a physically abusive childhood, was molested by her stepfather, and had leeching and very lazy immediate family members who sucked resources from everyone around them. She was very pretty (fully clothed), but naked you could see where her body took some hits over the years. The sex was great and that was my major area of weakness.

Everything was fine at first, but once she felt conformable the demands increased, the confidence/shit tests increased, and she thought it was fine to be slap, push, hit, and threaten me. I eventually had enough of the nonsense and terminated the relationship, but was served with a restraining order accusing stalking, harassment, threatening, and domestic abuse – basically ALL the actions she committed against me.

I scrambled to find an attorney before the weekend and missed a major work event due to having to be in court on the first workday of the week, seriously upsetting my Immediate Supervisor and placing my job position/employment in jeopardy.

The judge directed me to leave my house and she and her kids were allowed to maintain residence while I awaited the follow up trial. Of note is that I regularly paid rent and ALL household expenses, but was NOT ALLOWED to enter my own house. She moved my personal items out of my house and dropped them at my attorney’s office. Over the next few weeks I smartly removed my responsibility from the rental agreement and service utilities.

I filed a countersuit just in case, but had zero police reports to support my claim. She continued to harass and threaten right up to the trial date. Once in court this woman provided an Oscar-Winning performance complete with crocodile tears. I asked the ex-wife to testify on my behalf that in 17 years of knowing me I had never been violent. Incidentally, this was the only bit of post-divorce cooperation I ever received from the ex-wife. The ex-wife and I have our issues, but she never tried to get me incarcerated! I was facing loss of an established career and jail time – for the first time in my life OTHER people had the ability to decide my future and I had no control over the court’s decision.

Fortunately for me the judge saw through the lies and dismissed the case as there was no evidence of wrongdoing. I dropped my countersuit, immediately left the courthouse and swore off toxic women from that day forward…and started on what is now known as Red Pill-Awareness. It paid dividends that I had no criminal record or activity, or a history of unruly behavior.

Lessons Learned:

-Avoid Single Mothers…you will have problems on every socio-economic level

-Avoid Toxic Women…Reformed Party Girls/Carousel Riders, Drug Users, etc.

-Avoid Emotionally Damaged Women (domestic abuse/molestation/mental issues, etc.)

-Avoid women who have no marketable skills and in deep financial debt

-Avoid women with literally nothing to lose and have EVERYTHING to gain from you

-Avoid overbearing, ungrateful, selfish, manipulative women, and extreme feminists

The list is not all inclusive, but covers most of the problems I’ve encountered not just with the Single Mother detailed in the story, but other women as well. I learned most of this the hard way without the benefit of strong male leadership and mentoring, positive upbringing, and The Red Pill. TRP would have been very useful to me as a young man and saved me from a lot of suffering and frustration over the years.

Final Note: I made the mistake of not following through with the countersuit and filing for other claims, but I was just glad to be done with the entire ordeal.

Edit: I did everything wrong...and am ashamed I was that stupid, which is why I advise other young men how to avoid my mistakes. This is one of the best reasons for young men to have positive and strong male role models during childhood and through early adulthood. Many of these mistakes can be avoided. Once a young man is a legal-age adult, the excuse of not having a father figure is "allowable" for the first couple of years, but after age 20-ish men who don't know better will learn life-lessons the hard way. Even worse - society has zero pity for young men making stupid life-decisions.

Stay woke.

[-] Blueu2 3 Points about a year ago

How about you never move in with each other? If she doesn't like that, then she can exit out of the relationship. I'd prefer to keep my own place.

[-] BewareTheOldMan 3 Points about a year ago

You're smart to keep your own place, but guys are still moving in with women and have no idea how much leverage they lose by cohabitation.

There's numerous warnings, horror stories, and yet men still think because it's not recognized as marriage they are somehow "winning." Cohabitation with the wrong woman can essentially ruin your life.

My episode occurred almost 18 years ago and it was kind of a "new thing." Today - people living together is a trend, with many maintaining that status for years and some producing children and calling it a family...some new-wave reverse-family engineering technique or something like that?

It almost makes sense for Single Mothers and Single Dads with kids, except most SMs are so damaged and such a hot mess the juice is not worth the squeeze.

Edit: In some states cohabitation after a specific number of years is recognized as default marriage. You're officially husband and wife - marriage license or not.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

Final Note: I made the mistake of not following through with the countersuit and filing for other claims, but I was just glad to be done with the entire ordeal.

That's why we men can't have nice things.

[-] BewareTheOldMan 2 Points about a year ago

Yeah...I know. That was years ago versus today where I would have sued for falsely accusing me of something so serious that would have sent me to jail.

I did everything wrong...and am ashamed I was that stupid, which is why I tell other young men to avoid my mistakes.

-getting involved with an emotionally damaged woman in the first place

-dealing with a Single Mother

-moving in with a woman I wasn't married to and paying expenses

-not reporting the physical abuse to law enforcement

-spending way too much money on an unworthy woman

-this woman knew much more about domestic violence laws and the court system than I did

This is why parents...but fathers mostly, are very important in providing guidance, direction and mentorship to young men and women. I grew up as a Ward of the State/foster kid. No "guardians" ever cared enough to teach useful life-advice and I was way too Blue Pill to know any better.

I left the foster-care system at 17, started working, married young (early 20's), had 3 x kids and was divorced after almost 17 years with the same woman - 12+ married.

I met this pretty chick after my divorce and literally had no idea a person would willingly lie to put a man in jail and do so without remorse. What's worse is that it still happens today...Brian Banks as an example.

http://www.espn.com/espn/story/_/id/7986979/redemption-brian-banks

It's why I talk to young men and women who want and need good advice - whether they are my kids or not. It's suppose it's the best way to prevent this problem for someone else.

[-] Chaddeus_Rex 1 Point about a year ago

See, now imagine using the same techniques against the woman in a false rape allegation. That is how you beat the claims.

[-] Original_Username7 1 Point about a year ago

Sir, thank you for sharing!

[-] chopcult 1 Point about a year ago

OK, I've checked off your list. Damnit...

[-] Throwawaysteve123456 5 Points about a year ago

The key is if shit hits the fan at the office, make it clear your legal interests will be represented. If the company doesn't follow any investigation and just reacts, then you can have a lawsuit.

[-] dontgiveupcarib 12 Points about a year ago

Get off social media.

Don't shit where you eat, keep it super professional.

Don't shit where you lift.

Don't reveal too many details about yourself to plates.

Don't get married.

Co-habitate only if you have kids which you know are yours (hint DNA test).

[-] HellRaisor 2 Points about a year ago

"Dont shit where u eat" where do u recommend approaching other than uni.

I live in a third world country so street approaching isnt an option. Beside i never found a resinably hot women on street

I dont drink alchol so i didnt access bars before. Besides im below 21.

I already approached in my uni but i dont wanna get fuckin flagged for it. Although i never be clingy or turn to a douche any girl i approach when it doesnt workout (like if i sense disintrest i no longer text her or try to meetup sometime) i dont want get my reputation fucked over for some bitch that doesnt like me. Any ideas?

[-] dontgiveupcarib 3 Points about a year ago

If you live in a 3rd world country then you don't have any of this shit to worry about.

Tinder and online dating is great. Uni is fine for cold approach, I was referring more to work place.

[-] Hjalmbere 11 Points about a year ago

If this #metoo crap doesn’t convince you to keep a low profile and not dating feminists, then nothing will.

[-] Casd12 9 Points about a year ago

Denying the accusations doesn't do shit nowadays; you're guilty until proven guilty (regardless of being innocent.) You gotta flip it and blame the accuser and play victim.

[-] mishasam89 5 Points about a year ago

Jesus, why are people so cruel!

[-] ChadThundercockII 4 Points about a year ago

Welcome to the world, hombre

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[-] [deleted] 4 Points about a year ago

No i meant as in from what ive seen of him. The left wing part was not meant to be painting him as a saint but rather point out his social circle.

[-] [deleted] 4 Points about a year ago

I don't feel sorry in the least for beta left wing males that propagate this same culture that has compromised other men. They deserve what they get.

[-] Original_Username7 3 Points about a year ago

You need to adjust your attitude man. I was a fuckin' bluepill SJW, but it was because I was brainwashed by a bitch mom and society. Barely survived and I am hardcore red pill now, disgusted with how I once was. We need to see these guys as stockholm syndrome hostages, not enemies. Help free your fellow enslaved brothers, rather than gloating over your better circumstances.

[-] [deleted] 2 Points about a year ago

Nah I'm not going to excuse away the idiotic acts of fully grown men. If they can't for themselves see how they are waging war against their own Gender then i feel absolutely no ounce of Pity when it comes back to bite them. Don't blame society for common sense idiocy. I didn't need the red pill to see what hogwash sjws are. All i needed red pill for was sexual strategy and to understand what makes women tick.

[-] iLLprincipLeS 4 Points about a year ago

Statistics for kids raised by single mothers shows all manner of dysfunction (poverty, mental illness, crime) for kids raised by single mothers. e a kid alone. But the sheep don't see it like that, they start making all these wild accusations that the father was probably abusive or violent and that's why she raised the kid alone. It's presumed the mother is a victim of circumstance even though 99% of the time she created the circumstances she's in not only for herself, but for her kid(s.) And it's presumed the father is an asshole, but most the time he was a horny guy begged not to use a condom and told she was on the pill when she wasn't. So she gets pregnant and keeps the kid. Sometimes these guys don't even know they have a kid until they get a child support notice out of thin air. Then the poor guy gets fucking berated for being a deadbeat when all he did was fuck a woman under the presumption it was recreational sex and that no baby would be born.

If bitches are deceiving guys into fatherhood, and then crying victim when it backfires because he refuses to defer to her deceit, tough shit for her. The only victim here as far as I'm concerned is the child. She tricked the guy she fucked, tried to force him to become a parent, and when he wouldn't, tried to ruin his reputation and extract wealth. That is some fucked up shit. But hardly anybody sees it from that perspective, do they? Naturally, bitches be crazy and society is all jumped up on the sycophancy of feminism and the woman are wonderful effect, so she's blameless and he's just a cunt. People are so single-minded and intent on blaming the father it's unbelievable. If your father is never there for you growing up, there's a good fucking chance that's your mothers fault. But no, everyone acts like she's this marvellous creature for forcing her kid(s) to struggle for THEIR ENTIRE LIVES. And that the guy is probably some dark triad woman/kid abusing asshole. It's total fucking bullshit. Very few men are violent or abusive, that's complete lying utter horseshit used to smear the male name and justify the child abuse that is raising kids without a father.

No, the truth is, mummy was somebody's plate/one night stand and thought it would be a wise idea to not use protection AND THEN keep the kid. Her body, her choice, right? Does this oft gloated feminist principle not fucking extend to the responsibility of giving and raising life too? It makes me sick how everybody rallies to the aid of single mothers and exclaims how hard they have it and how everyone should feel sorry for them. Fuck that. Fuck them. They had a choice didn't they? I mean a whore has a fucking choice to take a pill, or get an implant or terminate. Or a million other things. The kid had no fucking choice to be born and go through all the dysfunction that awaits it. The kid is a total innocent and the mother, a cunt. I reserve all my sympathy for the boys and (to some extent, the girls) who grow up fatherless and fucking despise the child-abusing fucks that single mothers are. They are total fucking scum contributing to the complete and utter degeneracy of our society morally, spiritually, socially and economically. Total fucking scum. Again, it is total bullshit that the huge amount of kids who have no father all had asshole fathers who abused the mother/kid when most men in society are complete fucking betas. That's just not plausible. This is simple female blame-shifting mixed with misandry.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

Yeah, it seems to me that he also reaped what he had sown. He built the gallows, he hanged on the gallows.

[-] dontbethatguynow 4 Points about a year ago

Eggs in baskets, always have an exit strategy. I learned this early on after getting laid off form a well paying corporate job due to industry downturn. Luckily i had a few side hustles going on where i was able to enjoy an entire year off from a conventional job until i found a position i feel was right for me. when your lively hood reputation etc. is all centered around one aspect you have nothing to fall back on when something goes awry. sorry about your friend.

[-] [deleted] 1 Point about a year ago

Thanks for the reply. I am trying to figure out a side hustle. I work in health sciences and the writing is on the wall...It's only a matter of time until I have some bs accusation to deal with (again). What side gigs did you find that worked well for you if you don't mind me asking?

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[-] ChadThundercockII 5 Points about a year ago

I go to brothels and hire escorts a few times a month. I got to say, getting laid this way or with a random thot feels the same goddamn way. And the pro is going to put on and show for you, do whatever kinky shit you have on your mind that they, and then leave. And you know what? Prostitutes are now my preferred kind of females.

[-] Johnny-Thunderfrost 3 Points about a year ago

Shit dude. I’m in monk mode rn and have been considering entering the game again, but seeing all that’s happening at the moment with these false sexual assault claims, I’m really not sure that’s the best move. So little to gain, so much to lose.

[-] pariscafet 3 Points about a year ago

Women are more dangerous than a loaded handgun.

[-] RedPilledGodEmperor 3 Points about a year ago

My friend was let go from his job as a result and his reputation ruined in the industry. The next day he went missing. He was found days later. He had jumped and killed himself.

Doesn't surprise me. I remember hearing a story about a kid who was falsely accused of rape and killed himself. About a year later, his mother decided that she couldn't live with that anymore and killed herself too. This type of stuff is really bad. Here's the link for those curious:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/07/29/mother-of-son-who-hanged-himself--after-being-accused-of/

[-] RockhoundFIN 2 Points about a year ago

Ok, thats beyond fucked up. My condolences for your friend. Being ostracized and shamed sucks, if it leads to someone killing themselves then the person initiating that should be held accountable. Everyone (regardless of gender) should keep in mind that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Personally, after a bottle or two of whiskey it sometimes feels like our species might benefit from a good couple of hours of darwinism in the form of nuclear war. Then it comes time to sober up and again work hardest to do something to change myself first and contribute something to the world afterwards.

[-] lol_throwaway303 2 Points about a year ago

Is anyone going to bring up Roy Moore? There’s a big difference between him and let’s say Al Franken. It’s he said, she said. No provable allegations have been brought towards Moore where with Franken, the picture is the smoking gun.

Part of the yearbook signing was admitted to being falsified so the whole thing falls apart. Of course Moore is going to deny it. Who would admit to something that’s not true. Franken, Weinstein, Lauer, Rose all admit to it.

Anyone can say anything about anyone. It’s ‘supposed’ to be innocent until proven guilty in this country.

[-] Hillarysdilddo_2016 2 Points about a year ago

Hahahaha

"Another one bites the dust"

Great song.

I have no sympathy of those who align themselves with terrorists (SJWs).

[-] LeftHookTKD 0 Points about a year ago

The far right and far left are both terrorists

[-] Original_Dankster 2 Points about a year ago

I have a hard time feeling sorry for your buddy. He fed the SJW monster, and it grew up to bite him. So that's not a tragedy, that's just reaping what he's sown. So there's no tragedy here, and no pity from me on that count.

As for killing himself, that was unnecessary. He could have endured, relocated and prospered, but he was weak and chose the easy way out. Again, no tragedy I can see and no pity from me on that count either.

Yes #metoo is a modern day witch hunt, but fuck the leftists and SJWs who set this ball in motion.

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[-] redheroineisblue 1 Point about a year ago

Was your friend in the tech industry?

[-] [deleted] 1 Point about a year ago

Does anyone else feel like this "me too" shit is like living in an episode of black mirror?

[-] ChadThundercockII 1 Point about a year ago

Taking action, which is the only manly thing we still have in this globalized world, is sadly lacking from the West. You guys do not act when you are being acted upon. You are accused of rape? sorry, you didn't act when you should have. Someone is pressing false charges against you? Well you better press some false charges too. You were fired because of false accusations? Sue everyone in that company from the CEO to the janitor.

You are men. Act as such.

[-] SB-1 0 Points about a year ago

Unless you were there, you have no idea at all whether the allegations were true or not.

[-] 7thAnvil 7 Points about a year ago

SB-1, I have no idea at all whether you have molested little kids or not. No idea whatsoever.

[-] juliusstreicher 1 Point about a year ago

Actually, yes you do. There are many 'tells' that liars have. In this case, timing, motivation, opportunity, etc... Even psychos who can fool trillions of their mates and family can be seen displaying them.

[-] LeftHookTKD 1 Point about a year ago

That's true. So where is the proof? Why is she allowed to accuse people without it? Why can't I accuse you of murder right now?

[-] PowerVitamin -7 Point about a year ago

Good. Thin the herd. A man should be dependable outside of the community. Women die outside of the tribe. Men survive. Let this be a lesson. Learn how to mentally prepare yourself for being alone. Because one day, all you'll have is yourself.

[-] [deleted] 12 Points about a year ago

Unfortunately many men have been mislead by society and forgot alpha traits ie being a lone wolf. Many now redpillers included at one point. I don't wish death on anyone including sjws and far rather hold the idea of helping them find their inner alpha when they hit rock bottom rather than being a dick saying good to their death. Tyler Derden approach.

[-] [deleted] 9 Points about a year ago

Learn to be happy with being alone. I have gone from having no friends to having lots of friends, more than most. Didn't change a thing. They don't understand when I don't want to hang out sometimes and want to just chill alone, in my room, maybe with a blunt, maybe without one, but just enjoying the solitude with myself. This is the center of gravity for a strong frame.

Hell, I remember after I graduated high school, the summer started. I realized that I had literally no friends in a weird moment of revelation when I got to my room after school. I sort of smiled at myself, amazed by how little not having any friends bothered me. Then I turned on my computer and started playing World of Warcraft. Was hella fun, niggas

[-] [deleted] 6 Points about a year ago

You and me both. I love being solo and always have even in LTRs.

[-] [deleted] 2 Points about a year ago

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[-] [deleted] 1 Point about a year ago

Tyler showed the meaning of "helping yourself" to Cornelius even if Tyler was a creation in Corneliuss own mind (the lye and let go car crash scene). I believe everyone has the ability to learn to be happy alone with themselves even if they don't fully check off all the alpha boxes. Some people live in such a small box(mainstream) reality that if they get pushed out of it, they don't realize there is more to life than what they are accustomed to(lead to believe) and can still be happy and successful. I also am not saying don't ever be with a woman but just cover your ass as much as possible.

[-] PowerVitamin 1 Point about a year ago

He took his own life buddy. It was his choice. He chose to die, not for a cause, not for a higher cause; he took his life out of fear. You do not want to be that guy. This is the utmost pathetic human behaviour possible for a male.

[-] [deleted] 1 Point about a year ago

I'm not even going to argue over this. You can be a man and still have empathy.

[-] [deleted] 7 Points about a year ago

Even high smv, red pilled men are heavily dependent on the system. They've invested their fucking identity in it.

This is their fault. Every man should have a sense of value, mission and purpose outside of mainstream commerce and public perception.

Shit, I've come out of monk modes so invested in myself, I can't even understand how a man would kill himself because he got fired.

[-] [deleted] 3 Points about a year ago

I am in a temp monk mode atm myself. Broke up from my 2 year long rebound that I dated after dropping the plates. 2 months solo as of yesterday and everyday I feel better. Goal is minimum 6 month hiatus...maybe a year of just self focus.

[-] Throwawaysteve123456 2 Points about a year ago

Good? Fuck you. Just because there's a scientific explanation for behavior, doesn't mean you don't show fucking sympathy when someone dies.