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red_philosopher

Posted 5y ago in Field Report - Permalink - Locked - 102 Views

First, it's nice to be back.

Cast and Crew

Red-Pill Dude: red_philosopher
Blue-Pill Dude: Some guy named Garret
Plate: HB6, we'll call her Kat
Post-production: red_philosopher

Background

Kat is a post-wall, 38-40 year-old woman with a smokin' hot body, but not exactly super-pretty in the face. Has been my plate for a few weeks now, she comes over when I ask, asks to be fucked herself, even offers to do my laundry (:o a first for me).

Garrett is a 20-21 year old guy who works with Kat.

Me. Happy to finally be leaving the anger-phase. (Feels real good)

What Happened

I'm texting Kat and telling her to come over (yeah phonecall schmonecall) and she asks if I'll fuck her if she comes over. I say that I thought that was a foregone conclusion, and she says she'll be over shortly. I'm minding my own business playing a video game to pass the time (yeah yeah bad for the soul) and I see a text from five minutes ago that says she's arrived. I go to the door and she's not there. I shrug it off and call her, just to make sure nothing weird happened, and she said she felt weird about my living situation (family at home) but wanted to drop off some promotional material I had lent her. Alright, I give her shit and tell her thanks for dropping it off and I go back to my business.

The next day she calls me, tells me she feels bad for what happened, and asks if she can come over. Absolutely, why not? She shows up, do the usual meet and greet, and we chill on the couch for a bit. (I have a bad habit of actually enjoying my time around my plates instead of just using them for a vagina. But I usually learn very valuable things that way.) We're watching a show, and she pulls out her phone and expresses some frustration.

I'm curious, as always, and ask her what's going on.

K: "There's this guy at work that I don't know how to handle and I'm afraid it's going to get weird."

Me: "what do you mean?"

K: "There's this guy I work with, and I think he likes me, but I'm not attracted to him."

Me: "What do you mean?"

K: (Hands me her phone, and fills me in on some back story)

I flip through a text conversation between Garret and Kat, occuring on the same night she asked if I was going to fuck her if she came over. I'm laughing on the inside, because I was that guy once.

The Conversation

It goes something like this:

K: "Need to find someone to go with in case I get drunk."
G: "lol just come"
G: "where are you?"
K: "i'm lame and got scared. don't be mad."
G: "you can still come, party just really started, wanted you here"
K: "sounds fun, but I don't know anyone there"
(conversation continues like that with excuse after excuse)

Meanwhile, she was asking me at the same time if she can come over and get fucked. (Surprise!)

The Aftermath

I tell her to ignore him and the problem will go away on it's own. We have a good time, and I'm happy that I'm not "That Guy ™" anymore.

Lessons Learned

You can't negotiate attraction.
You can't plead, beg, use logic, or otherwise attempt to persuade them.
Women will talk trash about you behind your back.

Don't be that guy that gets laughed at behind closed doors. Have some self-respect and act like it.

TL;DR is for morons.

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CanuckinFL 5y ago

Do NOT disrespect other men with commentary. Anything other than a grunt and return the phone with a shrug is beta. For an alpha, talking about other men is a no no. Especially if you know where he’s coming from.

My advice, say nothing about other men. Especially nothing negative. Because you get it. She’ll be more intrigued, not less.

Starfuckingman 5y ago

Exactly. The best comment here.

Saun522 5y ago

Be careful about giving her "advice" about Garrett, she may ask you what she should do next regarding him, but giving her a long logical explanation will dry up her panties faster than sticking them in an oven

red_philosopher 5y ago

"Ignore him and it'll blow over eventually" is about the extent of my advice on relationships with unwanted suitors.

whatsthisgarg 5y ago

"Ignore him and it'll blow over eventually" is about the extent of my advice on relationships with unwanted suitors.

Next time you're lying in bed with her, ask her if she's hungry and tell her to text Garrett to bring you some Thai takeout. I'm not joking, try it, see what happens.

Dark_Lord_A 5y ago

My coworker secured quite a few lunches for my department like this. It's crazy, the shit women do when they're sleeping with someone they actually want to sleep with.

haroldpeters 5y ago

yep I once made a chick travel 3 hours on a train to a holiday house I was staying at with friends. After I shagged her I told her she should go because she wasn't invited. she was cool with it. LOL

Dark_Lord_A 5y ago

Damn dude. That's cold as ice lol.

Unrealenting 5y ago

You have to understand that women will effectively become a vehicle for your ego when they are attracted to you, essentially becoming a projection of your own consciousness manifested in physical form. Women generally do not have an Anima, a central seat of consciousness, from which to negotiate and observe reality and will instead acquiesce to whatever the dominate influence is in her immediate observable reality. This adapted as a survival mechanism over thousands of years as women who did not comply with the will of the man who conquered their village and raped them and forced them into being breeding stock were slain, effectively breeding today's modern women the same way dogs have been bred from wolves — into pliable, obedient, and servile creatures to whom they perceive as the leader of their pack.

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derrtderr 5y ago

No one is safe from that. She makes fun of you too. They talk shit about EVERYone.

Saberinbed 5y ago

This. You can save a girls life and she will still find a way to talk shit about you.

red_philosopher 5y ago

Yeah, but it's better overall if you dob't give them free ammunition.

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tempolaca 5y ago

Don't be that guy that gets laughed at behind closed doors. Have some self-respect and act like it.

I believe we all are that guy. You only know about him because you looked at that convo. She will trash-talk you to other guys in the future.

BTW I've been that guy several times. Excuse after excuse. Knowing TRP, now I know after the second excuse, it's gone. No point to keep talking to the girl.

RomeNeverFell 5y ago

Mate forgive me, but you sound beta as shit. There are a lot of cracks in your frame.

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Mehdi017 5y ago

People downvoting you are just as beta as the OP. I fully agree with you, TRP is getting shittier every day...

Avertus 5y ago

Well the quarantine happened

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Poolooloo 5y ago

Nothing seems that weird about the way he was texting her unless this went on for hours.

You can't plead, beg, use logic, or otherwise attempt to persuade them.

I’ve seen it work many times. If you have no shame some women will give in because, well, women have a hard time saying no and feeling like they are upsetting someone. If she’s particularly passive or stupid it’s especially effective.

She probably talked shit about you and your living situation to her friend the next day. Who cares what she says? Women’s words rarely align with their behavior and they are usually just telling the person in front of them what they think they want to hear.