This is inspired from posts I've seen elsewhere suggesting that psychotherapists are being inundated with people who literally cannot cope with the real world - they've been so conditioned by instagram and the likes that every moment of every day should be perfect, every meal exquisite and every human interaction a joy - that they have a breakdown when it isn't.

My thinking is this: In a world where women are being encouraged to believe that every sexual encounter should be practically a religious experience, that consent is not valid unless it's given enthusiastically every step of the way without so much as a drop of alcohol involved - and it's perfectly okay if you "felt unable to say 'no' in the moment", he still raped you and should face the consequences - where does this leave normal sexual encounters?

Because by that logic, I reckon the only sex that isn't rape is porn. And even then, not on set - only when it's been filmed, cut together and released.

No wonder women are complaining that rape isn't being taken seriously. If a woman is going to define "rape" as "any sex that I didn't enjoy or later turned out to be a bad idea", then she's in for a bit of a shock.