Hi, older guy here (40) who travels nearly constantly (for work) to major cities in US and Europe.

I've found that girls (yes I bang 20-somethings, it's easy when you're older) in big cities are lonelier and less happy than in smaller more rural cities where they tend to know everyone and have a more tight knit set of friends. If anything, you will get way more ass in a big city by default.

You're right in that girls from smaller towns are more impressed by worldliness but that's beta mentality anyway. She should be impressed by your physical animal prowess and envision how you're going to beat her into the mattress and make her do freaky shit the other boys are too timid for.

This is a common trap young guys fall into, especially guys (and girls) from smaller cities. Do NOT try to appear more worldly than you are. #1 People who are worldly know the difference. #2 It's a waste of time and money and unless you're a millionaire you won't win that game. There are too many trust fund kids running around who can go anywhere in the world at the drop of a hat. You'll bankrupt yourself (morally and financially) trying to pretend that's you.

Instead just be that hot guy they met at the bookstore/coffeeshop/day drinking/etc... who has good game, knows how to have fun, doesn't put up with her shit like the orbiters, and beats that pussy like it owes you money.

Honestly I've found cities are full of weak ass men and the more of a monstrous flared nostril asshole you are the wetter they get. In Washington DC, New York, and London, three of the most worldly and prestige oriented cultures in the world for young women I smashed an unbelievable amount of ass by just adhering to basic red pill truths.

It's a target rich environment and she doesn't want to fuck that rich worldly lawyer, he just takes her to nice places, she wants YOU to fuck her brains out and have HER pay for some quick street food.

There are huge differences in each city from Vegas, Chicago, New York, Minneapolis. Bigger the city the hotter the women and the hotter the men. I find Minneapolis and Chicago to be good for middle of the road. A lot of easy HB7s and your competition is low. New York and Vegas you get a lot of HB9s and it's much harder to get their attention.

The more liberal the city the harder it gets too. New York is thinking about putting forth a law that will criminalize men for approaching women.

It's easier the more status you have. I suggest networking and being someone that's top of your field. That way people talk about you and do most the work for you. Social proof. That way when you go to a party people know you before you speak to them.

Check out the mice utopia experiments. Will answer most of these questions.

The more people, the more competition you have. Everything gets consumed quickly in big cities.

It's not that hard to get laid in the big city, there's just more people. What you're saying is true when talking about 9 and 10's. You probably won't get any attention from them as you maybe would if you were in the country. But as long as you're decent looking, have game, personality, and a good job, you'll be fine.

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lol I went to Los Angeles a few months ago, and I got laid by hardly doing anything. Just staying out late enough until some girl came along and randomly chose to be interested in me for some reason. She was about a 7. Of course, there were hundreds of girls I passed by in the street who didn't even notice me but all you need is one.

I've lived in San Francisco, NYC, and Paris. There is SOME of what you are talking about that goes on (example in a moment) but there are also any benefits to a bigger city.

A big city has more women.

A smaller town has fewer people, which means a woman must be MORE careful of who she has sex with. Everybody knows everybody - which is not the case in a big city.

The demographics of a city matter. NYC has more women as a percentage than San Francisco (and not just because of the gay guys - it is because of the engineering companies in Silicon Valley). So it is easier to meet good women in NYC than in SF (for many other reasons, too).

However, in NYC I met a cute young eastern european girl. She liked me... but soon was jetting around the world with a billionaire. He had his own airplane, I had a monthly subway pass. Oh well, next.

On the other hand, being in good shape and making her laugh will go a long way... further than boring her to death with simple money.

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Primeira vez que acho um brasileiro aqui, bacana isso

In Sri Lanka the leopard is the apex predator - at the top of the food chain. In india the leopard must compete with the tiger. In Africa the leopard must compete with the lion .. so yeah your environment will probably change the game for you but western women themselves behave the same

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I live in sort of a big city, about 1.5 million, and here it is very easy to lose her attention.

On the other hand, girls have their defenses up more for the constant inundation of thirsty guys, which means that if you approach with a value-giving attitude, they are pleasantly surprised. Oftentimes they can be almost hostile at first (some will be straight up hostile), but if you show that you don't need their validation they will open up (sometimes now, sometimes you need to reapproach).

It's also great for generating social proof on the fly. Groups will be more open to socializing with strangers, so you can meet and befriend guys and girls and have more and more social proof as the night goes on.

Theres also a stereotype of women in Brazil being easy is that true for natives or just gringos??

Also even tho its ilegal do you think going to prostitutes in Brazil isnt a big deal?? Like nobody Cares if they see u go fuck with one

Sorry for the off topic just curious

It's easier to be top 20% in Campinas than it is to be in São Paulo. Simple answer: you'll have to fuck down. And why do us brazilians always need to mention it?
Midwest master race checking in

Yes, of course.

Huge cities means higher level of education, income, culture. But usually you date in your circles: you probably not gonna meet models if you are not in the fashion industry or have enough money to take a vip table at a club. As you pointed, most people travel too cause they have the money and by education are curious about the world. Not a big deal though, travel is a personnal experience and at your age, few people travelled outside their country.

If you go out with other people from your new college and get chick from there, for sure everybody will be part of it, so that's nothing special. You could go to Cambrige, England to study, that's a very small town but the problem would be the same, you be together with other people like you so you are no longer special. Everybody there being extremely smart and studying, likely to grow their own carreer and likely more people have a wealthy family and actually have visiter the whole world already, have a boat/plane/big villa.

And there are big chances that for LTR, you may much prefer someone like that actually. You may prefer to be with somebody that is smart and motivated like you. So yes you'll need to up your game because basically you'll be into the next level. But it doesn't mean that just by going out in the right place you couldn't find some easy pick too. As there many more clubs, bars, restaurants, places and activities you have more choice and if anything they are more specialized, quite likely. You could choose what is interresting you more and change often.

Yes, this happened to me. I am from metro NJ and close to NYC, so when I moved to Massachusetts my style and attitude was very different from the country folk there. I was very popular in school because of it.