Agree 100%,the most alpha dude i have ever seen happens to be my Brother and i have been aware of the alpha pass, i have heard him calling a women literally a cock sucker in front of everyone and they just laugh as if he was a standup comedian, i have witnessed the alpha pass numerous times, things he says are taken as comedy while the same thing been said by a beta or someone who has not proved themselves can get them in a lot of trouble

Science recognizes that there are two distinct types of male orangutan. They have different physiology from each other. One type is agressive and often scarred. Females willingly mate with this type. The other type is weaker, females avoid them, and they have to basically corner and rape females if they are to procreate.

Fantastic point, OP.

"Sexual harassment is a crime committed by beta-males who think they can get away with alpha behaviour."

Could not agree more, this 100% lines up with my lived experiences.

a distinction too delicate for the blunt instrument of the law. How do you explain to a judge why one man's comedy is another man's bone-chilling lechery?

Well one way to explain it might be the observation that if it's ok for one man to do it, it shouldn't be a crime when another does so.

Theft doesn't depend on the perpetrator, because it's well defined in law. Sexual harassment needs the same rigorous application of definition, lest it all comes down to feelz.

I've banged a lot of brawds , by not even tryin alpha or beta , I let the beta be a nice I let the alpha be a dumb guy. I run a catch and release program. I don't even know how many brawds I've laid. I don't consider my self an alpha but I also don't believe self esteem is a real thing but that's just me. I didn't choose this life I wanted the dream we talk about not being real.

Feminism is not a war against men, is a war against beta men. The beta men the same feminism has created.

It's the same thing that each individual woman makes with their relationships. They will transform their boyfriends/husbands into beta, and start arguing and starting battles over any little thing, a war against their now beta bfs/husbands.

Feminism is just female nature but in colective form.

Reminds me of this scene from Family Guy... The principal's statement at 10:20-27 says it all.

Family Guy S14E13

Just one more double standard to add to the pile.

Funny, yet sad. When women feel comfortable in dropping their facades and speaking directly about 'the game', it means the culture is fuuucked.

That is rubbish. If there is a spark of attraction then that behavior can be fine. If its unwanted that is harassment. That's it. Being self assured and cocky does not make that behaviour ok if someone isn't interested. At all. It's just as grim

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.

Beyond that, much like with food, it's in the presentation. Personally, I get away with murder because I know how to turn a phrase. It's a learnable skill.

It is a common and well known fact that attractive people have an easier life, accept it and move on.

This falls under the attractive people rule. Take comfort in the fact that if you are an ugly wet fish with no charisma that sure the women you want do not want you but neither do the fat ones, there is always a silver lining chaps.

There is a scene in inglorious basterds where a rat is compared to a squirrel, you don't know why the rat repulses you, all you know is that it does. Same thing here, some guys by there looks, and or behaviour repulse women, who knows why. Some can modify their behaviour & some they will always be the rat.

It is unfair, sure but if life was fair not a single organism could survive.

You don't even have to be a top-tier dude to get the alpha pass.. Just be reasonably attractive not a complete blue-pill bitch boy pushover. I'm 5'8".. I've got decent facial aesthetic (not super handsome chiseled jew line, but have been told I'm a good looking dude by hot chicks), I dress cool in a sort of hipster/rock/metalhead fashion, have tattoos, and am a little bit impulsive/risk taking. I have exhibited the alpha pass numerous times and in my beta days have dealt with being shamed for having a sex drive.

That being said, this dynamic is very fluid and changes depending on the person. If you're socially with-it, it comes naturally to gauge what kind of shit you can pull.

I would not really consider myself a "chad bro" although I have some elements of it (tattoos, DGAF lifestyle/mentality, risk taking behaviors, dress cool) but at the same time I have my own insecurities, have lost frame with girlfriends, been cheated on, and pussy beta moments too.

I've been working in restaurants since I was 15. I genuinely enjoy the work, though it's not something I could see myself doing career wise.. As some of you may know, lots of slutty chicks work in restaurants and when you're part of a kitchen crew, you'll probably wind up banging or at least drunkenly making out with some FOH piece of ass at some point.

There was one girl (HB7) in particular I worked with who totally had the hots for me (and a few other guys in the restaurant) but she was particularly fond of me. She would get excited when I'd grab her ass, or on one occasion when I grabbed her by the pussy. This girl smiles and loves the idea of being sexually objectified by me. We made out a few times and fucked in the middle of a field after drinking some wine together one night after work. She also has an LTR boyfriend, but the dude practically looks like a scrawny little boy. (Now you might say I'm a shitbag for this, but let's be real.. Everyone was in her BF's shoes at some point and when her BF wakes up to the game that is "serious relationships" he's going to be doing the same shit the second he exhibits gains and a more alpha perspective on life).

On the other hand, one of the guys at my work who isn't so "easy on the eyes", fat, fits your stereotypical neck beard role (except replace WoW, LoL, and other geek culture interests with sports, smoking weed, and call of duty) would try to flirt with her and she'd be legitimately disgusted by it. Same with a few other guys. She would often get this kid to do favors for her like buy her booze or give her rides. All of the other girls in the store were the same way.

I also have a female friend / on again off again plate who's an SJW type (although she's hot in that blue hair tatted up suicide girl kind of way and tolerates my cis white male perspectives because girls like this let respectable men mansplain reality to them.) This girl will get unattractive guys who approach her kicked out of a bar for not even saying anything lewd, yet she leaves the bar with me and lets me choke her and slap her lightly when we fuck.

Now in this situation, I'm the top tier guy. The girls at my work are sexually attracted to me and I've banged/made out with a few of them.

But in other groups, I have been more like the neck beard guy I previously described. Mainly cause a lot of my guy friends are higher SMV than me. I have been that guy who chauffeurs his friend and girlfriend around who his girlfriend fucking hates and doesn't respect despite the fact I'm nice to her. I have been that guy who's the punching bag of the group who everyone rags on and jokes about. And guess what? Even though I've made a lot of progress with the red pill, these people still see me the same way they did when I was a skinny fat, unhygienic slob who let his whole social circle treat him like a door mat.

Or even in the restaurant situation.. There was another HB7 who had this total Amy Schumer attitude and would constantly rag on me, and attempt to humiliate me at work. However, she was probably just sexually frustrated and jealous.

says it all - genes matter

https://vimeo.com/30042289

I love explaining this to women who at first try to deny it. One example:

Me: "Good looking guys can do whatever they want, ugly dudes cant. If an ugly guy walked up and slapped your ass you'd slap him back and curse him out. If a good looking guy did the same you'd just giggle and flirt."

Her: "no I wouldnt, that's still gross."

Me: "so if Brad Pitt did that you'd slap him in the face?"

Her, after a quick thought: "OK no Brad Pitt can do anything he wants to me"

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Lmao like the Tom Brady SNL skit. 1. Be attractive. 2. Don't be unattractive.

""Sexual harassment is a crime committed by beta-males who think they can get away with alpha behaviour."

This is one of those obvious truths that everyone subconciously just knows to be a fact, but is rarely put into writing.

One of the most instructive moments of my life--

16 years ago (I was 24), Blue Pilled as could be, had oneitis for this one girl, thought we were going to eventually end up together, was just a matter of time, meanwhile I continued to orbit, and orbit (for months, and months)...

Of course my best guy friend rolled in at one point, nailed her after a few days, and rolled back out (returned to his fiancee back home) a few weeks later.

I'll never forget though, at one point he literally swept her off her feet and made some crack like (responding to something she said): "Oh yeah?? That's just what a SLUT like you would do...!!" She giggled, she loved it.

Days later the same girl (the one I had oneitis for) and I were talking, joking, laughing, and I said almost EXACTLY the same thing my friend had said just a little while before, something to the effect of "Oh yeah, that's just what a SLUT would say...!!" etc.

She immediately hit me with "HOW DARE YOU, DON'T YOU EVER SAY THAT TO ME EVER AGAIN." I was floored--hadn't I just said the exact same thing someone else had already said...?? (And in the exact same manner, tone of voice etc?)

Lesson learned: it's all about the context, the art is defined by the frame. In this case, it's all about who, exactly, is doing the action, giving the speech etc.

Alpha man gets away with it, Beta man does not.

EDIT: Tyler Durden (of RSD) actually has a great video about this--

HOW WOMEN JUDGE MEN: WOMEN'S DOUBLE STANDARDS EXPOSED

In the vid his beta buddy chats up a girl, makes some comments re: how hot her legs are etc, she shuts him down with "How rude!! That's harassment!!", and then Tyler pops into the set, gets the kino in, gets her laughing (establishes the frame), and then says the exact same thing the beta guy said and she's like "Tee hee hee you're so cute!!" Best part is he actually calls her out on it, definite must see viewing.

I always say sexual comments to women I work with hangout with etc.. last week as an example, a woman I work with has a nice set of tits, she was wearing a shirt where the pleat literally stopped at her nipple. My comment to her was, 'didn't you see where the pleat stopped on your shirt' at the same time indicating thd nipple, and with me having a grin on my face..

Her response was a mock covering of her tits while she laughed it off.. and continued doing what ever she was before I stopped her.

This is mild for me, but an example of what I get away with. I don't consider my self a good loooking guy maybe a 6 or a 7, but I always get away with saying things that other guys would get the 'you're a fucken creep' look.

Not sure if it's alpha but imo it's all about delivery.

A great man once said: "When you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab ’em by the pussy. You can do anything." And he was absolutely correct. You can get away with anything, and they love you for it.

And for the guys who have never experienced the Alpha Pass, the guys who worry about manspreading and the guys who get creep-shamed for making direct eye contact: this isn't some kind of metaphor. You can literally grab women by the pussy and there are no consequences. They just squeal with delight.

"I grabbed America by the pussy and she said "Yes!" - Donald Trump

I've actually been thinking about this for a while... glad to see someone else echoes my sentiments

 

My advice is to do what would be considered Alpha and if the spoiled bitch doesn't like it just not care.

Unless you get arrested for it who cares?

Just act like you don't give a damn.

 

and what is alpha behavior?

One thing that I think plays a huge factor in determining whether something is creepy or taken as just a joke is that person's perceived abundance mentality. Perceived from the Woman's perspective.

If a Beta, who would fall in love with the first girl who was receptive to that gesture and not just that but focus their sexual energy and general attention on this one girl then yeah, that would be creepy. They would begin to go out of their way to get more reactions out of the girl in any capacity... this is due to having no social awareness.

On the other hand, the Alpha would do the gesture and leave it at that. Therefore, the gesture would literally just be a joke. They wouldn't go and buy the girl lunch, hover around the desk, or orbit her in any way. They wouldn't be trying to get an investment out of the girl off of the basis of a small joke, whereas the Beta would. In fact, the Alpha would be doing this with multiple girls throughout the day ( not the same joke over and over) but flirting in general.

The Woman inherently knows this and will separate John the Creep, and Jonathan the Alpha in a split second.

While the language of some of you I'm not fond of the Alpha pass is real and I get away with so much shit. My boy though would get killed for the stuff I pull with females.

In class I sit next to this hot chick. The other day she brought in a frappuccino & finished it in class and set the mostly empty cup at the edge of the desk. At the end of class the dude that sits in front of us was leaving and told her not to spill the cup & said she almost did (she hadnt come close to spilling anything). This kid is a serious dweeb, all semester he turns around and trys to talk to me but trips over his words and says things to quietly to understand. Hot chick to my left give him a puzzled look & said nothing. Then I said "Yea watch out, your going to make a mess on the floor!" and she laughed and went to move the cup and said "oh no" jokingly

Basically we delivered the same line but only one of us got a positive reaction. There is much truth to the OPs post.

We've all seen it to some degree in our lives, this is no shock.

this is something that low smv guys need to consider, YOU CANNOT do what Chad does, like grab women by the pussy

First raise your smv, meanwhile stick to your weapons which may be some aspects from Game (being fun, cocky without overdoing it), and having a strong frame. CALIBRATE better

When you get to the point where women grab your biceps and touch your 6pack you can be more aggressive in the escalation and the things you say, otherwise you'll get restrain order

Can confirm was talking to wife about roids I was about to buy she said I won't stay if you buy them their dangerous yada yada. Bought them anyway been making my juice gains she sees me do them before the gym and just says wow their really helping you while fondling me. Same thing with buying guns and other shit. It's all smoke and mirrors think of it as a test do something she doesn't agree with if she accepts it begrudgingly or changes her mind when you do it she views you as alpha. If she leaves because of it she views you as beta and did you a favor by showing it.

So now we're going to get women openly discussing alpha-passes, emasculation and mistreatment of unwanted males (to the point of putting them in place by a social face-slap)? Gee, I wonder what will bluepills do. I'd say nothing.

Feminist indoctrination is working, now we're having bluepill bluepills. But this will, in the end, lead to another power shift.

Refreshing to see the illusion stripped away by a woman in an honest manner. RP principals confirmed.

I've thought this many times and almost made a post about it previously.

It's a snowball effect. After a certain level of alphaness (or something) you almost can say nothing wrong at any time. This means social anxiety dissolves even further leading to more spoken truths with no fucks given.

As long as you keep in mind the possible audience for what you say and do, you can't go wrong. IE; don't ever be sleazy in front of an older female boss.

I've been at parties where I've had my hands on a girl minutes after meeting her. She is lapping it up. Another mate of mine gets called out by the same girl in front of everyone for looking at her cleavage. I almost felt sorry for him.

Being red pill aware makes social situations so much more interesting and clearer to understand.

Great post.

It totally exists. There are exactly 3 guys where I work who reap the benefits, myself included. All the other guys are not viewed anywhere near the same(there's probably 40 others). 3/4 of the work force is women.

I get away with so much bullshit it's not even funny. Everyone helps me even when I don't need it just for an excuse to be around me. Women automatically jump to arms against anyone who decides to talk shit about me. The owner of my company doesn't fire me even when I've totally screwed her over by not coming in for two weeks at one point.

It's real. And you better believe I take full advantage of it. When you make sure you're valuable, people tend hand you power over them.

I once tried to chat up a girl "friend" and she complained about me talking too much with nonsensical small talk.

5 minutes later she was hugging someone and they were talking about some of the most nonsensical stuff. I don't even have to tell you that he was full of alpha male traits by now.

It's not just getting sexual. A woman feels blessed for being in the presence of an attractive alpha male. He is the prize. That's the alpha pass.

The most FRUSTRATING part is that some women see you as an ALPHA GOD while others don't.

I knew a really sexy 9/10 black girl who I knew liked me. I saw her in the lunchroom and told her to come with me. I took her in the staircase, whipped my dick out and she got naked and started sucking right away.

However, a 6/10 asian girl called me a "creep" after I made a sexual joke. She then proceeded to tell everyone I was a creep.

It is a gray area for EVERYONE. The best advice is learn to read HER SIGNS. She is the GATEKEEPER after all:

EYE CONTACT (she will stare but turn away once you look. Shes still looking at you but using her periferal vision)

LIP BITING (finger biting, pen biting, bottle biting, straw biting or sucking https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sdCA-7Z80j0

HAIR TOUCHING (sometimes she will touch her breasts and pussy as well)

ALPHA GOD Status:
STUTTERING SPEECH
BLUSHING
SHAKING HANDS

Later I found out the black girl liked me because I was smart and white. Women like random shit about you- DO NOT GET DISCOURAGED if you aren't tall etc.

Patrice O'neal- fat ass motherfucker got a sexy ass girl and he always joked about how she does all this crazy sexual shit and threesomes etc. He joked about how he is amazed that she liked him for his "mind". She stayed with him for 10 yrs until his death despite the fact that he told her he wont get married or have kids!

Good shit. There are a lot of fake alphas in this sub. ThoughI think the terms Alpha and beta get over used. And I'm sure if any of that truly matters. There are plenty of broke ass alphas and rich ass betas who get laid.

Glad you're aware that betas only respond to memes and tailored to that. ;)

I have said so many cringeworthy shit and still got women, i was openly sexist, still got women, i made nasty remarks, still got women, you can even be a fucking serial killer and still get women, all you need to have is charm. It's almost like the women forget who you are or something, they just ignore that part of you, it's fascinating

Seduction is harassment that the seducee appreciates. - Zizek.

Why are rapists so disgusting to our political morality? They take what should be taken without 'getting it' and thus having no right to do so.

Problem is that alpha is subjective. Sure a guy who is top 1% in looks is alpha for every woman, but it remains true that for any given male, there are some women who are attracted and some who are not. Add to this the fleeting nature of feelz; the fact that for a woman you might be alpha today, and beta tomorrow.

So it basically boils down to women's preference on the moment. Sure it's not new, everybody knows that depending on the man and woman's preference, a same pick up line might be "sweet" or "creepy". The only thing new is that now you'd better be 100% sure to be seen as a alpha for a given woman at a given time, because where in the past you'd be just politely rejected and in the present you're labeled as "a creep", in the future you'll be put in jail.

Best part about getting fired for referring to a coworker as a B is that it was WKs who went to HR about it while acknowledging she didn't seem upset by it (she knew what she was doing, all in jest). Fucking gender traitors probably ate their WAGs pussies extra hard that night.

Tom Brady on SNL giving a perfect example of the Alpha Pass

This is so fucking true. Back in college I could get away with smacking girls asses in public and saying ridiculously lewd things...to the point where a few of them would straight up tell me if someone smacked their ass they knew I was standing behind them trying to say hi. They think it's funny, not creepy. Not sure everyone else could get away with that.

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