Summary - Tinder, and online dating is heavily skewed against minority success and optimal for top 20%. This post is targeted at the bottom 80%, which is also ironically blacks by default.

Body -

Its a waste of time for us. Few matches on average. Even the very best looking black males won't get matched with anything above 7.

Matches are usually unattractive fat/out of shape white women, sometimes the odd knight rider (which is usually a 6.5 at best)

The dating game is very different for us. Act according.

Solution:

  • Run day game religiously. I've been able to attract 8-9s mostly cute white girls by dressing top tier (read men's health and study fashion, pull up your pants, groom yourself nicely, smell nice, brown dress shoes, jeans, nice watch and a polo shirt to be casual) Coordinated and incorporate light colors that match your outfit (white polo shirts are best - you can get nice ones at Old Navy).

  • Lift Lift Lift

  • Don't get drunk or do drugs in social environments. Keep your mind sharp. If you drink, 1 or 2 drinks for a buzz.

  • Go out in public more , get comfortable with your surroundings and public. Talk to anyone you can. Smile.

  • Master your body language - stand upright, walk straight professional leg rhythm. Chest and chin up and practice eye contact when communicating. Eye contact = trust.

  • Read How to win friends and influence people, Rational Male, Book of Pook

  • Watch Justin Wayne, The Men's Room, RSD Madison, AlanSinclair, Squattincassanova on Youtube if you need solid examples.

  • Professional life is critical. Develop your financial state to peak performance for running game. Monk mode as long as it takes until you are the complete package. It will do wonders for your confidence knowing you can afford stuff.

  • Don't use wingmen. Wingmen will out shine you or shadow your spotlight. Especially if they are the majority. Always solo game.

  • When you're running game, its an absolute must that you defeat stereotypes. Talk normal, proper. No slang. Less urban = higher success rate.

Observations and diagnosis -

White females are the easiest to pull. In my area black females go exclusively for white males.

Same with all other female race minorities - So you need to stand out from the crowd and put in 5X effort to get optimal results. Landing a 9 is possible when you tailor the right strategies.

Building a plate list can cause turbulence and kill trust when you're a black male, females develop mental stereo types very easy.

As a black male , do short LTR at a time, 3-6 months then light next.

Conclusion -

Day game for me as a black male has been pretty rewarding, your personality can attract people and build relationships. Don't focus on tinder or dating apps, its a losing game for minorities.

Day game will bring you the most success. Cheers everyone.