So I have a plate and we just started dated I was thinking she could be LTR material but she uses social media a lot and I can't help but feel she's probably has 5+ other guys she's talking to at the same time as me But my question is are all girls like this? If so what's the point of eveign having a gf because she probably has lots of back up options and can leave you at any second? Is this just how girls are now or am I just with bad girls? Thank you for reading
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User4566 1y ago
Not all girls, but if she's moderately attractive then it's almost guaranteed. Of course, girls who aren't talking to a lot of guys at once are usually the lower SMV girls.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Girls have options unless they don't go out at night, don't go to social settings, don't use social media or dating apps.
Literally as long as girls don't hide in their basement they will have some options (assuming they're not ugly)
That being said I know some girls that do not use social media/dating apps and not every girl goes to bars. So sadly if you met her at either of those places she's already losing some points as a relationship prospect.
I find that almost every girl has 2-3 different social medias. Very few aren't glued to it.
There really isn't a point to having a girlfriend unless she does not exhibit constant phone checking and attention whoring. Even modestly dressed women on social media get attention.
It's life, you really have to vet to make sure ideally she does not use social media or if she does it's almost entirely for memes and staying in touch with family or some harmless shit. Anything along the lines of regular social media usage is just not a great sign and usually a gateway to being on a bunch of different apps (Facebook, insta, snap, TikTok).
Every girl I've ever banged with a lot of different social medias has a high body count, poor pair-bonding, or both
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Feeding the troll bro
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I've known girls who have Instagrams with names and handles that aren't really their real names. Their something like a phrase or collection of words. And they use it for memes and stuff.
But even the girl I know who did that still fucked a guy off Instagram.
It is literally aids. My current FWB invited a guy from out of state to stay with her at her apartment off of Discord. It sounds like they didn't fuck based on the story and because when I fucked her in her bed there she volunteered the info that she'd never had sex in it before. Not sure if that meant she had sex elsewhere since the other places for sex in her apartment would have been total shit to fuck in
Point is. Not even discord is safe. They'll still invite men from fucking out of state to come stay with them
I hate social media. I hate what it has done to women
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Talking. Probably, cheating, not necessarily
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I frequently country dance with women with boyfriends and husbands. It's sad.
It's really sad. They are constantly seeking validation and excitement and fun from men who are not their man
In the case of me, they are fine with having my hands on their body for minutes at a time. It's fucking sad
Positive-Lifeguard80 1y ago
AWALT. I met lots of outlier chicks, the not-glued-to-her-phone-type without any social media, the sticks-to-her-LTR-type who never branches, the submissive-cooking-great-meals-type who dresses feminine, the married-her-HS-sweetheart-as-a-virgin-type who is extremely religious.
But all of them regularly check out male options and like to keep orbiters, just in case. The theory crafting about how a chick without social media is different is moot. Hypergamy is in effect - in all of them.
You can only dream up yourself a NAWALT, if your own SMV is low. Once you're an older single man, who has his shit together, you become an option for almost every woman. The non-social-media-type dated just to look if there is a branching possibility, the faithful-to-her-LTR type reaches out regularly just in case her thing goes south, even the religious-virgin-wife believes she has a shot, should her beta husband continue to struggle.
That's just the reality how women are. Don't think you found an unicorn or that some kind of religious magic does anything to change women. Get older, mature and more experienced and just realize the truth: All Women Are Like That.
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Positive-Lifeguard80 1y ago
Hypergamy is in effect in all women, regardless if they advertise themselves on social media. When you enter a committed relationship with a woman, you are constantly reassessed against potential better options for monkey-branching.
This happens even if there is a religious narrative of till death tears apart in play, where the virgin-married woman literally believes, she is going to burn in hell forever, if she ever leaves her husband. Even then, hypergamy is still in action, and she checks out options for herself and her children.
That's the thing young BP guys have a really hard time to accept. And the reason why they like to dream of a NAWALT is because they are never considered as branch options when being low SMV, so they never experience this. This side of women you only experience with a high SMV.
Then you date women, who never even tell you, that they are with a BF and just look for branching options. Then you get "friendzoned" by women you don't even approach because of abundance, but they still want you as a backup. Then you experience, that social and religious rules are made for betas to adhere to, but don't apply to high SMV females and males.
Being RP means accepting reality and how the world works, instead of living in a fantasy.
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Positive-Lifeguard80 1y ago
I like how Red Pill basics are downvoted on this platform. You're still in denial. No point of arguing here.
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Positive-Lifeguard80 1y ago
Yes, you can put the exact same girl, who messages 100 guys on IG, under a niqab in a different country and she will still be the same girl, but never even consider talking to other men, without her husband permitting it.
This is literal TRP sidebar fundamentals.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
Girls have many many options (for sex) and much less options for (LTR)
you want to be a guy with options, that's your goal, then you don't worry about her so much, you have options also.
If you are her best option for a LTR, there probably won't be a problem. Unless she doesn't really want a LTR and is still in fun faze. If she's not really interested in a LTR, then you have to only look at her as a plate. If her goal is a LTR and your goal is not, at some point she'll leave, which is ok.
women today use social media , you want to find a woman who doesn't do much social media.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
women have options, but they usually have only one dick in their life (assuming they are normal). if you are not eh one giving her dick, you are an orbiter and you serve as either backup or emotional timewasting tampon
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
My question is, how many other plates do you have?