My thoughts start after the story. This story was copied from talesfromretail. The comments are beyond chingeworthy.
"I work in a retail store that has a small jewelry department, we mainly change watch batteries and sell cheap jewelry($15-$120.) This couple came in and knew they were going to be trouble.
The man comes in looking for an engagement band and the girl just looked mad. I let them look and she was tearing him a new one the whole time. Saying things like "I'm not shopping with you, jacka*", "I'm leaving, you're being a dck", "let's go!"
The girl asks if we carry her size and I politely inform her we don't, but we could size it for her. She scoffs at me and starts looking at bracelets while the man zealously continues looks at engagement rings.
She finds a bracelet she likes.
"Can you make this one smaller?"
"The rope bracelets can't be changed, but we could downsize one with links."
Which is when she looks at me, huffs and says:
"Wow, what do you people do here?"
I was in no mood to ignore that blatant insult.
"We aren't an actual jewelry store, we simply sell jewelry. We don't offer a lot of things jewelry stores offer."
She grumbles at me, with no comeback.
He pulls her back over to look at rings and it quickly becomes clear she hates pretty much everything, all our rings are pieces of crap. I try the best I can to point them to what they are looking for. They finally find a ring they like. I had a long, super busy, exhausting day and it was time for me to go home, just waiting on them to make up their mind.
He asks, "can you hold this for me?"
"I'm sorry we have a no hold policy. The only sort of hold we do is layaway."
"Fine, put it on layaway and I'll pay it off in a few days!"
"Um...okay."
The girl goes godzilla on his ass on a dime. She starts screaming in his face, telling him to go fck himself, she doesn't want it, don't put it on fcking layaway, and much more profanities, much like a tantrum. Then she runs off in a fit of anger. I sit there with a deer in the headlights expression. He tells me forget it and and runs after her.
I was pissed because they wasted so much of my time and were so rude. I started getting ready to close, then that man comes back!
He yells at me, "hurry, she went to the bathroom, I want to buy it for her and surprise her!"
In my head, I was thinking "hell no, bad idea dude." I sold it to him because a sale is a sale and I probably won't be here to witness her biting his head off. I sold it and dropped my till for the night.
Then he comes back, unsurprisingly 5 minutes later crying, asking for his money back with his little she-devil standing beside him flushed red. I told him we are closed and you'll have to come back tomorrow. I really hope he doesn't.
UPDATE: The dude came back today. He came back alone(thank god) and bought that bracelet she said didn't fit yesterday. He was super stressed out and quick to upset. Had another associate get rid of him for me. I swear if he comes back with his woman wanting his money back for that, I'm not selling anything else again." ----------------------------_--------------------
Wow what the actual fuck did i read. This man is dead to the woman. She's gonna look elsewhere for a another beta cuck.
Where did we go wrong in society? For all of you people that don't understand what the red pill is for, this is it folks. It's to identify, maneuver, and to get mentally prepared for the modern social battlefield.
I'm not American. I learned about redpill from viewing my parents relationship. This common sense. Western society warps your common since, since the day you are born. It's time to get re educated with a master's in the modern society. Women don't want cucks. They just think they do.
formerliberaldem 5y ago
Yep. I've dated crazy before. She was physically and emotionally abusive....and absolutely loved to embarrass me in front of friends and family. She would start drama over nothing. And loved to punch and fucking claw you. I was a white Knight bitch so I endured it.
Come to think of it, there were a bunch of red flags, including spelling her normal name in a retarded way (omg aren't i unique), slutty piercings, and that She admittedly fucked 20+ guys before she was 21. She moved the next state over for grad school and broke up with me as a ploy to get me to drop out of school and run over to be with her.
I was relieved it was all over and I told her to fuck off. Unsurprisingly she went ballistic that I wouldn't do everything to win her majestic self back (call my phone constantly, tried to back into my email, etc). I held frame and treated her like I didn't care, because I really didnt.
A bit later she shows up at my work while we are closing (she drove from 8 hours away). She timed it so she would be there exactly when I was locking up. I fucked her in my car then told her I had to get going. She asked if we were back together and if she could spend the night with me the next few days. I said fuck no. She started to cry and said she knew coming back was a mistake. I just said yep, it was and left. This was still while I was basically a little bitch, so I'm surprised I acted like a man for once. Still proud of it.
She ended up dating a guy who hit back and he beat the shit out of her when she tried the abusive stuff. She then got engaged to some poor sap (neck-beard IT guy from her office who was definitely a beta orbiter) she knew for two months. She left a message on my phone saying she would break off the engagement if i would take her back. Fuck no.
I get notifications from time to time that she looks at my linked in page. What a trainwreck.
seedster5 5y ago
Jesus Christ. Power to you for manning up. Lots of guys would take her back and let the train wreck start all over again. Hopefully she learned not to hit the new guy. Or the new guy can take it
BobbyPeru 5y ago
It’s case by case, but yes, men are being pussified in droves, it seems. Most of these guys are too far in the matrix to help.
My stepson (he was almost 18 an out of the house when I married my wife) used to be totally alpha... he slayed pussy and DNGAF. Now, he’s been married a year (he’s 26 now with 4 kids, stay at home dad), and I gave him some paintings for his house the other day. Before I left, he literally said 5 times “I’ll have to see what my wife wants to do with these.”
He has become betafied beyond help. At least, in my case, I can’t help him. I already made that mistake- tried to suggest a RP book to him. He read a couple reviews and immediately told his mommy on me (my wife). I DNGAF, and I don’t talk about fight club.
The point is, some guys you just can’t help for various reasons. Spend time helping guys who are ready for TRP, and honestly there aren’t too many of them these days
pbar 5y ago
He who tries to save his friend from a bad woman, loses the friend, and doesn't hurt the woman.
seedster5 5y ago
I'm convinced that red pill isn't an educational gap but more emotional. I feel one has to visit the pits of he'll, the absolute bottom of bottom, to make sense of all this.
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Acceptable_Camel 5y ago
You should have slipped him a card for a domestic violence hotline. See if he got the hint.
1v1crown 5y ago
We gave women (the gender who doesn't deserve it because it costed and costs them nothing to have) the vote.
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BloodSurgery 5y ago
Look at the top posts, the sidebar, and stop thinking about TRP about only fucking women, because it seems that's your mentality.
Auvergnat 5y ago
Welcome. This story is only an illustration of how catastrophic for your life the mainstream “blue pill” approach to relationships can be. A man in a deeply abusive relationship not even aware of it.
With the awareness of the truth about how men/women relationships work (what we call the red pill, because it truly is eye opening), a man would never come to that point. He’d healthily manage his relationship into something much more respectful from the very beginning.
Proper red pill advice for the poor guy here would be: “Run. This is not salveagable. Restart from scratch with another girl after you’ve learned the tools that will prevent you from getting into such a bad relationship again”.
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bakamoney 5y ago
You gotta dump her asap. You can make as many plans as you want but you lost the battle 50 moves earlier.
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seedster5 5y ago
Good question. My fault for not elaborating.
This isn't about good vs bad or how to game women.
This is about how to undo decades of lies fed to us by society, how to grow as a man to mentally navigate modern society, and to have all the tools as your disposal to make the right choice.
I wrote #3 vaguely because some people are fine with sleeping with women and focusing on their own life, other men like myself used the knowledge to find a suitable mate for long term relationship.
Trp helped me identify red flags that are not obvious, how to maintain frame, how to get inside the mind of a women to identify who they really are. Very few women are honest so it helped me identify the women with qualities that I wanted to pursue.
I swallowed the pill fully 3 years ago. I can say my life is pretty good and in a pace to where I can achieve my glad. I am the captain of my ship and i have a first mate who understands what i want and what is expected of me, vice versa.
The man in the story went full hamster mode to salvage something that never existed. He fully bought into society telling him that buying something shiny will fix everything. What's wrong in the story is painfully and hilarious obvious. What happens when things are not obvious? There's a reason why divorce rates are sky high. We live in a society where men are lied to every waking moment. It's time to wake up to the reality. Taking the red pill is bitter. It can lead to anger and resentment at first. Then you identify who you want to be afterwards. There's countless resources in this subreddit. This isn't exact causal reading. I would recommend starting with blue pill examples before reading red pill theory.
There are some on here who are totally anti women. It comes with the territory. You can use all the knowledge here to decide and define who you want to become.
sanitypanacea 5y ago
absolutely true. we all take our rage phase differently!
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jbpostv 5y ago
The TRP way would be to dump this emotional vampire because you don’t deserve disrespect at that level. It might have gotten this bad because he’s blue pilled but it sounds more likely she was a bad egg on top of it. Proceed forward in your life actively and shamelessly qualifying if a woman will likely behave within the standards you define and if she starts to veer off don’t be shy about withdrawing your favor. If you don’t like how a ltr/plate is behaving (obviously be fair and be honest with yourself about what fair is), you’re liking them less and less, so let them subconsciously know they’re losing you. Life is too short to undermine your worth with people who treat you like you have no value.
Protocol_Apollo 5y ago
Absolutely, women only know how to speak indirectly. They were born to speak that way- they were never able to be overt. Thats why it will never work to explicitly tell a woman that she is losing you, you have to SHOW them they are losing you
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TheImpossible1 5y ago
This is beyond blue pill. Blue pill is believing in love and feelings.
This is Stockholm syndrome.
_TheRP 5y ago
I'd say blue pill is really just letting emotion control your judgment and obscure objectivity. There is nothing blue pill about loving your kids or your parents, love and emotion are very real.
However - you're right. This is way beyond blue pill.
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ryandiy 5y ago
She's probably thinking, "How much more awful do I have to be to this guy for him to finally dump me?"
VillagersUnite 5y ago
I don't understand why dudes put themselves through this. Her behavior shows she isn't the one he should marry. Shouldn't be marrying at all in my opinion. After all the lurking I do here it still boggles the mind.
final_one 5y ago
Lack of abundance can make you do insane things. Dudes have a lot of pressure on them to get a girlfriend else they are labelled losers. This guy is probably not that bright anyways.
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
Mother replacement. Finally making mommy happy.
Like my past 2 years after divorce. I understood that making mommy happy is a bad strategy, but I subconsciously wanted to get that attention and appreciation from women.
seedster5 5y ago
Hormones tell us to mate and have babies. Society tells us that women are the queen. Corporation tells us to buy things to make our queen happy. This man is just following that society expects of us. The women found the best mate for her at that time who probably made himself seem better than he actually is. Guy gamed her society gamed him.
He did everything he was supposed to do. This man is in for a horrible life. This won't be the last women by a long shot.
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grewapair 5y ago
I called off my wedding to a woman like this 25 years ago, and it was the smartest thing I ever did.
Here's what happened. No access to regular sex, it was hard as hell for me to come by, and all the sudden, I find a seemingly normal woman who quickly couples up with me. She's a unicorn, frugal, hard working, fucks like a rabbit 4 times a week. I propose.
She decides she's going to be a stay at home mom, and now that she's not paying, suddenly, nothing is good enough for her. The price of everything needs to triple what it was when she was paying for it. If I don't like it, I can just work harder, because I am clearly now the slave.
Then her mom shows up and tells me how "modern men" do half the housework now. I tell her that's because modern women earn half the money and she says no, a stay at home mom should only do half the housework. I tell my fiance about it and she agrees.
OK, so what exactly am I getting out of this? Oh yeah, regular sex compared to endless droughts. Not enough to endure this, and even the sex could end at her whim. Bail.
Found another gf before she had even moved out. Sex continued aplenty without becoming someone's slave. NEVER get married. As soon as that ring goes on, "The Act" will end. You have no idea who you are marrying, none.
Jfc_Manners 5y ago
Shit man, that's...yikes. I wonder if she eventually found her beta cuck to pay for everything and do half the housework.
Kpwn88 5y ago
It's possible to enter marriage 3.0 post-redpill successfully. I'm living proof. Here's the kicker... every man who has done it, including me, doesn't recommend it to anyone else.
Jfc_Manners 5y ago
Wanna talk about it? I'm interested in hearing the details about why you wouldn't recommend it.
Kpwn88 5y ago
Because it's very risky and most guys don't have what it takes to pull it off. Recommending it would be setting men up for failure.
If it's something a post red pill man has good reason to do and he's confident that he can pull it off, he probably won't be looking for advice on whether or not to on reddit.
Jfc_Manners 5y ago
Gotcha. So it isn't coming from a place of, "I thought I could handle it, but I couldn't", rather, "If you have to ask the price, you can't afford it."
Drummerboy860 5y ago
Fuck this guy. If he’s that blind to how shitty she is, no internet message board will save him.
mattyiceheretoentice 5y ago
I’d bet she used to be great, and she transitioned to being constantly shitty as she began to resent this weak soyboy. And he thinks he can get things back to how they used to by bowing down to her. Unfortunately, it may be counter-intuitive, but this just makes things worse.
WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey 5y ago
People who act like that were never great. I'm sure she did a decent job of obfuscating her nature, but that's all it was.
Kpwn88 5y ago
You speak about females as if they are rational creatures with agency. Let me say this: women, yes all women are purely reactive to their mate. If she perceives you above her, she will dote on you. If below, she will shit on you relentlessly. This has nothing to do with her. It is his fault.
This is the most jagged part of the pill and it tends to get lodged in guys' throats.
WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey 5y ago
I prefer to categorize how I speak of women as calling out that they are capable of acts of self interested animal cunning to a degree that would make Machiavelli blush. Rationality does not, in my opinion, factor in.
mattyiceheretoentice 5y ago
Yeah I meant I’m sure she initially came across as great
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lbrownlbandit 5y ago
See in that position I would've been tempted to just speak to the guy and politely say what I though was going on. Guys usually cave and agree when you label whats going on. Then tell him to check out trp. Would you guys consider doing that why or why not?
seedster5 5y ago
When I first joined trp, and was forced with this rsenario I would have chosen to tell him what's up and tell him about trp.
However, 3 years in I learned that you can't tell a person about trp unless they themselves are ready to look into it. It took me great pain and finding byself at the bottom to seek what was wrong. I domt mean ready like interested, i mean ready like they've accepted that we've all accepted that something isn't right. There's a disconnect between what were told and what's actually true. The man is going to have to find out for himself. Trp isn't for idiots because just like everything difficult in this world, one has to be patient, use high level reasoning, and most importantly try to make the change by trying their heart out.
This community isn't for the general population but at the same time it's not for a select group of population either. We need 0eople like him to show us the ridiculousness of modern society.
Rkingpin 5y ago
Let the cucks cuck. It will only make the top men stand out even more.
Survival of the fittest
Jfc_Manners 5y ago
I wonder how much of Gen Z's backlash is a result of early reaction to modern divorce culture etc. I'll be very interested in seeing how the next generation turns out. I feel like Gen Z is a portend of the backlash, and Gen Alpha will be the real deal.
Drummerboy860 5y ago
Exactly. To hell with this loser - he deserves it.
final_one 5y ago
As much as i try to relate to this sentiment but then if not for this forum I would have still been the naive loser I was a year back. Now I am still somewhat a loser but that naivete is long gone. I look out for myself, pray to my god (wherever he is) and try to be kind to the people who would have been in the same position as I was had I not found the material we discuss here.
Viramont 5y ago
Do you know what the word cuck means?
I read this expecting Chad to snatch Brad’s gf not some wimp who was looking to buy jewelry for his brat partner
Rkingpin 5y ago
With his behaviour it's safe to assume she will be riding Mr Alpha Fucks anytime soon
idrinkyour_milkshake 5y ago
If you think she isn't cheating on him you're naive
Viramont 5y ago
Well no shit, but I was expecting OP to tell a whole ass dramatic story
Crixusgannicus 5y ago
" Women don't want cucks. They just think they do. " Same goes for soy boys, betas, and so on and so forth.
Jfc_Manners 5y ago
They want them. Just not, you know, sexually. Imagine you could have a socially presentable woman that you weren't attracted to who would just work, buy shit, do housework, and whatever else for you. Even if that's not something you'd personally enjoy -- I imagine you can see the appeal.
Crixusgannicus 5y ago
Yeah to an extent, but me being me, even with the other benefits you mentioned, I don't want a woman in close proximity unless I'm attracted to and actually fucking.
You're right its most definitely NOT something I'd enjoy, but then I'm not a woman so, I do get your point from their point of view.
Thing is though, I can tell you from my Darth Crixus days, even if they have the perfect beta cuck they will still jump on the Alpha dick PDQ.
I quit being Darth Crixus (at least knowingly and on purpose) once I realized even a beta can and might kill you if he finds out you've been shtupping "his" woman, even if SHE started it.
Fulp_Piction 5y ago
They want both. You can buy your way into a relationship, but never into respect.
Crixusgannicus 5y ago
Well yeah. They get betas to pay the bills while many (sooner or later or always) fuck Alphas on the side.
Also damn well said on the relationship comment.
slumdog-millionaire 5y ago
Pretty sad story, legitimately felt bad for both the man and woman as I was reading it. Woman clearly isn't happy with the relationship in general, dude is about to get played.
wwstewart 5y ago
I don't feel bad for her at all. She's clearly just expecting to be spoiled on her terms. That's not spoiling, that's slavery.
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
This is exactly what this guy needs in his life and no amount of GayLubeOils and Whispers are going to change that... unless he decides to explore his own psyche, which we both know he is very unlikely to.
clavabot 5y ago
How would one go about this? Meditation and self introspection, Shrooms, get a therapist?
Or more accurately, how have you explored your own psyche and what did you discover while doing it?
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
“One” like who? Op, the guy op is describing, me, you? On behalf of whom are you asking?
clavabot 5y ago
I am asking for myself, and I am asking you [u/ex_addict_bro].
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
Everything is in the sidebar.
Auxfite 5y ago
Cucks enjoy being cucks. I don’t see the problem. Survival of the fitness less competition for me
final_one 5y ago
Yeah he deserves his predicament but also it is quite important to add that we all do. I hope that after 5 10 years down the line he understands the value of self worth and tries to build something for himself instead of being this pathetic excuse of a man.
final_one 5y ago
Its quite clear that all of us are enraged at this dudes pathetic behaviour but not for the reason which an outsider will easily see. We are enraged that he is putting his self worth so low. He is sacrificing the male drive for creation and adopting a beggars mindset. Nobody likes a beggar. He does not have something worthwhile to offer to her and hence her behaviour. It is not the womens fault, it is never the womens fault. The fault is in the man who is putting up with her juvenile behaviour. Go and find a better woman. And I am quite sure that guy wont find any.
He did not introspect on this and thats why he isnt finding women who atleast respect him. Instead he doubled down on the one who showed semblance of interest in him like a beggar. I Sincerely hope that after some indefinite amount of time he starts the introspection and raises his self worth.
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
Reading this was like deja vu, I was in a relationship EXACTLY like this a long time ago.
She would constantly scream at me, undermine my accomplishments and emasculate me in the most humiliating ways. Including: constantly 'breaking up with me' and making me call her 50+ times while ignoring all my calls to "get her back". She would walk out in the middle of restaurant meals so that I would embarrassingly have to chase her and bring her back to the table. Once she broke into my apartment while I was sleeping and smashed up my phone because I didn't text her for a few hours. There are so many more stories
Craziest part, just like this guy I thought it was normal and thought nothing of it. My friends told me that she was insane and it wasn't healthy, but I would defend our relationship and she convinced me that they were just jealous.
How does this happen? Well in my case (and in this guys case too I bet) the relationship starts healthy and normal. This is until she starts to lose interest and begins acting like a bitch to get out of the relationship, but when the guy is ready to sacrifice things to make her happy she is forced to stay. But now she knows how to get what she wants, throw a fit and threaten to end the relationship! So she asks for more and more and more.
It's like trying to forcefully hold down an animal that wants to be free, its going to start clawing and scraping at you and do some real damage. Betas can't compete in real value, so they have to do this, but an Alpha can let the animal go with faith that it will come back or that he'll easily find another one.
jon_pat 5y ago
lol I would never let a girl do this to me, even when I were 8 years old "respect girls, don't hit them blabla" yeah sure, that's good for others but not for me
where are you now though?
Stinkmissle 5y ago
I got stuck in a hellish relationship in my early 20s and probably had embarrassed myself similarly once or twice - I had enough alpha traits to last a few months with a decent chick but eventually they would dissolve and my foundation would erode in the salty flood waters of the primal shit test. It's funny how many dudes would probably have been fine 40 years ago when chicks weren't quite as nuts, but now I think people need to "understand the mysteries" to even land a 4 or a 5 and keep them from spoiling.
seedster5 5y ago
Damn man I can't begin to imagine what you want through. How did it finally end? How did you come across trp? What are things now in your world? Sorry for the barrage of questions. It's just around here you don't see many people who went from this bad to completely getting a grip on their life. Those people are usually content with what life puts in front of them.
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
Well its a long story but you asked for it lol, how it ended and what brought me to TRP:
It finally ended when she dumped me (as usual) but refused to get back together. For a month I begged her to take me back, but she refused. Weirdly, we were still fucking, weekends sleeping in her room, cuddling and cutsey nicknames, but not "together". Then after a month she finally cut me off saying its over forever.
I was mentally fucked and I tried to kill myself. I obviously failed. I was extremely depressed but I was forced to accept reality.
Then suddenly 3 weeks later she runs back to me wanting to get back together! Confused I happily accept. First week is amazing! But she's acting super weird and emotional. Well I'm suspicious as fuck so I go through her facebook messages.
For the past 2 months she had been fucking a white guy in her building who has a girlfriend. She fucked him THE DAY we broke up. A couple times she fucked both of us hours apart. She used my suicide attempt as an icebreaker and fucked him the day I tried to kill myself. She was the only one I told I was killing myself and she was too busy getting dicked down to come stop me. Oh and she only got back with me because he ended the affair and she wanted to make him jealous. Along with him, in 2 months, she also fucked a turban wearing pledge in my own fucking fraternity, a black guy from the ROTC and this orbiter Indian guy who was obsessed with her. (No offense to turban wearers, indians or black people I just included those specific details because they are scarred in my brain). Oh thats not it though she was also flirting with TONS of other guys, getting nerds to do her homework for her and drug dealing guys to score her free weed/LSD and other guys to console her.
Something just kind broke in me that day. I was completely destroyed. The love of my life that I was dating for 2 years gave it all up for a "douchebag" guy she JUST met. I couldn't believe what I used to believe. She was cuddling with me and calling me baby while getting fucked by him a few hours later!!!! She was too busy to stop me from killing myself so she could get fucked by him. All that romantic shit was fake. Oh and fuck karma! This girl was getting free shit, romantic opportunities, and getting consoled by every guy on the planet! While I was this pathetic piece of shit no girl wanted to associate with. Someshit you can't really unsee. I couldn't believe society's narrative after that and realized how fucked everything is. How unfair everything is.
After that I tried everything to meet and get with girls. Got extremely jacked (8 pack + big arms). High paying wall street job. Drunk approaching girls at parties. Each one worked slightly, but not nearly enough. Finally I gave up, and decided to try this internet scam pickup thing. So this past year I moved to Vegas and went out every night. First 2 months I fucked 6 girls. Not great, but it showed the power of pickup! This shit actually works! But through it I realized girls aren't really shit and I care more about money. So for now focused on my start up (left cushy wall street job), but hoping to move to Vegas or NYC next year and resume pickup. My goal is to meet a truly gorgeous girl. Every girl I've ever slept with has been a 7 or lower so that's my next goal in terms of women.
PeaceMac 5y ago
Your story is amazing. I hope you do great in life. It's stupid how you got on depression and wanted to kill yourself after the 'end' of a shitty relationship. You should've bewn happy.
thewrecker8 5y ago
All I can say to the dude who had the psycho bitch who had every known color of cock in a matter of months is: holy shit! The best thing in the world is she's out of your life.
magx01 5y ago
Oh man you still haven't learned. You're overvaluing women my man.
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
You're right. I'm going to just hang out alone and never try to meet women again. Thanks man.
magx01 5y ago
Right, 'cause there's no middle ground.
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
Whats the middle ground then lol? I left going out all the time to focus on business and have only 1 fwb for the past few months. I don't think that's overvaluing women.
And What are you doing?
randomTATRP 5y ago
I'd say you need a hobby. Always improve yourself in all aspects of life.
askmrcia 5y ago
I guarantee this woman was bdp. This has all the signs. I now women can be crazy, but that chick is definitely on some next level of crazy.
Bdp no doubt about it
bakamoney 5y ago
Nah it happens because women's truth is different from actual truth.
They did have a relation at one point. The phase ended. She didn't give a fuck of course one day. But she couldn't admit to herself that it was.
Tbh I am sure she dropped enough hints without saying it. But OP then didn't notice shit.
They do it because they don't want to just randomly break off. (Amti-slut defence; maintaining image in social circle etc)
Instead they act like it broke off slowly over weeks or days.
Even though one day she woke up and she knew she didn't give a fuck about op.
Another reason is because they can squeeze the last bit of whatever they still need. (Emotional attachments; money ; roof; even sex) Or until they can find a replacement.
on the other hand. I am sure there were a shit load of signs.
BP mentality means you just don't spot them.
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
I don't know man, I think its a pretty common sight. A newly single girl going on a cock carousel.
As for the crazy shit she did, I think I pushed her to that limit by smothering her and refusing to let her break up with me. As I said I should have been man enough to let her leave instead of being a pussy and begging her to stay.
But you might be right. Her family was really fucked up, alcoholic dad and narcissistic career model mom in a loveless marriage waiting to get a divorce.
Althoughw 5y ago
"I pushed her to that limit"
No man Don't say something that stupid/cuckish.
You can't push someone to IGNORE A SUICIDE ATTEMPT.
Psychopaths are their fault. Not yours. Ever.
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
I think you missed the entire point of the story or don't really understand TRP if you believe that. The point: any girl can turn into this if she labels you a beta guy. She will treat you like garbage and genuinely not give a fuck about you while expecting you to provide. Worth noting: the entire time she was like this to me, she was a complete ANGEL to that other guy.
Bro leave believing in that victim mentality bullshit to the feminists. Saying "Oh no she was so crazy! It's not my fault! I'm a victim", feels good but doesn't allow you to improve. The reason I have been able to get a handle of my life, fuck so many girls and achieve huge things after this is because I accepted it being my fault and worked my ass to change it.
DramaticGolf 5y ago
since u brought up race, what was urs and hers btw?
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
Yeah maybe I should remove that part, I feel it comes off as racist. Its just those details were weirdly relevant at the time. More because of the personalities those specific people had not their race if that makes any sense.
DramaticGolf 5y ago
u werent being racist, i was just wondering. im guessing u guys were both asian?
seedster5 5y ago
Bro that's fucked up that your frat bros hooked up with her without telling you. Kappa Sigs?
lobstergenocide 5y ago
why is it always kappa sig lmao
throwawaybeginner 5y ago
LOL @ Kappa Sigs. Nah different frat but random funny story about Kappa Sigma.
Years later in college I, unknowingly, fucked this Kappa Sigs girlfriend while I had a douchey ripped shirtless profile picture. When he found out he lost his shit and got super insecure. He became super obsessed with me and they started having huge fights about how she could fuck a douchebag like that.
It was trippy when I realized that I had basically become the other guy who destroyed my relationship years before. But for their relationship.
seedster5 5y ago
Why he mad at you tho. His girlfriends the hoe. I'm a kappa sig alum and I can't tell you how many broth3rs that seemed like an alpha but their girls had them by the balls. I only experienced that he'll for 6 months when my girlfriend turned into total bitch, similar to situation. No cheating. We called it quits and parted ways.
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throwawaybeginner 5y ago
Bro its not just your fraternity look around, its like 90% of relationships. Most guys in relationships are whipped AF.
Based on your experience you probably realize this too, when guys have their TRP moment they either go full victim mentality, self pitying mode and cry that she was so mean and evil. Or they accept the reality of females and choose to blame themselves for being an unattractive guy and improve themselves to become an alpha.
Even in this subreddit half the guys are just dwelling in MRA, women are evil BS instead of taking responsibility for being an unattractive beta male and improving themselves.
B3ER 5y ago
"Man" is not the word I would use to describe that person.
ElegantCyclist 5y ago
Another story about why we need TRP. And mandatory DNA testing, now.
seedster5 5y ago
This story went south the day that the girl and the guy met. At some point he's gonna have to wake up and realize where everything went wrong. Was it him being distant? Did he not buy her flowers?
Things went wrong was the day she learned of the world and decided this is how She was gonna live. The man had plenty of red flags that he ignored during the dating phase. She can divorce rape him and he will move onto another person to get divorce raped all over again.
Society tells us were suppose to congratulate single moms. Fuck that. I congratulate two people staying together for 20-30 years because they're not self centered fucktards
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AllahHatesFags 5y ago
Wow, just wow. I don't know who I hate more in the story, the psycho bitch or the simp who was stupid and pathetic enough to want to marry her.
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DocZTheRockstar 5y ago
I ain't buying anything like a ring that doesn't do something productive. A high priced ring does not do anything productive lol. She was mad she wouldn't be able to show her high priced ring to her friends and family for social benefits, but instead was about to get a ring from a retail store.