HSP asked me to make a quick post for the fence sitters because well, I've spent a lot of time on a topic he was going to write on.

I'm busy for the holidays so I can't make a 15K post for you to say "what the fuck" to when you open it. So instead, feast on 100K chars a bite at a time.

TL;DR

You can't fake it, women don't value you being a good guy and your dreams of how you think your family will be are either fundamentally misinformed or you are still huffing blue pill fumes.

These guys were all right, all along. I spent years banging my head against the wall until I learned my final lessons.

Freedom.

It's the most valuable thing any man has. You give it up when you have a family. This is okay, but only if she doesn't make you sacrifice your imperative, because she can't sacrifice hers.

She gives you other women, because she can't sacrifice hypergamy.

And if that doesn't work, you exercise freedom. Because even if you become the Silverback Patriarch, again, you'll learn that you're still going to cupcake day at the zoo. You're still executing her end game.

Don Draper?

Was her best option, till he wasn't, gave her kids and then footed the bill and played babysitter. Great plan.

You want kids, no complaints from me. Got what some people consider a lot.

When it's working you're "winning." When it's not "you lose." Either way, she wins.

So plan accordingly. And when I say plan, I don't mean "work harder" or "yeah, I'll just..." I mean, get it.

Don't follow that path.

Your path means you don't sacrifice your imperative. Because she can't sacrifice hers. A woman can't agree to be non-hypergamous.

So don't agree to be her provider in exchange for a performance contract with a built in socially sanctioned guillotine. Don't agree to unconditional provisioning with someone who can't guarantee unconditional attraction to you.

Hit the books.


Maybe you don't even know what women look for in a short term mate, what the actual difference is between red & blue. I got you.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7ptnb5/protectors_vs_providers_afbb_killing_the_blue/

Maybe you think you're a nice guy with an edge. You're not, you're every dude before he gets wrecked.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/93eykk/good_hearted_men_with_an_edge/

Maybe you'll work really, really super hard for that family of yours. Those red pill guys are just butt hurt losers...

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8746br/stacys_credo_death_of_the_plow_horse/

Maybe you think that being a good person has some value in the SMP.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7ukku8/the_true_alpha_on_male_virtue/

Maybe you think you'll be the "Silverback Patriarch"

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7815fp/children_without_fathers_and_women_without/

What about if you made a million dollars and became the ultimate status icon, ever?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/75mjot/djs_story_the_story_of_the_narcissistic_high_beta/

Or you think married red pill means TRP sanctions marriage?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/75c3ip/with_apologies_to_the_blue_pill_users_of_the_sub/


I will answer any of your questions about family as a Christmas gift. If you think you have any viable angle why TRP is wrong, I will politely tell you why you are misinformed, as a gift.

Merry Christmas

Love what she brings you.