It's interesting you begin to get your self confidence, self esteem, and self worth up. You begin to notice that a decent amount of women actually might be lusting after you.
You actually get out of your head and into the moment.
Last night I went to my weekly kickback. It's board games and a movie. I'm not really into board games. But it's cool for the social aspect. And as an actor and filmmaker I try to watch movies as much as I can and a good movie is usually put on.
I'm at the table and this cute Japanese chick is next to me. Little by little I noticed that she is totally into me. She asks me how to play, what cards to choose, etc. We then got into anime and during the middle of the game I'm showing her clips of a badass chick from this badass anime. The next thing I know when the movie starts I'm sitting next to her as she gets me my popcorn. I got her number of course.
There was another chick who I had met the week before (Asian, maybe Japanese). I saw her and how she acted and was pretty attracted off the bat. She was a high strung girl. High strung girls attract me and make me nervous. They are so full of life that it's intimidating. And they are usually too flightly for me.
As this night went on I could tell out of all of the dudes there (and it was mostly dudes after the movie was over), she paid the most attention to me. I remember when we were playing a game and I was on my phone. She was like "Hey it's your turn, I'm on a phone at a party." I just love it when a woman calls me out on my shit in a playful way. And we played around later.
There were a few other girls that I noticed were into me as well. Before I either wouldn't notice this or if I did I would just be too into my head. But I've realized the secret is really not giving a fuck and not being in your head.
I go there not to hang with women. I go there to just hang. I tend to talk to the guys overall more than the women. I talk to the guys first. I'll sit next to some women during the film. But I am ten tensed on the film.
If you are a cool dude who is being authentic and doesn't give a fuck, chances are you will have a decent amount of women interested because most guys are try hards. I remember when one of the guys playing the game got up at one point and went across the room. When he was walking me she said "looks like he got turned down." Ouch.
You have to feel like you are the shit. You have to feel that there is no one else like you. You got to do you. Don't do anything to impress a woman. I've learned this the hard way.
thisornothing 7y ago
Semi decent post until the OP decided to throw a tantrum about fucking anime. Jesus Christ.
NeoreactionSafe 7y ago
The most obvious "tell" is when you look in their eyes and they "freeze" for a split second.
During that split second she is having anxiety because of Tingles.
She will immediately try to play it cool... but she's already cracked.
Your next move is to go in for the score. (if she is what you want)
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NeoreactionSafe 7y ago
Yes, it is fear mixed with sexual excitement.
Someone should create a top level post on the idea.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
I got an example.
Last night I was fucking around with this one chick. As soon as it died down what he described happened. If I had any doubts that she was into, they were erased. It's like a charming moment in a film.
But of course we were at a table with five other people and I am not even sure if I am that into her. But that's what he means.
electricqueer 7y ago
Got a clip or photo?! Having a hard time visualizing the "freeze"!
NeoreactionSafe 7y ago
It's the "deer in the headlights" look.
That idea alone is worth a top level posting.
Someone ought to go through google images and find a dozen or so images of women who are momentarily dazed and help people to see what it looks like.
electricqueer 7y ago
But how do you know there arent just freaked out by you cause they find you creepy???
NeoreactionSafe 7y ago
When they think you are creepy they have a look of disgust.
Creepy ----> Boring ----> Beta
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
No, not really
Are people on here this insecure and fake macho? I mean you do realize that you are on reddit right?
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DrNextAHoe 7y ago
Hahahahaha what the fuck just happened in this comment thread. OP needs to chill, jesus.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Look, another condescending fuck.
Quit lying. I know exactly what you are doing. You are nothing special.
edwardhwhite 7y ago
You sure that's DGAF to be swiping at these guys?
dzorro 7y ago
it's just dumb to come on here and say stupid shit
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Yeah. If this was real life I might not say shit. But it's Reddit so Idc.
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
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Never said I had a problem with that. Though I don't like people being condescending towards me. And a few people certainly have been.
And I am the OP of this thread...
DrNextAHoe 7y ago
Aww he's unhappy about condescending people :'(
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Who cares if it is nerdy? Anime can be great art. Most non nerds sit at home and watch crap like Big Bang Theory, we're above that. Anime is above that.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
The thing is, that's just people trying to break you down. People who don't think that you can be cool and certain things.
But I suppose I shouldn't care. I wasted my time talking to those fools.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Stfu you loser. I bet if I saw you on the streets you'd run in terror. You think that you are redpill. But you are just some wannabe. You are so ashamed of yourself that you attempt to cut down others. I don't respect you at all. I'm sure you are just some fuck boy.
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Is that supposed to be clever?
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
LOL. Well you failed miserably as there are some clever ass anime. Just ask Steven Spielberg (stole E.T from an anime), Disney (famously stole the Lion King from the anime Kimba the Lion) and the Wachowski siblings (they copped to taking a great deal from Ghost in the shell and putting that into the style and message in the Matrix which is getting a shitty live action version with Scarlet Johanasson).
I thought the people who frequented the anime sub were bad. You are worse.
IvankasBabyDaddy 7y ago
This is more of you finding your niche than it is a relatable example.
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slothsenpai 7y ago
As someone who loves anime, I agree. Talking about anime or any of your 'geeky' interests doesn't wet pussy whatsoever. Maybe to a particular niche but it ain't gonna impress your typical bar slut or that generic Tinder girl who's into wine, travelling and "live, let, smile" or whatever overused inane quote.
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
I agree (though I don't find anime geeky). It's common interests that allows you to connect. But I also don't go after bar sluts anymore and I am not on Tinder anymore. Those types of women don't interest me anymore. I suppose I am selective that way.
Officer_Dick_Johnson 7y ago
How old are you? How many years you put into Bar an Tinder sluts, before calling it quits?
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
I am 24. I have gone out to clubs and bars for about three years. I was on tinder for about a year. Then I realized it wasn't for me (anymore anyway, at one point I liked going out).
Officer_Dick_Johnson 7y ago
Good for you. In this thread you sounded 16 though.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
I didn't realize that 16 years old could be done with bar and tinder sluts. A 16 year d in Europe?
Officer_Dick_Johnson 7y ago
I was generalizing the immature nature of your reaction in the comments rather than specifying your age.
I don't think there's any place where 16 would be the norm in bars, even in EU haha
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TheDialecticParadox 7y ago
Sounds like they had already decided to fuck you considering there is nothing here about game.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
That's kinda the point. You don't need game when the women are already into you. And those are the type of women that you want.
That's not to say that it's no effort on my part. I was into pick up for three years after all. But I've found that I do the best when I don't spit game and just be myself. And then I'll use what I've learned about the game to my advantage.
redpillren 7y ago
This is his game. It works. Abundance
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trp_dude 7y ago
Yeah, once your body fat gets below 10% and you've been working out, you'll find that happens a lot. I get looks from women all the time now. Funny thing is, it starts off with looks from HB5s an 6s, and then goes slowly up from that until HB7s and 8s are looking at you.
I was giving a talk a few weeks ago, and the hilarious thing is that I would make eye contact with chicks in the audience and they would quickly look away, as if they had been staring. Except it's OK to stare at the speaker... Just a reflex on their part.
And women will start touching you on the arm. All the time. Nowadays , if I'm talking to any woman for longer than 5 mins, they will touch me. Women I've know for ten years who never touched me before TRP, will now touch me every time I see them.
muh_posts 7y ago
The book of Pook talks about that exact phenomenon.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Idk if my body fat is that low. But I am built like a tight end (I was one in high school).
But you are so right. At first it's decent looking girls. Then cute girls. Now it's hotter girls. I was walking on the street last night and one real pretty cute was staring me down so much that I broke eye contact. And chick was looking at me and as soon I made eye contact she turned away.
And I've noticed girls touch me more and more after we talk.
I could get used to this haha.
nonthaki 7y ago
She likes what she can GET out/from You .
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Just a message: No fake alphas allowed. I know this sub is full of them.
Tirfing88 7y ago
u starting to sound like a fedora, I like anime too but I wouldn't consider anything anime-related as badass
DrNextAHoe 7y ago
It was after this comment that OP was triggered for the rest of the night.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Not all anime. But Full Metal Alchemist? Attack on Titian? Ruroni Kenshin? Psycho Pass? Fate Zero? Death Note?
There are some pretty sick anime. Most non fans generalize way too much.
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CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Stfu. I never said it was a hobby. I don't even have hobbies outside of racing and music (and even then I don't the time these days).
And I also dub anime, so it's apart of my career. And it creatively inspires me. It's for me. Not for any girl, or anyone on here (though most of the people in my life from friends, women, to my roommate watch a ton of anime).
So kindly fuck off.
Tirfing88 7y ago
Yeah well it's alright, you got the girls so you can talk anything you want. As long as you keep authentic just like you said.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Damn straight! I'm just being me. And I don't want to be anything other than what I've been trying to be lately.
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Lol, my fedora scouter is over 9000, this dudes probably just a white dude with a natural Chad Jaw and green eyes wondering why women look at him. Gtfo
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
I am black and 6ft tall. Dunno if I am a Chad. But I just do me. And women dig me for being me.
It's funny how some people want to tear you down for being yourself. I must be doing something right.
AnjaJutta 7y ago
OP you got shit tested on the internet and denominated yourself to the lowest rank of manchild. Please stop sounding off like the woman that spoiled your ass and read up on frame. Agree and amplify etc.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Stfu. Idc about the Internet. This is not real life. Not even close. And if you actually think that any of this really matters then you need help.
AnjaJutta 7y ago
Nice projection and straw man combo. Now you can win every argument in your middleschool debate competition.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
Did you get violated as a kid?
AnjaJutta 7y ago
Yes, a 6ft black man sucked my dick when I was 16. He then paid me 100$. I heard he was into anime.
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
For anyone dissing me, you do realize that if it weren't for anime that the Wachowski siblings wouldn't have made the Matrix, which created the red pill as we know.
The Wachowskis cited the art of comic book artist Geof Darrow as an influence on the look of The Matrix. Also, they said that Ghost in the Shell, Ninja Scroll, and Akira were anime that inspired them, saying "in anime, one thing that they do that we tried to bring to our film was a juxtaposition of time and space in action beats."
thisornothing 7y ago
People are "dissing" you because you're throwing a hissy fit about anime when nobody gives a shit. How did you think that would make you look?
CinematicRacer14 7y ago
I actually don't care about how I look online. I do care that I wasted my time engaging those people.