My advice, if you never want to worry about Chad again, is to quit making Chads.

How does that work? The College Chad you used as an example didn't make the Chad that fucked his girlfriend over in the first place

Chad is every man who got so bitterly angry they made themselves into that guy they envied. Maybe a select few are "naturals", but most are just guys who improved themselves after some bitch ripped their heart out. Chances are, if you've seen reason to take the pill at all, you can be Chad.

treat other dudes like regular dudes, not like they're some obstacle to defeat.

That Jolene reference made my day.

Socialist have the false belief that they are poor because some rich capitalist is depriving them of their fair share of wealth. Likewise, betas believe that they are doing bad because there is some mystical alpha out there who gets all the women. The truth is that the sex market is not a zero sum game. Sure, there are some who do better than others, but you are mostly in control of what you can get out of it.

Chad is Chad because I ain't Chad myself (not yet).

There's always someone above you. Another adversary to defeat, another ally to make. Chad is simply the perception of the woman (territory) laid down. She can believe anything because feelz make it real.

This is why we tell people to improve SMV, maintain frame and have abundance mentality with bitches- because this shit will always continue to happen.

Best thing you can do is put in place defensive mechanisms and an offensive battle plan to stop the threat right in it's tracks.

Tonight, I was with a SG (suicide girl model) that has a boyfriend. Tonight, I was Chad. The rest of the days, Im just a normal guy. Feels good to win sometimes

Basically, these hoes ain't loyal.

Chad is a genetic recombination jackpot in sexual appeal. Women's genes irresistibly react to him. Most guys won't be able to achieve this no matter what they do:

couldn't step outside without tripping into pussy. He fucked a new girl every week easy, and guys naturally kissed his ass

Chad is nothing more than a word for the white alpha male stereotype. We also got Tyrone as the black alpha stereotype. And I'll posit "Ramón" as the Latino alpha stereotype.

If you asked every member on TRP what/who "Chad" is I feel that damn near everyone would have a different response. To me it is almost as if people project their insecurities when they describe their idea of a "Chad". There is no universal one-size fits all to the Chad. If you ask guys all around the world they will have a different response based on what they have seen and been through.

Seeing Chad = Fuck you! Being Chad = Fuck yeah!

Most people have "chad" wrong. It's not just a guy that's better looking than you. To me a "chad" is a genetic top tier male that knows it. Usually 6'2, square jaw, perfect facial aesthetics, perfect hairline, everything good. Usually white and upper middle class but can come in different variations its usually pretty random. Basically hit the genetic jack pot on pure luck. And from an early age they know it.

Chad is simply a personification of our personal goals. Your Chad is better than you are now and in the strive to catch up to him, you improve. It is a mind tool to constantly remind us that we can do better. And thanks god for that.

I know a Chad. He's a great guy. We are great friends, and I get to hear all the raunchy stories about how one chick takes it in the back door, one chick slobber knocks the cock like a champ, one chick gags by choice, and one chick is smokin' hot but under-performs, etc.

My friend "Chad" is smart on top of that. He does some psychological field stuff which I believe helps him pull tail even more.

Yet, he's a normal guy and a good friend. Some dudes just get lucky with unlimited sex from HB7's to HB10's. I guess I could truthfully say that I wish I had a little of his magic. But, he's also told me that he envies my absolute freedom in life that comes from my own awesome profession.

Everyone wants what they don't have to some degree. And that's alright. Just don't let it consume you. I know that if I was the jealous low-life type, I wouldn't be able to stand being friends with "Chad." Same goes with him. He wouldn't be able to stand watching me do what I want from White Shark diving to Amsterdam trips. We both just tip our metaphorical hats out of respect for one another, and we just enjoy being bro's, talking about chicks, and having good times with someone who see's the world similarly.

Like many have said here, "Women are for fucking. Good guy friends are for having fun and enjoying the good times with real conversation and real adventures." (Paraphrasing)

Even Chad can be a friend if he's a Chad with integrity.

Chad is the guy that you meet at a house party wearing sunglasses and swaying his body like he doesn't care, absolutely no hesitation in his body language. He is flashing the biggest smile. he is the guy at the party your one-itus who you swore is intelligent, innocent, and sweet but blows off your advances end up fucking in the closet when you are not looking.

CHAD walks into the gym and you can just fucking SMELL his masculinity through his sweat and frame. but it's not the old gross decrepit kind.

CHAD is the guy your gf kinda smiles when she thinks of him, while licking her lips slightly and saying to you "don't worry, it was just a phase, I love you, we sometimes still talk but it's nothing"

CHAD works in marketing/business/sales etc. If he is engineering he is a project manager, not an engineer. If he is an engineer he is only there temporarily, or in an usually creative job that allows him flexibility and travel like working at google. CHAD doesn't work in a cubicle crunching numbers. Even if he was good at math, he knows the highs of fucking women and socializing with happy hour in teams that are not socially inept is way more valuable.

Most importantly, CHAD embodies what makes women tingle without even knowing it. He hasn't even thought of it. He just is. His only experience with "seduction arts" and "pick up arts" and even the red pill reddit is the occasional brush in the media and dismissal of groups as some nerdy sub group.

I love this post.

I've been the Chad and been Chadded too. Some guys get high SMV in their early 20's or even teen years just sort of 'accidently'.

I was like that. But then the bottom caved in. Now I'm slowly building back what I had and didn't appreciate or cultivate like I should have.

Bottom line is a lot of Chads, especially bad-boy Chads, end up with really shit lives in every way other than the ability to pull tail. And honestly, that's a small part of having a good life. It's an important part don't get me wrong. And yeah there are numerous side benefits from being a SMV male.

But this post is right on. It's getting oneitis that makes Chads appear in your life. If you aren't overvaluing some woman, he isn't Chad. He's just some guy getting your sloppy seconds.

Chad is just the modern civilian adaptation of the old marine corps trope of Jody, the guy that's fucking your girl while you're deployed who has a bigger and better cock than you.

Chads usually have a disproportionately large number of descendants.

"Practically sang me Jolene"

Gold.

 

The death of all Truth is when it is made literal.

 

Chad represents a concept. He is not beta. He might be Alpha, but he also could be a total loser in many ways. Chad is something that for whatever reason creates Tingles in women.

Chad is female arousal embodied in an abstract concept.

Chad Thundercock is his full name... his cock brings thunder to the minds of women.

 

When I was in my late teens/early twenties one of my best friends was a Chad. He had this skinny good looking dangerous rocker/poet type thing going for him (think Johnny Thunders but taller and better looking) and a lot of girls in the university town where we lived just fell into a trance when he looked at them. By 24 he'd already fathered a child with a girlfriend who apparently thought he was daddy material. Guess if he stuck around? By 29 he got married to another woman, fathered two more kids and got divorced a few years later. This time around he fell on hard times. He is now a bloated unemployed pill popping alcoholic living off his fat alcoholic girlfriend and welfare. Some guys peak early and then it's all downhill from there. I moved around a lot and recently got in touch with him, but I realized that this guy has absolutely nothing going for him. All he talks about is stuff he did before he turned 30 and he's now in his early 50s. He posts pics of himself on Facebook from when he was in his 20s! I guess that when a combination of genetics and attitude conspire to give you high SMV, you just take it for granted. Arrogance breeds downfall.

My advice, if you never want to worry about Chad again, is to quit making Chads.

This is key. Of course I do wonder if it's better for there to be less Chads than beta Billies for population control. I have also been Chad to some guys when I'm still not even at the SMV I want yet. It's all a matter of perspective.

Chad is Chad because he doesn't give a fuck whether you've banged a girl he's already had as he's already moved on to the next girl.

If two Chad's are in opposition for the same girl then the "apex Chad" is the one who doesn't get her as he doesn't give a fuck that the other Chad has.

most men CAN be Chad and ALL men will be Chadded!

he told me about his Junior year in High School, when the captain of his basketball team - a senior whom he admired - fucked his girlfriend. His virgin girlfriend, who hadn't even given it up to him yet. He spent the rest of high school a broken introvert. Yes, even Chad has a Chad.

a while after that, he found the manosphere