If you've been in the game for a while you start to see patterns.
You've seen America change in subtle ways--although there have been many technological innovations I would gladly go back to more analog ways. But that's a topic for another post.
So what does momentum and the Fibonacci sequence have to do with dating and the dynamics between men and women you ask.
Glad you asked.
I won't resort to a dictionary definition of momentum because you know what it is. You have seen it everywhere and probably in places you don't realize.
Momentum is what keeps a freight train rolling. And makes it hard to stop.
Momentum is how the winning team thrashes the opponent: think about those fourth quarter drives where the offensive team doesn't go into a huddle so as not to break momentum.
OK
How does that apply to sex and dating?
It hit me several years ago when I was reading the autobiography of Anthony Kiedis--Scar Tissue.
He said that when they started touring the band had a broke-down van and he had no prospects for sex or dating.
As time went on and they played gigs he went from one girlfriend to several to sex every night to multiple partners in a day. How sweet it is when you are on the upswing of this cycle.
The benefits of being in a band: visibility and access.
I have seen that pattern twice in my life when I found myself at zero, in a new place, with no social sphere and no prospects.
Thus urban adventuring begins.
Harem Building 101
I also noticed another pattern:
That once you broke through and overcame the initial challenge of getting the first date things seemed to get easier.
Oddly, this mirrored the pattern of the Fibonacci Sequence.
It goes something like this:
0, 1, 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, 13
It's also represented by the Golden Spiral.
And that is what I noticed; once you got the first date or one night stand it became progressively easier to meet girls until you acquired a nice pool of women to date and followed a pattern akin to the Fibonacci Sequence.
In those days I would eventually beta down to just one and inevitably have to get back out to the streets and online and hunt like Orion.
When I was in this hunter stage I was very forward about the fact that I was dating other women and I never had one say that was not okay. They all were receptive and cool with the situation. At the time it seemed a bit counter-intuitive but knowing now the active principles of Red Pill Theory it makes perfect sense.
In engineering parlance when you are starting out this shift in energy is known as Activation Energy. That's why it's recommended you lower (or raise) the thermostat when you leave the house rather than turn the heating/cooling off because it requires more energy (read money) to turn on and start than it does to maintain a temperature.
As the legendary swordsman Musashi says:
Everything is hard at first.
So don't be discouraged; use the power of momentum.
WhackTheFuck 6y ago
Musashi also said "Today is your victory over yourself of yesterday"
Keep that in mind and remember it takes time, but every step counts. Every thought counts. Every little thing makes you better, when you move in right direction.
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This is really useful to internalize. I first adapted this theory through Joe Dispenza. Where focus goes,energy flows.
It is really hard to stop abruptly.First you slow down,then you turn around,then gain full speed in a wanted direction.
It can be applied to anything.
When I stop studying for a month,it becomes impossible to study for an hour.When I study everyday,it is easy to study for 8 hours.
When you never exercised,it is impossible to join the gym. When you've been training for a year,it becomes natural.
Everything is momentum,thought-repeated thought-action-habit-ease.
And anything can be solved with it.
Great read.
dwayne_jetski 6y ago
Getting laid boosts T > boosting T makes you look and feel better > looking and feeling better gets you laid > repeat
Being depressed makes you unattractive, physically and socially > makes you not get laid > not gettting laid makes you depressed > repeat
Not that simply "getting laid" is the goal but... Everything is a cycle. Get on the right one.
Awesome post!
blurtard 6y ago
So I should get some roids
Witch-Doctor 6y ago
They're more hassle than what they're worth. I realise you're joking but SARMS are a great alternative with hardly any of zero side effects
185poundsofhatredWIP 6y ago
SARMS will still supress your natural T. Not to mention they won't provide any mental bebefits, since they are strictly (almost) anabolic. You're better off going balls deep with tren than pissing around with lgd.
JBrody 6y ago
The problem with those is that most of the online retailers seem shady as fuck.
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ozaku7 6y ago
The women you date are fine with you dating others because it means you won't go oneitis on them like a starving honeybee on a bears ass dipped in honey.
If she wants you, she still knows how to lock you down. If not, she knows you won't stick and will just move on. Which is just a win for the woman because it takes away the worry of having to deal with sticky garbage betas.
HoloRick 6y ago
I usually don't post on TRP, but I just wanted to say it's reassuring knowing that others have this same idea. The idea that "phi", "the Fibonacci sequence" or "the Golden Ratio" isn't just a magical number, but also it can be applied to one's mentality. This makes the saying "never stop moving" much more enlightening.
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TheRedChemist 6y ago
Okay, but what does this post achieve? What does it recommend? "If you're not succeeding yet keep going until you do"? "Once you are succeeding you'll succeed more"? This doesn't help the guy who's struggling, he already knows he needs to keep working or fail. Nor does it teach anything new to the guy who's already winning.
dwayne_jetski 6y ago
0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0...
The point is that your shortcomings effect your mind set and send you in to a cycle. Part of breaking the cycle is seeing it, in all its steps. See my other reply.