Many of you will know Mia Khalfia, the one time most searched pornstar on pornhub. But what many of you won't know is that she was only a pornstar for 3 months - recording 7 videos with guys in it and then the rest something else like masturbation etc. Quite the rise to fame for a such a short stint.

Common perceptions of course would go along the lines of her being a whore, slut and definitely not worthy of any form of male emotional investment. But let's take another look...

Your snowflake has undoubtedly an N count > 7 especially if you're in a big metropolitan city. Most have probably been similar to a porn encounter: ONS, barely knows the guy, fucks for validation or money (sugar baby) and never sees him again. The only difference is that you can watch all of Mia's videos but you can't see your snowflakes'.

Imagine if you could see a video history of your girls sexual history. They're probably similar to Mia's in terms of sexual acts.

I got this info from watching a youtube video where Lance Armstrong interviews Mia - you can find it easily if you google.

You don't have to watch the youtube interview but what I found interesting is how she rationalised in her head that she'll do porn because nobody will ever find out. Which is exactly a girl's mentality of going home with a guy.

I also loved the part when she was like "it was good money" and then Lance Armstrong asked how much is good. And she's like $1000 a day and he's like woah that is NOT good money. Interesting to see his view of it. $1000 a day is nothing to him.

So gents, a big of perspective for you that should help vanquish any sense of oneitis you may be having.