I don't get it. They always bitch and whine that white men are privileged and then they just date white guys. It doesn't make any sense and I'm sick of these people always posting bullshit on my facebook newsfeed about how they are the victims because they are people of color and then they just perpetuate the same bs through their actions (they respect white guys more than ethnics academically and reflect similar preferences in dating). As an ethnic male I am really fed up. Am I right or wrong in this assertion?

Edit: in the title I meant to type "ethnic women" not just ethnics.