This post may definitely spark debate, and I still think ejaculating without a partner is beta. I've just been too bullish and unable to focus with intense urges that'd last for hours when I was over 90 days on NoFap. So here's the update:
I've been trying not to over ejaculate so I wasn't sexually satiated. I started with once daily, but then that lead to me commonly doing it 2-3 times daily. I'm just a very horny person, but I think I got close to sexual satiation I think my limit is 8-9 ejactulations a week before I start to notice a declines, and double that before I reach satiation.
Started fapping with no images initially, but I'd still see Instagram thots. Slowly was peaking at nudes without fapping and decided to start fapping with them. I'm a huge boob connoisseur with a preference for huge tits that have great shape. I still my names of the best tits the internet has ever seen from my addicted days if anyone is interested. These women are the 9s and 10s of racks, and I think jerking off to them will desensitize me. I even caught myself downloading these images and organizing them like a total incel. It's just gonna be another time sink if I start, and porn/images are endless.
I stopped downloading and will go for a week straight straight as a soft reset, and see how I go from there. I don't wanna content myself with this, I need to remember to get the real thing. I'll finish with this C.S. Lewis masturbation quote as it's like "sending the man back into the prison of himself, there to keep a harem of imaginary bride."
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
1) you're overthinking something as simple as masturbation
2) just jerk it when or if you need to, no need to make it an internal conflict
3) when you actually start getting sex, especially regular sex, images don't really matter any more. After a good amount of sex you'll just have a hard time getting off to vids and images
So until that, you're gonna have to refrain from porn because the porn head fog you get will hurt your game. There is a bit of a head fog it gives you if you consume it and then go out later or talk to girls after watching it so don't
MyBoyJob 1y ago
"Jerk if when you need to"
I think porn and masturbation can quickly turn into a dopamine/drug addiction independent of natural horniness. Best to only due it because of the latter.
kv2_0833 1y ago
if you're not actively getting any I would only fap once every 1-2 weeks so you have that drive and natural aggression, otherwise you're overthinking it
MyBoyJob 1y ago
I only jerk if I'm so horny I'm about to make a dumb decision. (Historical IE making a move on my hot MILF supervisor who did get really flirty). And, even then, I only jerk to a actual memories or POV fantasy with her. And overall, I try to limit it to once a week.
RiggzHatesYou 1y ago
I'll beat my meat even when I have a girlfriend or plates. Being productive and doing shit you should be doing ? Don't worry about touching your PP