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uniquevoid

Posted 7y ago in Field Report - Permalink - Locked - 229 Views

Summary

I've been currently working on myself through lifting, dieting and reading. Since I haven't paid attention to women I still have a lot to improve in my game. This week my flatmate's sister was visiting and she's quite fun, talks a lot and helped me learn some good stuff.

She's hot but I don't want to fuck her, her brother is a good guy and we spend time together. I still got attracted and I still was shit tested. She's also a MMA fighter

Things were ok, had fun conversations, passed verbal shit tests and she escalated to show me some choking moves that I later tried on her. Then I started failing during the nights of smoking weed, I just became a complete idiot

Sometimes she gets too aggressive and even though I deflect them with AA it can get quite repetitive. I know I fucked up so I understand why this is happening. When this happens you have to start ignoring the shit tests and remove attention completely, don't try to Amplify all the time or you will look like you just take all the punches. It is also a must to implement Amused Mastery (read about it)

Lessons learnt:

-Take any opportunity to improve your game, even your cousins will shit test you. Shit even my mate shit tests me when we are in group but he only does it once in a while and I appreciate that he keeps me alert

-Dont do drugs, for me its impossible not to become a complete idiot because Im still BP and I have to be very alert

-Mantaining frame is hard as fuck, even more after its broken once plus living with a woman (keep in mind for LTR's)

-Dont let her shit test you forever, start ignoring her bullshit at some point or you can become a punching bag. Amused Mastery is key.DO NOT become reactive and start shit testing her back or negging her, just ignore her

Just some newbie tips regarding game and frame, you are welcome to expand on this.

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sezamus 7y ago

I get it. She wanna fuck you, you wanna fuck her, but you don't wanna fuck your friend's sister. Well... Chad Thundercock will not hesitate, that's for sure...

WASPandNOTsorry 7y ago

What's the deal with that anyhow? Like why am I not allowed to fuck my best friend's sister? What a load of horse shit.

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sezamus 7y ago

you are answering my comment or the OP's? I don't know if I have to learn english again or other people are weird or don't know how to properly post on reddit.

WASPandNOTsorry 7y ago

Neither... Both... I don't know, I was just thinking out loud I guess.

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sezamus 7y ago

Comparing myself? Wait.. what?

This is TRP so we give a fuck. Otherwise no one will as you say. No one will correct mistakes and show better ways of behaviour. That's what being a bro means. You wanna tell everybody how your cock is big, find an other sub.

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PalindromicBirthday 7y ago

This is dumb. For all you know he was referring to himself as Chad.

And "not referring to Chadis" not a necessary condition of being a better man.

Your aggression towards the use of this name only shows your own self doubt and inadequacy. Look inward and analyse. Don't be afraid to be wrong.

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Expectations1 7y ago

Maintaining frame isnt hard, if that is WHO YOU ARE, and as cheesy as it sounds, involves finding out what boundaries you will tolerate.

uniquevoid 7y ago

Completely true, surprisingly there are things I don't care about, like her being masculine sometimes but when she told me 'take a picture of me', first answer was fuck you im not your photographer lol

But my frame is not solid yet, im discovering myself

Sir_Distic 7y ago

"I don't want to break my camera."

Expectations1 7y ago

Well its like this, if you find your purpose, goals etc, maintaining frame becomes easy, as you will have an abundance of 'grounded' positivity from having these goals sorted, the frame will come from a true place. But if you maintain frame just for the sake of maintaining frame it will be exhausting.

dsfargeg 7y ago

She practiced choking moves... on you? How is that passing a shit test exactly?

Even if you're trying to pretend you're not interested in her, that's a big red (or blue) flag.

Your instinct should've been to playfully downplay it and reverse the situation, "I'll only learn if I'm the one doing the move, teach me the MMA way, champ."

I've been in a similar situation and I was very teasing and gentle, it wasn't the competition she expected. We tried a couple positions and I would tickle her at the end or use innuendo like "I've been choking bitches my whole life, now that's a new interesting way" you know.

uniquevoid 7y ago

You have definitely missed the whole point here, maybe my english is just bad

I passed verbal shit tests and she pulled that physical escalation. I told her im going to start boxing when I get back to my country and she said she would show me some moves, then i tried the same thing on her. Simple

You want me to turn that into a seduction game with his brother in the room? I respect my friends

But thanks for the advice, i would definitely do the tickle thing in a different situation.

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Dude, why do you apply TRP theory to chicks you don't want to bang? Do you push-pull your grandma? Do you neg your sister? Do you kino a fat feminist in the street?