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75 | ![]() | Merry Christmas, you brahs! This is a post I've wanted to do for a long time now, and if I'm reviewing my old content in the neverending march toward the new year, now is as good of a time as any. I haven't taken a look at this post for years now, after discovering that I had it saved on a random flash drive, for the very reason of looking it over, years later, and reacting to my former-self. How beta was I?? How naturally red pilled was I?? It's almost impossible to remember as the most modern, updated version of yourself tends to overwrite your prior understanding of the world- outside of specific instances and historical examples, it all usually gets erased. It's an interesting point in time for me, as I had found r-TheRedPill only a few days before posting (!), when there had to be under 3,000 subs (circa May 2013). I remember the hot topic of the day was "inner game vs. outer game" and finding a mission in life beyond chasing pussy- surely topics we take for granted today, but you have to remember, we were all breaking new ground together at this time. So, without further ado, MY VERY FIRST RED PILL POST. BBP From Proto-Red Pill to Swallowing the Pill Whole: My Journey
I advise against trying to red pill your normie friends. Yes, it seems like the thing to do; Yes, it would help them- but for reasons I only partially understand, it never goes the way you think it will. I understand, I've literally been there, where you think you've uncovered a great truth about the world around you- a great, beneficial truth (this is not always the case with truth), and you want your friends to benefit... and years later, you realize that it put a tremendous strain on your friendship. The idea of "real friends tell each other the truth" sounds nice on paper, but is often not how real life works. If your friend isn't truly ready for the red pill, chances are you'll get heavy blowback; they'll think you're some combination of retard and asshole, they'll try to sit you down and give you a blue pill lecture (I am vomit), and... perhaps the most frustrating of all, even if they buy your X and Y, Z will piss them off and they'll still hate you for it. Do what you want, brahs, but my advice is to only attempt to red pill men who make it clear that they are ready.
This is important- like the point above- if at least half of the content on TRP wasn't somewhere buried in your subconscious, or maybe amongst disorganized glimpses and flashes of your conscious understanding of the world, TRP would never have resonated with you... and you, also, would be just like the friend who loses his shit when you try to red pill him.
Fuck! Kristen. Shit, I haven't thought about that in years. Totally could have fucked her had I not bought into the notion that male sexuality is inherently something that was an imposition to women. I was not an incel or a virgin, but I had thought that outside of sluts, girls did not like men who were too forward- girls wanted to be "made comfortable, and only fuck their boyfriends." Major blue pill programming.
A topic for another day, but I was much more red pilled in high school and had regressed into a blue pill shell of myself between college and my early thirties, when I bit hard on media and academic social programming-- absolute fucking poison.
Reading this over is painful, but this was a classic, textbook, blue pill relationship that many men fall into and, hopefully, live to find their way out. This was my absolute, blue pill rock bottom, and my first glimpse of how men and women do not define love the same way.
It's truly incredible how quickly you can completely reverse your way of thinking, although, these ideas had been festering in my own subconscious dread the last year or two I was with her, but I was too defeated to act sooner.
"Do you even lift" is a meme for a reason. It is the starting point. Don't talk to me if you don't lift.
This was all about me getting over losing my hair. For years, it had majorly depressed me- often to the point of tears and suicidal thoughts- and it was majorly momentous for me to realize that owning it is 100% better than any alternative. Along these lines, another major realization for me was the understanding that, usually, you control the understanding of reality for those who are around you- a concept I now understand as "frame." Who has the stronger will to control the perception of reality- you or her?
LOL, no. Always be disrespectful to women. Have her earn it, every step of the way. Laugh at her, mock her- always act superior.
Always act like you have nothing to lose. Still good advice.
Again, those who win have the stronger sense of reality- the stronger frame. Confidence, more than anything, is acting like you're confident. Also, a bit of "sexual strategy is amoral" thrown in there too... as if I was beginning to understand that women don't play by the rules, so why should we?
And I did.... and the sexual marketplace was far more forgiving in 2012-2013 than it is today; like, almost like a night and day difference. A month after I had ditched the girl and committed myself to ride or die, I must have messaged like 100 girls between OKCupid and Plenty of Fish, throwing everything at the wall that I could, and, the effort actually paid off in a cute redhead with big tits, who I convinced to fuck a still massively fat Bad Billy through sheer will and emerging game. Sad to say that the world changed and this is no longer possible... but what a ride it's been. And there you have it, you brahs, my first red pill post from 2013. Some things changed, some things stayed the same- the lesson? Lift, don't try to red pill your friends, and always always always make fun of women. Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and nothin' but love for MY BRAHS. Like this post? Check out my blog - Kill to Party - and my brand new, Christmas themed post: Office Culture and “A Christmas Carol” (1843) |
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Being red pilled happens in phases, in what I call two steps forward, one step back. The only way you can take steps forward are by taking steps back and learning from your mistakes. That's why I strongly encourage so many to get out there. You can't progress without fucking up and learning from your fuck ups. The sooner you can get out there and mess up, the sooner you can get yourself to where you need to be in your journey
I should post a sequel with my 2014-2016 fuck ups, despite thinking I was "red pilled af."
Putting yourself out there to fail and make mistakes is not taking a step back, but I get what you mean.
Solid. One has to wonder where the PoundMeToo movement comes from. Oh wait, we know: hypergamy + squirrel.
Repill in a nutshell:
General life goal; knowledge/skill; frame/lift.
That's all there is to life guys!
Spot on mate: go out, lift, develop knowledge and frame- all you need.
I feel like it very beneficial for us beginners to read posts from veterans who are describing their red pill journey. Its normal that the most active members here are the ones who are new or in the middle of their journey. The ones who already succeeded wont be as active as us.
There's a couple of OG's on here.
I love this concept. Have to look in the mirror and be honest with yourself. Would be nice to see other ECS get inspired do the same - I like to say I learned everything from screwing up and very little from my success.
Thanks for sharing and readers remember that white knights and red knights are both fags.
awesome read OP <3 Merry Christmas!
Thank you, brother! Merry Christmas!
Why? Imo there should be a baseline of respect towards everyone. Then they can give the direction with their actions that should you respect them more or less. And btw, I don't count teasing, negging or treating a girl like your little sister disrespectful so maybe this is just semantics.
You still gotta calibrate with girls, otherwise the plates keep dropping really fast if you are too indifferent.
It sure doesn't look like RSD Tyler or Luke lift, so why does everyone here seem to think it's so vitally important? In fact I was about to hire a personal trainer until I saw Tyler's latest video about Instagram, and was looking at him and Luke and how not in shape they are.
I agree, I am jacked and see lots of jacked guys at the gym who do worse with women than skinny guys that look like drug addicts, and fat men who seem gay.
I think lifting just helps with depression if anything.
Lifting helps with self image and self esteem. I injured myself in a snowboarding accident, and have been out of the gym for about a month, and I feel that loss in confidence.
Nobody says you gonna be jacked to get laid, it just helps. Being jacked doesn't make up for not having a personality.
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