Preface: this post is going to be unpopular because it contains extreme opinions that are going to challenge your inner views. I love women and sluts, and I think women should have as much casual sex as they want. I like casual sex myself. So grab your popcorns and beer, stay with me.
Since I become single again some months ago, I didn't know how much the dating scene has changed since I was active in the sexual market 5-6 years ago. Online dating is rising at an unprecedent spread. So I decided to jump on the Tinder/Bumble/OkCupid carousel and see for myself how it was.
I had no idea that getting laid in 2018 was so easy: now you don't have to actually go out and meet new people. You don't have to go through rejections in real life. Today you can just swipe from the comfort of your sofa, while eating a home delivery cold pizza with some trash tv show in the background.
I hear and read from many men and women in their 30s complaining that only a small fraction of people is looking for commitment and exclusivity. It's not you that can't find a partner, the dating system is changed radically in the last 10 years.
Society and companies like Tinder are pushing hard on women for casual sex and hookup culture.
To understand you have to look at it in terms of economics. Sex sells and it's the law of demand and supply. Women are the seller (pussy is scarce, they have the power to choose to whom spread their legs) and men are the buyer (dick is abundant, men would fuck anything that moves, within their standards). With an estimate of 50 millions user, and 1,6 billion swipes per day, the majority of male users are thirsty beta males with no options. It is also reported that 54% of Tinder user are single, but that's another topic.
Following the Pareto Principle, also called the 80/20 rule of intersexual dynamics, the ones who are benefitting the most from apps like Tinder is the top 20% of males, giving them the final ability to success in the male sexual strategy: unlimited access to unlimited pussy.
From the women perspective, online dating is also helping them due to unrestricted hypergamy and access to a huge wide pool of men at their disposal that allows them to be more pickyer. The one downside is that they don't realize that only the top 20% of women will actually get those top 20% of men, also due to the marriage loss. That's why you have so many women in their 30s, single, no kids, unhappy, with unrealistic expectations. "where all the good men have gone?".
If you thought that Tinder was a charity you're far damn wrong. With 4,1 million paying subscribers and $800 million estimated revenue in 2018, Tinder is a full-on growing business.
100% of paying users are male.
Men wants sex and they are willing to pay a montly subscription to have access to it. At the same time, women should stay single on the cock carousel having casual sex in order to supply the demand. This is why society and Tinder are pushing women to have casual sex. It's a business. Just look at womens targeted media, Tinder's blog SwipeLife, TV advertisment, etc.
They are all promoting the same underlying communication: "you go girl, it's cool to be a slut".
Women should stay on the platform and give sex to those men. If women stop spreading their legs, men are not getting pussy and they will cancel their paying subscription. Tinder have a business to run and it's a legal pimp at the expenses of society.
Who would have predicted 15 years ago that today we would have smartphone where you can swipe and touch?
Apps like Tinder are completely rewiring our society and there is nothing you can do about it.
Just so you know, if you're a woman, next time you're having sex with the x-new tinder casual date, you're just doing your duty to your Tinder pimp. For the men, you get what you paid for.
Keep on swiping!
Edited for grammar errors.