Is making yourself your point of origin the key? | TheRedPill

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EliteAlpha

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Ever since i adopted this mind set it has helped me tremendously. For example I have a plate, potenital LTR, she's out with the girls drinking - I start getting a touch jealous, start hamstering thinking - shit some chad is probably hitting on her, she's probably getting fucked right now as I text her. Then i stopped. and realised so what? I could fuck girls right now. SHE sould be the one worrying about me, Other times - i'd worry if i didn't make a girl cum or if i wasn't good in bed... SHE should be worriying about not SATISFYING ME. It's really important to flip the mind set and make yourself the point of origin, really changes the game tremendously. Always think of yourself as the King and they should be the ones trying to please you (sounds narcissistic but girls want to be submissive)

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Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago

(is making yourself , your point of origin key)?

You should always have yourself as a point of origin, not just for women.

(she should be worrying about me), this is abundance theory.

You should view it as, your girl is lucky to have you, she better make sure she does her best to keep me.

I have choices, options.

This is why young , pretty girls are so flaky, they don't seem to care about their current boyfriend, they are like ADHD,whatever. True, they don't care, they have abundance of guys. At least for sex and attention.

As a guy , you need that same type of attitude for a relationship, not casual sex.

If in an actual LTR, does it mean you ignore them or are rude to them. no. But , you don't put them on pedestal, you realize, I can get another girl like this pretty easy, it's not a big deal if she walked away. Also, if she doesn't treat me well, if it doesn't seem like I'm her best option, if she doesnt' treat me that way, I will find another girl.

that's the mindset you need. Girls want a guy who knows he has options.

MyBoyJob 1y ago

Yes, when you are with her...Always assume your dick is big enough. Always assume you're the Chad she wants to fuck. Always assume she came. Obviously use your brain, but in the absence of HARD evidence...assume the best

whytehorse2021 1y ago

Yup. This is something every man needs to internalize. Adding value to yourself increases your attractiveness. Adding value to a woman decreases your attractiveness.

Peter_Henderson 1y ago

I wanted to ask you an off-topic question. You seem humble and polite and friendly.

How narcissistic are you on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being the highest?

(fwiw, I'm an 8 or so but it goes up to 10 on occasion)

whytehorse2021 1y ago

There's a huge difference with narcissism. A narcissist has an insecurity that they cover up by creating a false reality. I don't have that problem.

Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago

Is making yourself your point of origin the key?

Yes.

Peter_Henderson 1y ago

I think what you're hinting at is the struggle with anxiety and you are correct -- that you can logically navigate around unrealistic anxiety by simply re-framing it. Unlike women -- when men realize that a source of anxiety doesn't make sense or is unjustified -- the anxiety somehow magically disappears.

It sucks to be women though -- they are hardwired to endure a lifelong battle of depression & anxiety for no logical reason. I have never met a sane woman and probably never will.