THE GARBAGE COLLECTOR'S QUALITATIVE GUIDE TO THE FOUR BORDERLINE ARCHETYPES

Summary: The purpose of this guide to enable the men of TRP to visually identify women with Borderline Personality Disorder.

Edited for clarity and ease of reading.



Introduction

Women with Borderline Personality Disorder are dangerous, especially towards their sexual partner(s).

They use a predatory version of the female sexual strategy, whereby they will manipulate all of your masculine instincts, for the purposes of extracting your sperm, robbing you of your resources, and eventually destroying everything that you are as a man. There are many horror stories about men being cheated out of their lives here on TRP. This is a guide for anyone who enjoys having the capacity to value themselves, or otherwise wishes to regain the ability.

 

This is the first of what will be a multi-part series on how to quickly identify the Borderline Woman.



Content

This first post will be a lesson on how to identify the "Four Archetypes" of the Borderline Woman.

These are: (a) The Queen, (b) The Hermit, (c) The Waif, and (d) The Witch.

Each archetype reflects a unique resource-stealing strategy, as well as an insight into the delusion of the BPD mind. Due to her enormous exposure and frequent displays of BPD-like behavior, the subject of this post will be Taylor Swift.

After all... http://imgur.com/bxT8KFI

 

Included with this post are quotations from the book Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back when Someone You Care about has Borderline Personality Disorder.

These quotations will guide you when you are assessing how the BPD Woman is interacting with the people around her. They will also serve as a warning for what is to come should you choose to stay in proximity with one of these women.

 



THE GUIDE TO IDENTIFYING TO THE FOUR BORDERLINE ARCHETYPES

Italics are from “Stop Walking on Eggshells” by Randi Kreger and Paul Mason.


The Queen

This is your classic Narcissistic Borderline.

The Queen is the archetype that thinks that she's entitled to your worship. She is the most entitled manifestation, and will be the one caustically shredding apart other people when she thinks they're within earshot to hear half of it. She plays dumb if you confront her, but will later destroy your reputation in retaliation. You peasant.

Classic Presentation

http://imgur.com/gallery/mbBJoz0

http://imgur.com/gallery/I7997W9

http://imgur.com/gallery/ESCHs

http://imgur.com/gallery/Mgjh2AU

http://imgur.com/gallery/C1AhP

 

Typical Non-BP Thoughts about the Queen’s Behavior:
  • "I can’t meet this person’s needs; my best isn’t enough."

  • "Don’t I ever get to have any needs? (Better not say that, or the Queen will leave me.)"

  • "Why is everything always about her?"

  • "If people only knew what an act the Queen puts on, they’d sure be shocked."

 

When The Queen is pleased:

http://imgur.com/gallery/wWElUJI

http://imgur.com/gallery/Ra9bt63

When The Queen is offended:

http://imgur.com/gallery/UadIxtt

When The Queen is “sad”:

http://imgur.com/B9XX9LU (Note her brief smile – she is getting the “correct” response)

 

Typical Emotions Stemming from the Non-BP’s Thoughts:
  • Family members who the Queen shames, ignores, or gives superficial attention to learn that their worth depends on external things (cars, important titles).
  • Non-BP’s self-esteem also suffers.
  • Over time, Non-BPs feel used, manipulated, and angry at the BP and at themselves for catipulating so much they no longer recognize themselves.

 

ARCHETYPE SUMMARY: This bitch asks you to kiss her feet so she can kick you in the mouth. You are expected to be grateful for both.


The Hermit

The Hermit never runs out of things to be afraid of.

The Hermit is the one who will pathologically fail to deliver on her promises. She appears to be talented, maybe even sophisticated. She will trick you into believing that she "just needs help figuring a couple of things out". She will convince you that you are just the man for the job.

Unfortunately for you, there's always another "obstacle" in front of this woman, preventing her from contributing to the partnership.

She'll blame this, that, and the other... and eventually she will blame you. Once you've begun to internalize all of the fear she's forcing on you, she will think that you're a pussy and immediately lose all respect for you.

 

Classic Presentation

http://i.imgur.com/f5Wg9r2

http://i.imgur.com/jhyN4nP

http://i.imgur.com/wsqkhI5

 

Typical Non-BP Thoughts about the Hermit’s Behavior:
  • “Like the BP says, the world is unsafe and I should not risk trusting people.”
  • “I need to protect the BP from the terror of the outside world.”
  • “I am a faithful, loyal person and would never leave the BP to fend for herself.”

 

When the Hermit is “sad”:

http://imgur.com/gallery/no6xI6g

http://imgur.com/gallery/bnhfWr8

http://i.imgur.com/N26Ws2Z (This is the expression of the BPD hamster wheel. If this gaze is directed at you, that means that you and your possessions are in serious danger.)

When The Hermit has written you off:

http://i.imgur.com/w2GK0qL

http://i.imgur.com/bXMrCQZ

http://i.imgur.com/Tphad7r

When The Hermit is giving you shit:

http://i.imgur.com/Zolixwh

http://i.imgur.com/hh9Nk98

http://i.imgur.com/0B2Vk88

 

Typical Emotions Stemming from the Non-BP’s Thoughts:
  • “I feel trapped and isolated by the Hermit’s fear.”
  • “I have trouble trusting and making mistakes because I know the BP will say ‘I told you so.'”

 

ARCHETYPE SUMMARY: This bitch asks you to push her car up the hill so that she doesn't have to turn on the engine, then turns around and charges you for the gas.


The Waif

Take a moment to skip ahead and look at the pictures under this subheading.

Notice the extreme difference in appearance between the subject as she presented between this and The Queen and Hermit states. This is the social chameleon at work. They are so different that one might even suspect that these are not the same person. That would be an accurate guess, since the Borderline Woman isn't truly any person at all.

 

The Waif is considered by some to be the most destructive of the archetypes.

No other archetype preys on the male protective instinct more viciously than The Waif. She's just so cute and helpless and hopeless and...

...she knows exactly what she's doing. She is a covert operator. You will do everything in your power to protect her from the world, and she will set it up so that you always fail her. She will likely succeed in convincing you that every single problem, from start to finish, was entirely your fault.

All she ever did was love you, after all.

 

Classic Presentation

http://imgur.com/gallery/d7OSKh0

http://imgur.com/qvmcnpa

http://imgur.com/gallery/uWPMxgg

 

Typical Non-BP Thoughts about the Waif’s Behavior:
  • “She desperately needs help, so I must save her, no matter what.”
  • “The greater the sacrifice, the more I show I love her.”
  • “My needs are not as important as hers.”
  • “If I learn enough about BPD, I can heal her.”

 

When The Waif has a savior:

http://imgur.com/iq2ON8L

http://imgur.com/qFsbXsM

When The Waif needs a savior:

http://imgur.com/gallery/3s16dQZ

 

Typical Emotions Stemming from the Non-BP’s Thoughts:
  • “I like being needed, but sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the BP’s neediness.”
  • “I get confused and frustrated when she rejects my help.”
  • “Her behavior isn’t all that abnormal. I can manage it and so can the kids.”
  • “I feel abused, and my self-esteem wasn’t all that high to begin with.”

 

ARCHETYPE SUMMARY: This bitch will float into your life and soothe your weary soul, only to psychologically castrate you. Afterwards, she'll claim that she's tried everything to make it work, but now she's ready to fall in love with A REAL MAN who will treat her right.


The Witch

The Witch is going to be the one that murders you.

Maybe literally, maybe only somewhat literally. The witch is a sadist, and pretty much only exists in two states: destroying you, and temporarily resisting the urge to destroy you. She will wreck everything you hold dear to "prove" a point, and desecrate all things sacred for the sheer thrill of ruining the things that matter to you. She is the ultimate at having fun at another's expense. Never reveal your weaknesses to this woman, and do allow yourself to be alone with her. She is so visibly insane that this part of the guide is hardly even necessary.

 

Classic Presentation

http://i.imgur.com/2T6UYK2

http://i.imgur.com/HgiUxu8

http://imgur.com/gallery/LJuVl

 

Typical Non-BP Thoughts about the Witch’s Behavior:
  • “I feel hurt, betrayed, and abused, and I am too scared or young to do anything about it.”

  • “I will comply with what she wants. Resistance is futile. I will be assimilated.”

 

When The Witch is trying to stay contained:

http://imgur.com/gallery/a6dyQC9

http://imgur.com/eoKGsT7

 

Typical Emotions Stemming from the Non-BP’s Thoughts:
  • Fear.
  • Denial (on the part of those who could protect the victims).

 

ARCHETYPE SUMMARY: This bitch is torn on whether or not to kill you, because it would count as a personal failure on her part if murdering the shit out of you somehow caused you to end up "going to a better place."


Conclusion

  • Borderline Women are human parasites who will steal your resources if you give them an inch.

  • Borderline Women are social chameleons and are not able to experience proper human emotions.

  • Borderline Women dupe well-meaning men by strategically employing the Four Archetypes.

 

IN CLOSING: Borderline Women are a HUGE problem for men. You are their prey, and the system as it is is currently not in your favor for recognizing the sort of agonizing abuse these types are capable of.

 

Therefore, you must take it upon yourself to learn how to defend yourself against these female predators

This is my own amateur research, and it was done specifically with the TRP community in mind. Too many men have been cheated out of their livelihood, and sometimes even their lives by these Borderline menaces. This work is a first attempt at helping safeguard men against this underappreciated threat.