"girls just wanna have fun"

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This is my son's mother... you can save the don't stick your dick in crazy routine. I was blue pill beta supreme staff Sargeant... but she is the alpha party widow... she's 28 and the wall has long passed her (fat, loose vag. and medical problems that linger from this lifestyle). After our break up about a year and half ago I found red pill... man I can't believe I tried making it work... now she can turn on the good mother mode on and does Monday - Friday until about 6pm but simply can't on weekends and thus why I take my son on weekends so he doesn't have to see her in her "best" form...

My reply is to just paint a picture though of my reaction to this and give a little advice as a guy that paid the piper on this type of walking calamity of a woman... I encourage this lifestyle... a lot... when she wants to go out and needs me to pick up chillmonkey88 Jr. A little early... I'm there at a drop of a hat... why? So one day I can't get the slip I need to take over custody of my son. I've talked to lawyers and they've said I won't win at our current agreement - $112/w in cs, every other weekend even though I take him every, and 0 legal or physical - so I wait for that dui or od or domestic dispute or diagnosis so I can get my son completely out of that environment. It's sad that to get 50/50 or more of everything I need her to fuck up or put my son in danger.

So to you guys out there, encourage this shit all day and black night in a white night disguise... it will catch these skanks. It's sad but it does two things - thins the herd of un-wifable women. And two, in my case and many other single dads that have been bullied into submission by the family court system along with helps men's rights in custody cases and reproductive rights like mine, it can give you the time to strike if you want more parenting and need to prove her unfit.

Finally if you meet any of these women and see this red flag on their social media or in real life handle it one of two ways. -

1. STAY THE FUCK AWAY AT ALL COSTS... AVOID THEM LIKE RADIATION...

2. IF YOU DECIDE TO PUMP AND DUMP... WHERE A GOD DAMN CONDOM OR 4...

These women will destroy their lives along with your life and there is no saving them trust me...

Found a woman who loved to (and may still) get shit faced?

http://www.breastcancer.org/risk/factors/alcohol

Compared to women who don't drink at all, women who have three alcoholic drinks per week have a 15% higher risk of breast cancer. Experts estimate that the risk of breast cancer goes up another 10% for each additional drink women regularly have each day.

But, of course, telling a woman not to drink heavily is you being oppressive and controlling.

Also, don't forget, you are evil for not supporting her in dealing with the repercussions of her careless and thoughtless life.

And so, women's rights groups would rather push that men accept this lifestyle, instead of telling the very women they claim to be looking out for to be more reserved by pushing a lifestyle that prevents breast cancer.

What are some ways to determine if a woman has lived through the party world if she isn't involved in a publicized business like playboy?

AWALT, these posts are getting redundant. Feminism/progressive thinking is only one facet of the decline of our civilization. It's an easy target and one that grates on almost all males here, possibly an excellent study on a small scale of why things in general are declining, but only a small part.

Posts like these remind me of my fundamentalist Christian upbringing. If a woman works, she's wrecked. If a woman is seen in public with a man (or was it without?) she's wrecked. If a woman goes to the gym, she's wrecked. If she's seen movies, reads women's magazines, watches soap operas...blah blah blah.

Eve had a little tight game run on her, fell for it, the rest is history. She was in a perfect environment, talked with God, had a man who was basically the fucking CEO and in charge of the material world, still wasn't enough. AWALT, AWALT, AWALT

Rather than hate on women, realize what they are. Lift, self improve. Women will come, or won't. Does it really matter that women will suck and continue to suck? On my deathbed I hope I'm able to say my life was great, not "wow, I'm so glad I found a virginal woman who didn't club (lol) herself to death."

It does, but don't forget our true mission, to succeed at life on our own terms. If your happiness or core hinges on women, well, good luck with that.

It's kind of like taking heroin and throwing all the switches ON in your pleasure/satisfaction center of the brain. lots of fun the first time one experiences it, but you spend the rest of forever chasing that first thrill, and can never really appreciate "normal" pleasure and goal-attainment again.

Tatoos, excessive piercings, "I don't party anymore" or any other variation of such words, immediate abort mission for any sort of LTR and downgrade into plate. You won't regret it.

Just FYI, guys, the Playmate in question, Cassandra Hensley, got introduced to her husband by her 5 yo daughter, who basically pushed them together. He was a bit reluctant. After his first business went bust, they moved into her sister's basement for a few months. He was NOT financially successful when they first met, only after a few years together, and she was not a heavy drinker at that time either.

It would appear that the only red flags he should've taken cognizance of were her single mother status, and her being a PMOM.

We often talk about the concept of the alpha widow on here- a women who has experienced a man that has impacted her psyche so deeply that future men will never be able to stack up. I'll go a step further and assert that even if a woman never enters into a relationship with one of these men, the "party lifestyle" (hard drugs, cock carousel, late nights in Vegas, getting shitfaced 5/7 days of the week) irreparably ruins women. We know the toll such a lifestyle takes on her body and how it accelerates her inevitable impact with The Wall, but it damages them even more mentally.

I have posted about this multiple times, and I whole-heartedly agree. Yeah, a girl who fucks one alpha dude will pine over him, I agree. But the party lifestyle girls are possibly even more fucked, due to the false believe that they are in control, and it will last forever.

I don't think women ever stop riding the cock carousel. Once they get on, they can't get off.

Even if they get married after hitting the wall, mentally, they will still be on the cock carousel; reminiscing about their time with Chad and comparing her current life to her previous life. Even if this woman never cheats on her new husband, she will never experience the same emotional and sexual highs as she did in her past.

And let's say this woman doesn't get married. She remain on the prowl for strange cock, even though her value has diminished. Once a woman has had a taste of Alpha, she can't go back. Once a woman has fucked a high SMV man, it drastically warps her perception of her own SMV.

It's been said here before, but this is why the more partners a woman has had before marriage, the more likely she is to get a divorce. She will not experience the same highs and lows as her "party girl" days and her ability to pair bond gets punted out the window.

I know a former party hound that is a good mother now. Everybody had a go, though.

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If you encounter a woman who goes out drinking frequently, takes multiple trips to Vegas, and just loves "having fun," pump-and-dump accordingly.

I go to a B10 school. Are you saying there are actually women out there who aren't like this? I havent met any.

I've witnessed this firsthand with the ex. She was 35 when I met her, had 2 kids from previous marriage and was still continuing on Party Mode when she met me. After meeting me, she wanted to 'settle down' and tried really hard to become the responsible mom and classy partner she'd waited too long to be - her own words.

She tried so hard she started pretending to be someone totally different from who she is - including suddenly becoming prudent; consequently she made a total crying mess of her career, had 2 burnouts, started living off everybody's help, support and money and after 4 years of relationship she blamed me for keeping her fun life away from her. Only now do I understand how I fell into her obvious 'beta-trap'. I still miss the person she pretended to be but the painful truth is, she never existed.

That is an extreme example, but yeah, that party shit does mess women up, but so it does it with men too, but in general men are usually better able to handle it.

If you want a bitch, need to snap them up young. And be very alpha, and not give a fuck at all! At all!!!

"How can a quiet night in with hubby and the kids ever compare to doing lines of blow in a Vegas penthouse and "having some fun" with Chad Thundercock in a sexy threesome?"

The sad thing is, divide that by 1/8 and it still holds up.

How can a quiet night in with the family compare to getting pumped and dumped by OKCupid half-alphas, and giving anonymous blowies in some local dance club?

And basically these women are the low quality losers no matter what they look like. You can be certain that these women will have ZERO female Game (Charm) and have basically walked blindly through their lives.

An Alpha male wishes to mate with the highest quality female he can find. One judges female quality in part on good genetics (looks) but also on intelligence. (Game). The woman with no Charm (no Game) will be used up in the Cock Carousel as each guy uses her for sex but realizes she's a dingbat.

If a man is going to devote resources to a woman she must demonstrate high quality and Charm signals high quality.

You could have predicted her demise from the beginning.

Men must screen women better if they insist on taking on long-term relationships. And once a woman fails the screening, he must be willing and committed to moving on from her.

Don't overgeneralize. There are alpha widows and then there are literal whores, like this one. "Whore ODs" is a dog bites man story.

(There was a time when a Playboy Bunny wasn't necessarily a whore, but it ended 20 years ago.)

Excellent post.

I'm sure the excitement is part of it, but I think there's a more important dynamic at work. Ego.

In that party lifestyle, things revolve around her. Guys are trying to get into her pants, and they're doing things for her, taking her places, catering to her. It's not just the thrill, it's that she's the center of attention. One of the centers of attention, anyway.

Trust me; nothing is like catnip for a woman like being the center of attention. Even the ones that aren't clinical narcissists, are narcissistic.

To be honest, I can't blame them. Hausfrau vs. party girl with orbiters and constant thrills, I know which sounds better to me. It's just that, I am able to move on from the past.

Don't even pump too much. You may end up deluded that she's not really like that and possibly suffer wasteful complications later with her.

I've started using the line "But that's in the past, that's not who I am any more!" Or variants to that effect when a girl starts pushing for a relationship. You can see the hurt in their eyes. It's beautiful.

If a girl has more than 2 drinks in one sitting then she is not LTR material

There's a steep price of admission to Party World. Nothing in her life will ever be able to live up to it, and she will always clamor for "just a taste."

To be fair, as a man in a committed (and happy) relationship, this is something that's sitting in the back of my mind too: Not going out anymore to make out with other girls and to take one of your choice home once in a while and having a fresh pussy. But then again, this isn't just something with girls: Everything's more exciting when you do it the first time.

But alas, that's life and the benefits of a good relationship - for me - still outweigh the fun of being single by factor 10. But I guess that IS part of growing up. https://vimeo.com/12541145

They're fun as hell to play with, tho.

Ahh ze wall. So many a seemingly wonderful woman near the wall. How do we as RP Men who "pump-and-dump" and are therefore contributing to the party life of women, find a woman to actually "settle down with" ?

I remember reading that rant haha omg just destroyed 80% of women

Red pill us blowing my mind tonight.

She will also age a lot faster than someone who took care of themselves during their 20's. The party girls have a blast for a few years and then quickly go downhill and scramble to lock down a guy into marriage.

It's a sad world for these women actually, and for the guys they marry. Pam Anderson has the same history. This all stems from bad childhoods and growing up in a fucked up world.

Just means we need to screen our LTRs like crazy. Actions need to have consequences.

There's a steep price of admission to Party World. Nothing in her life will ever be able to live up to it, and she will always clamor for "just a taste." Alpha widows aren't always created by individual men. If you encounter a woman who goes out drinking frequently, takes multiple trips to Vegas, and just loves "having fun," pump-and-dump accordingly. One day she will say that lifestyle is behind her (coincidentally, as she begins to approach The Wall), but we all know better here, right?

"Just a taste," and the HERE and NOW is the most important thing to her. She's not mulling over the consequences.

I've always maintained by the time they're drinking age, they're ruined for life. Once they know the attention they can pull from thirsty men at a bar, there's no going back.

its really sad how corrupted women are, an innocent beauty is worth killing for.

Everybody's got a hole fill. Its just a matter of what they fill it with and whether or not they bury themselves in it.

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In conservative cultures, your assertion would be rephrased as:

"If a woman is no longer a virgin, she's no longer suitable for an LTR."

If he's even halfway competent, the first man is special, whether or not the guy is an alpha. Arnold Schwarzenegger couldn't top him as far as she's concerned. For her you'll never be able to match the "tingles" of the "first time".

Calling her an "alpha widow" is a matter of our own male insecurity.

Is there like a list of Red Flags we could add to sidebar?

The Dude once said "How you gonna keep em down on the farm once they've met Karl Hungus" playing off the title of a song called "How Ya Gonna Keep 'em Down on the Farm (After They've Seen Paree?)"

The song was about soldiers coming back from WWI and not being eager to take over the family farm. But both lines are true when applied to women who are able to highly capitalize on their youthful beauty. Good post, aptway.

Seems like 'party world' as described would apply to all relatively big universities. Is the consensus here that all college educated girls since the proliferation of text messaging should be plated without exception? That's a large swath of the female dating market.