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Lateralanouncer 4y ago
Lmfao. I’m 40 and woman in the 30s are like hot potato. Pass them on before you get burnt.
redpillschool Admin 4y ago
A lot of guys reminisce about the days of yesteryear when women would save their most important asset for their future husbands.
This train has left the station. Women are always going to prioritize "feeling good" every day, every year.
The payoff for women to get married is only slightly more good feeling than not after age 35 or so, when they've squarely hit the wall and no longer court the attention they did before.
This doesn't mean we can turn back the clock. It means that marriage, as an idea and as an institution, is dead.
Your next move is determining either what your family goals are, or deciding to enjoy the decline.
If you have your sights on family, what's the next move? Finding a country where the conditions are right to lower that age-to-fun ratio for women?
Imperator_Red 4y ago
Been thinking about this and still have no idea what I want to do, or what my end-game is.
IRunYourRiver 4y ago
A fine plan for a family in 2019 is either offspring without marriage or kids and marriage and an ironclad prenup. Of course all of this assumes the guy has enough frame and Red Pill awareness to realize that he is entering into a medium-term contract with the express intent of having kids. Take care of yourself, be alert for the inevitable signs that it is over, and have the belly to kill the puppy when needed. And - be a great father and role model to your kiddos.
johnnight 4y ago
Yes and no. There is the pleasure-seeking personality type that does it, and these people make up double digits of the population. Pleasure seeking men and pleasure seeking women. Millions and millions of them.
Cavendishelous 4y ago
Everyone loves pleasure. The issue is that women have an excuse to constantly seek pleasure guilt-free. There is an entire narrative about how “empowering” it is for a woman to seek pleasure, because when she sleeps with hot men or refuses to settle on a career it is “sticking it to the patriarchy.”
Justtosayitsperfect 4y ago
Why wouldn't they? Tell me one reason why a women should 'save her most important asset' for you? This is exactly what you would do if you were a woman; you would have all the sex you wanted until you cant anymore, and than find a nice husband to have a family with (and probably still cheat on him sometimes). Really, tell me why should a woman save sex for you?
Imperator_Red 4y ago
Because I’m a high value man that doesn’t commit to sluts. In so far as she is seeking that, she should save herself for me and men like me. If she’s not, then go crazy and have fun.
scissor_me_timbers00 4y ago
Its called sublimation. And civilization doesn’t exist without it.
kellykebab 4y ago
Some people actually do live based on principles and not pure self-interest, believe it or not.
strayaura 4y ago
Tell me, why should I enter into a monogamous relationship with that woman, or any woman. Seems like they lead solipsistic, hedonistic lives anyway.
So I'll just keep fucking 20 - 24 year olds, and keep my money to myself.
Derfaust 4y ago
You're damn straight I would! But it still wouldn't be fair to the guy I eventually settled for. I would do it because I could get away with it like a thief. That's kinda the whole message here. You absolutely cannot blame women for behaving this way, which is why men need to be educated and wisened up to restore the balance of power between men and women.
boisvertm 4y ago
Guys don't cheat (at least in marriage anyways) as much as Cosmopolitan would have you believe. You missed a valuable life lesson: marriage is a contract between a man and woman where the woman trades her beauty and exclusive fertility for a man's exclusive fertility and extra earning capacity.
Why would a man in his prime earning years marry a woman after her prime fertility and beauty? If you wait until 35 to marry a man, you're going to get a lower quality male than what you were used to in your 20s. You'll resent him and yourself and have a terrible marriage.
redpillschool Admin 4y ago
It's not that guys or girls cheat more or less, it's that when women cheat, they replace their man with a new flame and come to resent their old man. When guys cheat, they want to keep fucking both if they can.
strayaura 4y ago
Why would a man in his prime earning years marry a woman after her prime fertility and beauty?
Because that man is weak. Mentally and most likely physically
null_isomers 4y ago
Because no woman will be truly happy married to a beta male and raising beta sons.
Mindful_dancer 4y ago
Still dont understand why men attempt to define what a beta and an alpha is.You can't ever trust a man giving you dating advice because theyre men and they're so emotional about being worth something that they can't be objective it seems
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null_isomers 4y ago
I'm not positive you're talking about me, but just fyi I'm a woman.
Mindful_dancer 4y ago
So what do you mean beta sons?
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Bing_Bang_Bam 4y ago
Even if she did married, she would still end up divorce raping some poor idiot.
AnEyeForAnAye 4y ago
You know, the next few decades are going to be really fucking fun. It's literally the frog in the boiling water. Where the boiling water is the time and the frog is... well, fucking everything. From the financial system, to the male-female 'relationships'.
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KeffirLime 4y ago
Men have been sacrificing their inherent strategies for centuries. This is pretty much the first time in the history of civilized society that we are able to execute it freely. Great if you're in the top 20%, miserable if you're not.
Imperator_Red 4y ago
Alpha men have been sacrificing their inherent strategies, by limiting themselves to one woman. Beta men benefited greatly from societal controls that spread the pussy around.
tunsku 4y ago
Not gonna be fun. It is hard to enjoy the decline when you love the country and would rather not have the decline.
AnEyeForAnAye 4y ago
The fun part I meant as sarcasm, it will be very ugly for a LOT of people
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NightFire45 4y ago
Every decade talks about the "decline".
scissor_me_timbers00 4y ago
Because it’s been happening for decades
ripp102 4y ago
To me it's already fun. I'm seeing all of those women that flaunted me in which they usually told me I was not up to them or that I wouldn't be successful in life (which is the opposite), being "walled" and telling me if I would enjoy going out with them. As always my answer is "NO"
Zdeneksfilter 4y ago
It's crazy how well men age, and how fucking awfully women do. By 28-32; the dynamics are pretty much overhauled from what they used to be at 19-21. By 37 y.o, the man is almost like a god (if he's looked after himself well and avoided marriage). The 37 y.o woman, on the other hand is... well; most men worth their salt refuse to take her seriously.
I think college often presents accurate mirroring of how life unfolds. As a freshman; you're struggling to get attention, unless you're exceptional off the bat. Freshman chicks on the other hand get tons of it. You get a bit of a foot hold in the attraction market by 2nd year... and your equivalent chicks lose a bit of it. 3rd year, more of the same happens on both sides. By final year; you've filled out and are attractive enough to the point where you can exclusively game nubile freshmen girls. The 4th year women, on the other hand, - the same ones who brushed you off when you were a freshman - are badly blown out of the water by their younger peers and are pressing you on all sides for any form of attention. Like you said... NO works out pretty well here.
ripp102 4y ago
Yes. The power of saying NO is amazing.
I'm not using it because I enjoy being bad to someone, it's the ability to simple refuse something that is indeed stupid and without sense.
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Hence why women should try to lock down a man by their mid 20s.
Yes if you’re a 30 year old woman who has taken care of yourself you’ll be able to get a date. But almost ALL leverage you’ll have in that relationship is over and has shifted to the man. Only once married can the woman regain power as most men wilt to the constant shit tests and frame tests
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Zdeneksfilter 4y ago
She wouldn't understand it if you told her that 10 years from now; you'll be just like she was when she was 19/20... that you're about a full decade away from hitting your prime (looks-wise, financially, and in just about all other ways). In fact; she'd likely report you to HR for misogynistic views... or something.
antariusz 4y ago
I’m 37 in a month and on pace to earn around 185k this year. I would not have believed you had you told me that 13 years ago when I was reading “the game” and trying to learn pickup. I was hoping I’d be able to kiss a few girls and maybe fall in love someday.
It’s an insane difference. I didn’t go to college but maybe the analogy will work for other guys because I don’t know what WOULD have convinced 24 year old me what is possible.
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Zdeneksfilter 4y ago
Tell you what... "The Game" by Neil Strauss was was what led me to TRP. When I read it at 21/22; I knew fuck-all about pick up and TRP as a whole. Nothing. I was fruity beyond belief at the time, and my idea of wooing chicks was to impress them with gifts and remark at how lovely they were. An older male friend outright told me one day that I that I was batting far below my level with women and that I was a fool for wasting my good looks with average women so repeatedly. My response? "B...B.. But god made us equal, and I'm in love!"
The game changed my life. Today; most of the stuff within it is pretty much elementary level... but without it; I'd likely be an overly nice wuss, fat around the gut and married and locked down to an average woman like 90% of my peers are (I'm 10 years younger than you, at 27, and I just started my first real business).
monsieurhire2 4y ago
And how do they respond to that?
ripp102 4y ago
They get angry. they tell me that it's against nature so I have to procreate and provide as that's my job. It doesn't matter what are my desires in life.
monsieurhire2 4y ago
Sure, but why would it have to be with them in particular? I mean, if you just don't "feel" the chemistry, how could you be expected to procreate with them? Why, it would be unnatural! Now, if they were that 18 year old cocktail waitress with a killer bod who flunked out of high school, it would be a different story! But that's just who you are attracted to! You can't help how you feel! It's not the washed up 40 year old who's the problem, why it's you and your human frailty that compels you to only want to breed with young, attractive, healthy women!
Lol.
dsade 4y ago
Wait, you mean nobody wants to buy a used car from a rental agency that has had 1000 asses farting in the seats and has 300,000 miles on it?
italianorgan 4y ago
And that would be the only car they are allowed to drive
redpillschool Admin 4y ago
I know, it sounds crazy...
KingOfPomerania 4y ago
It's a lot worse than that. Rented cars don't cost you (at least) half of your assets when the rental agreement comes to an end!
Theorymeltfool1 4y ago
Ayy I’d buy that for a dollar!
Wait, these women still expect men to take them on dates and pay for things?? Nope, not interested.
dsade 4y ago
Come on, man...hurry up and impregnate her twice so she can raise them for a couple of years (sort of) and divorce rape you in time to get back to whoring it up at the bar on Weekends without having to do crap like "work".
henriquetomio 4y ago
Bluepill cucks will buy it for sure
dsade 4y ago
That was kind of the point of my follow up comment. Sure, maybe she used to be an 8, but now she's an old model with hundreds of thousands of dick, err miles on it, while she still thinks she just rolled off the showroom floor.
Tutsks 4y ago
Fuck you I still want an AE86 JDM, TYVM.
Brutal13 4y ago
Drifting, mate?
Tutsks 4y ago
Close.
Delivering Tofu uphill both ways.
With style
throw_this_far_awayy 4y ago
Please give used cars more respect. I'd actually consider buying one of those.
TheImpossible1 4y ago
Used cars are the best, someone else takes the depreciation hit and you get a good deal.
monsieurhire2 4y ago
Yeah, seriously. Who would want a to buy a used car for twice the money and who knows what's wrong with it. The parent comment picked the WRONG metaphor.
throw_this_far_awayy 4y ago
The thing is, no matter what is wrong with a used car, you can fix it with enough time and ingenuity. With a broken female the odds of fixing what ever is wrong there may cost more then you are willing to pay after lawyer and court awarded payments after you are done trying to get her to be someone that is reliable.
Nicolas0631 4y ago
Like many cars, it may also just be not worth the trouble.
monsieurhire2 4y ago
Yep.
dsade 4y ago
I don't care if it IS a Porsche and USED to be top of the line....
AspiringMurse96 4y ago
I quite like the used Porsche analogy. They are beautiful and fast cars (generally), but they're still expensive to maintain (drains your money) when they get older.
Mistbourne 4y ago
Problem with that analogy is that Porsches can retain their value decently well if properly maintained, and even go up in value with older models, haha.
FreeRadical5 4y ago
So you'll settle for being beta bucks for a girl if she was hot...
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You may have read his post wrong. That or I read it wrong
monsieurhire2 4y ago
Used (but quality, vetted [like new, but half off at least!]) car = good. Used woman = bad. Therefore, original metaphor bad.
MoDuReddit 4y ago
I fucking hate car metaphors.
redpillschool Admin 4y ago
Agreed. Car metaphors are like when people try to compare a Mustang to a VW Beetle. Sure, they both have wheels but...
.. ok I'm sorry.
themackattack90 4y ago
The original metaphor wasn't bad, you're just ignoring the most important part of it. A Porsche with 300,000 miles on it is always less valuable than a brand new Hyundai. Now if it was a Porsche with 35,000 miles on it, then you'd be correct, but this article isn't about a 27 year old female trying to cash in right before she hits the wall. It's about a 35 year old who is well past her prime.
monsieurhire2 4y ago
Hmmmm.... I think actually that many Porsches with that mileage are in fact more valuable than the Hyundai, provided they undergo a bit of restoration. Now I have heard of vaginal restorative surgery, and of course, women can get all kinds of work done, but we all know that it's not the same thing. Also, you have classic cars and such, that hold value. There are a vanishing few number of naturally beautiful women who took care of themselves, were pampered by beta bux hubbies, and thus can hold onto their good looks and youthful appearance for quite some time. They are preferable to slags that let themselves go and fugly women, but you can't have kids with them. But if you're looking for a sex partner, they at least can't get pregnant, or at least, not very easily without medical interventions.
Nicolas0631 4y ago
There not many cars like that. And for womens, that's the same. There really are women that are still extremely attractive at 45 and incredible ar 35. They do exist, saying the contrary would be wrong. But that one woman in that age bracket out of 1000.
monsieurhire2 4y ago
Honda civics and acuras hold their value pretty well.
NohoTwoPointOh 4y ago
But you can't restore that broken soul...there's the difference.
omega_dawg93 4y ago
you guys need to all buy the book "sex at dawn" and read it thoroughly.
it relates true human nature based on evolution to cultural stuff going on past and present.
my opinion... not the book's: we are in a big time decline to "life as bonobos" meaning pussy is worthless & used up, but always available. they don't care about their wombs... so why should men? the daddy doesn't matter and the village will raise the child (your taxes).
women will destroy themselves in a quest to be "equal."
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I've been shit on in this sub for supporting that book before; admittedly the authors' politics get in the way at numerous points, but if you have a strong enough stomach to wade through the bullshit there are some excellent red pill lessons contained therein, even if that was not the intention of the writers.
omega_dawg93 4y ago
so far it's a good read to me.
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Oh yeah I agree absolutely. I think their methods and most of their findings are sound, but their final argument is essentially 'dudes should be OK with their women getting ploughed regularly on the side'.
nobody_thinks 4y ago
was gifted to me by an over 40 hardcore feminist world traveler who thought it was some kind of bible. that was bad enough. then the politics all over the place. barf. can someone summarize?
omega_dawg93 4y ago
basically, "enjoy the society's decline as women gain more power and control with female pleasure as a priority... meaning pussy will be available in abundance but paternity will be ignored."
the USA is becoming France kinda. look at how we are in a hook-up culture where dating & "relationshits" are dead. average men are frustrated... Chad & Tyrone are fucking even more, and betas are just lost wearing vagina hats.
younger women give up access to their wombs easily. pussy has never been so worthless... smh. the under 25 women even brag about eating ass on social media; that's where we are. again enjoy the decline...
note: I'm not finished the book yet.
question: the book was recommended to me as red pill reading material... so why would a feminist consider it a "bible?"
nobody_thinks 4y ago
from my impression, the book has a leftist overtone with a fempowerment undertone. women's feelz becoming a social priority, matriarchy. beta shaming. etc.
funny story. the girl who gave it to me was from a wealthy new york family and had spent most of her adult life chasing "the hardest steel" (literal quote) in places like brazil, etc. presumably she found validation of her behavior in the book's description of femininity.
i gather the red pill guys like it for its evo psych elements.
she recommended it to me several years ago and i just thumbed through it. I couldn't take it seriously given the recommendation and had never heard of it before. As someone with a quantitative background I found the "science" to be little more that larping so I just tossed it aside.
omega_dawg93 4y ago
there is good evo psych info in the book but it's also informative in other ways... I'd call it decent so far.
my big takes so far is how monogamous gibbons and gorillas have small testicles. the gibbons are monogamous and gorillas have harems; it's a patriarchal set-up; the fight to be a dad is physical and "outside."
then you have bonobos... a matriarchal setup... and a literal fuckfest as the females take on as many males as they can all day, every day. the males have large testicles (to produce more sperm) and there is no fighting a/o possessiveness; it's literally, "it's not your pussy, it's just your turn." the "fight" to determine paternity takes place inside the womb in neverending sperm wars.
patriarchy: violent, territory driven, physical, small genitals... no sperm competition.
matriarchy: peaceful, everybody gets to fuck as much as possible, non-territorial (no oneitis allowed), large testicles to produce more semen for a relentless, ongoing, internal battle in the female's womb.
humans: we are right in the middle... legislating the monogamy thru marriage contracts but failing miserably as the fuckfest takes place anyway. our genitals are way bigger by comparison but human men produce... blocker, fighter, and producer sperm cells.
this means that genetically we evolved to let the battle take place inside the womb... but that also means that our females aren't naturally monogamous and are not designed by nature to be that way.
i guess feminists want men to stop "fighting," calm down... fuck them all day every day, and let our sperm fight it out in their war-torn wombs. but who cares what they want?
I'll keep reading...
chazthundergut 4y ago
My life's plan was to work like a donkey until I turned 35 and start doing whatever makes me feel good at age 35+
I didnt even have to wait till 35. Life is amazing.
Turcey 4y ago
Get this stupid christian shit out of here. Religion is the ultimate blue pill and goes against everything that the red pill is about. We confront and understand the harsh realities of the world around us, not bury our heads in the sand for comfort.
Plus this girl has already come to most of the same realizations that this stupid article talks about. The article is dog shit pandering with nothing of substance to say.
Redgrin-Grumbolt 4y ago
Religious chicks are GTG, you can quickly substitute their service to god to service to you, and their families will accept your questionable faith quickly if youre strong, hard working and look after her. Show up the occassional sunday, probably hear some things that will only improve your life anyway and youre on your way. For marriage minded men, this is the go. For the pump and dunp, obvs not.
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Turcey 4y ago
They've been saying that for 2000 years and there will be intellectual midgets saying that for at least a few hundred more. Nothing is going to happen. No revelations. The texts will fade and future people will look at Christians how we look at ancient Greeks that believed in Zeus.
There's obviously a correlation between fidelity and religion but that's not the point I was making. The point is I don't trust anyone that wears their religious beliefs on their sleeve with anything that requires open-minded analytical thought and neither should anyone else.
FereallyRed 4y ago
She fought the wall, and the, wall won.
nobody_thinks 4y ago
the wall remains undefeated.
Project_Zero_Betas 4y ago
LMFAO
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Lol the travel the world type is a special kind of slut. Why do women always feel the need to do this alone?
I know a ton of women who have done the backpacking abroad with friends or solo thing. I know very few who have done it with their SO. The funny thing is there’s nothing stopping you from traveling with a boyfriend or girlfriend. you don’t need to be single to explore the world unless your idea is really exploring international dick.
The self delusion these chicks have is absurd
Notagain6352 4y ago
This is what happens when women try to live like men. An adventurous life is more well suited for a man, while an innocent and sheltered life is better for women
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EdmondDaunts 4y ago
It is interesting how women respond and reflect the econosocial aspects of life. They are hardwired to judge resources.
Screwing around until 35 is analogous to living on debt and beyond your means only to have the bill come due. This last generation only managed to build wealth (if even that) in their 30s and 40s.
The middle class (which used to be populated with more young families) was hollowed out in the last 20 years (thanks Alan Greenspan) and it is continuing today.
Women get this intuitively. Probably as they are larger consumers.
Bear-With-Bit 4y ago
This is how the lies of feminism destroy women. You cannot have it all, girls.
winteryknight 4y ago
Hey guys, I'm the author. Thank you for the comments, and for reading the post. I think I got the story for this post out of the WAATGM subreddit.
What I thought was interesting about this lady is her interest in marriage as a means of making herself happy, and helping her out financially.
As a serious Christian, I'd only be interested in marriage if the marriage produced some sort of return for God. As a man, it's my job to lead the relationship to produce that return, e.g. - raising influential children in a stable long-term commitment.
Looking over the decisions she made, I noticed that she had no interest in letting a man lead her in any enterprise like that. She hadn't chosen leaders. She didn't talk about investing in a man, or letting him lead. She didnt think having children or homeschooling were priorities. Obviously, if she thought marriage was supposed to produce anything important, she would have focused on it sooner rather than later. Her choosing all these other things clearly showed that she didn't see building a marriage with a man as valuable. She didn't see husband father abilities as valuable.
I just found myself thinking "there isn't anything about REAL marriage you want". She wanted fun, financial support, and to keep up with her friends. This literally has nothing to do with partnership of male and female natures a permanent marriage commitment, focused on results. It's not at all how I (at least) envision marriage.
I'm not here to make her happy, because I already have a Boss.
redpillcad 4y ago
What I thought was interesting about this lady is her interest in marriage as a means of making herself happy, and helping her out financially
Yea, AWALT.
Find a mission and marry that. If family is part of that mission, great. If not, swell.
Either way, be the emotional center of your own universe
ArborioRice 4y ago
Hate to break it to you, but most men can't lead.
winteryknight 4y ago
Agreed, it's the woman's job to find one who can.
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winteryknight 4y ago
Presbyterian Church of America. Something with a liturgy, no musical instruments, and head coverings.
That's the only one I can think of, and I've been to lots.
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winteryknight 4y ago
No, you're thinking of PCUSA, where the U is for Unbiblical.
Nushuktan-Tulyiagby 4y ago
She has a boat load of debt from moving around, all ex's want nothing to do with her, and her eggs are drying up. When they hit the wall, they hit hard.
dsade 4y ago
Women like this are like eggs. OverEasy.
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russian_nigger 4y ago
i have no idea who billie ellish is, but every basic bitch on dating apps has some dumb ass song by her in their "anthem".. that's when i know to swipe left.
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Capitalism needs that culture to empower these women to spend spend spend and take on debt. She obviously took it too far...
Awxen 4y ago
1000 would be too low a number to describe Billie Eilish's cock stare.
Avskygod0 4y ago
I truly wouldn't wish that upon even my worst enemy
albeit, that is parental failure of the highest kind, betrayal of child even
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Next_Flow1 4y ago
So imagine going to court and telling the judge carlos owed you money for a kg of cocaine. They wouldn't help you in that situation right? Courts don't honor illegal contracts, I'd be incredibly surprised if anyone can sign a contract saying no to future child support payments, and the fact we aren't hearing about this sort of contract on MGTOW should be enough proof
Imperator_Red 4y ago
I’m not a lawyer but I can tell you that this is not possible. The courts would not recognize such a contract.
Cesare_MA 4y ago
The whole STEM circlejerk is starting to be a bit much. I’ve seen engineering curriculums/exams at your average universities; even the mentally handicapped could pass with decent marks. STEM only means something if you’re in a top 20 ranked program where the median IQ is 1.5-2 standard deviations above the mean. That’s 90th-95th percentile. Odds are this random chick never fit that profile.
huggyblossom 4y ago
All the good relationships in my friend and family circle came from the mutual agreement that both parties are responsible and act as one mechanism in the long run. Women respect their man and consider the fact that if they misbehave above set boundaries everything is over.
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When you have the women going full throttle to be a party girl or explore her feminism bullshit, she ends unhappy as F in her mid 30s (3-4 examples and several very close girls on that road at 30-31), because she waists her best years to have a growing relationship and discover how to act long term in a LTR (And nope 2-3 years of sex in her youth years are not a count since both parties can mutually agree to have only the fun and no responsibilities). When the girl lacks those qualities she won't find a healthy LTR.
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I love my girls, but I won't give them an advise about dating/sexual life ever. I just feel sorry they will be miserable with that attitude to life. Girl power is very nice and can work up to early 40s if you have quality genes and looks, but I won't ever pick such a girl. I myself do not consider myself top notch, but I am above average in all aspects of life and I have plenty guys like that that will pick any time of the year 25-27 year old to impregnate instead of a ''better quality'' middle aged cougar.
Project_Zero_Betas 4y ago
Can confirm. I knew a girl who wasted her entire 20s and early 30s not doing anything to build a meaningful future because she was worried her beta orbiters might kill themselves, never occurred to her that if she was worried about this, maybe she shouldn't lead guys on in the first place. Now she's stuck looking for a BB to settle down with after hitting the wall. Female hamstering is a mental disability. Sad.
ArborioRice 4y ago
Dare I say this is typical tradcon delusion. The "marriage minded men" are the same meek betas who play by the "rules" hoping to snag one of these broads, only to find themselves googling "why won't my wife fuck me" after a few years. Your marriage minded man--devout christian or otherwise--couldn't protect or lead himself out of a paper bag. Happy Wife, Happy Life! said every married churchgoing man ever.
At the very least some--SOME--of these men are waking up to the idiocy of the modern strong, independent woman looking to find herself.
kellykebab 4y ago
FFS, not everyone has to get a STEM degree (and many people absolutely should not), but yes, committing to something in a serious way before 35 is a very good idea.
itwasntme19 4y ago
Women live in a state of deep self delusion. They basically want as many sex partners as they can get during their best years, they want to be sluts. When the party is over they want to be respected like the women who weren't sitting on every cock they met.
Smerdakas 4y ago
Don't hate her, she's just looking for a d̶e̶s̶p̶e̶r̶a̶t̶e̶ ̶b̶e̶t̶a̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶e̶a̶t̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶l̶e̶f̶t̶o̶v̶e̶r̶s̶ good guy to share her life with
hazelstein 4y ago
Women SMV is like cars the newer and unused it is, the more it cost.
Men SMV is like houses/properties the older it gets, the more it becomes valuable.
No man wants to marry, a woman railed by her high school or college football team. But Every girl wants to marry a guy, who fucked a lot of women.
If the society had not made it so difficult for men to live and so easy for men to rant, what we are seeing today wouldn't be possible. Patriarchy is best for family and society.
Next_Flow1 4y ago
Some of you are in your own world and get zero outside perspective I swear. I'd take exactly zero notice if a girl had sex with a few high school athletes, or for that matter "railed" by all of them
hazelstein 4y ago
Everyone has their own choices. Its negative points for a girl if you decide to marry her with that situation.
etucker546 4y ago
Tom Leykis constantly uses the Car metaphor when comparing women.
prestidigibator 4y ago
The best part was always the women calling in to tell him he is wrong and ruining men. That and flash Friday.
hazelstein 4y ago
good analogy. yet so correct.
TheEgyptianConqueror 4y ago
Men age like wine, women age like milk
hazelstein 4y ago
LOL like milk you know milk expires after 3 days
redpillcad 4y ago
Well, she definitely planned ahead well with one thing:
Acquiring and loving a cat
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Theorymeltfool1 4y ago
No assets?? What the fuck, I’m in my mid 30s and have close to a half a million stashed away. The fuck was she doing with her time?? (That last question was rhetorical, we all know what she was doing).
RedPilledGodEmperor 4y ago
Yep. I’m turning 28 this year and my net worth is about $140K. Got there through hard work, investing wisely and not being dumb with money. I have a feeling that most women around my age don’t even have close to that. I plan on becoming a millionaire in my 30s. Gotta get that income come up.
Zdeneksfilter 4y ago
See, that's the thing... all that talk about girl power but most of these 'ladies' - when all is said and done - rarely ever have the most important bases covered. Some of them are still lugging large amounts of student debt around by their 40s, and their savings are almost non-existent. Very shameful.
Even knowing everything else, like the fact that she's been a cum dumpster for over a decade and is washed up in just about every aspect; why would any sane guy marry a 35 y.o female and take up the 60k student loan she's left unpaid under his wing? Plus the rest of the baggage she may have?
MCFiletMignon 4y ago
cause she's the prize lol
Ochialoc 4y ago
Why savings when you can suck dick?
Even worst, they don't even suck dick, they only suck a loser out of his money.
KingOfPomerania 4y ago
I sort of feel sorry for women when it comes to this sort of thing. It must be hard to start at your peak and then just decline from there. It makes forward planning pretty hard, especially if you lack the mental wherewithal to take lessons from the struggles of the older generation of women.
RedPill115 4y ago
In todays society they don't run into a lot of them, and the ones they do run into have been manipulated to give them the reverse advice if reality. (40's is the new 30's! Only scumbag men think a woman over 30 isn't beautiful!)
RP_GatFirlzDrooL 4y ago
Half a mil? Fuck. I'm mid 20s and have maybe a networth of 20k.
I'm slowwwww
Theorymeltfool1 4y ago
Ten years is a good chunk of time to see your career/investments grow, don’t worry too much yet.
geo_gan 4y ago
You didn’t save that by working in office job 9-5 I presume. Normal workers only earn enough to live month to month and fuck all savings.
Imperator_Red 4y ago
It’s not that hard if you’re a single guy and don’t throw your money away on useless consumption which adds little utility to your life.
Theorymeltfool1 4y ago
Lol, yeah I did. I make a fuckload because I spent my time studying and researching my career. And I still do that even after I finished Uni. Unlike people who go out every weekend and wonder why they can’t keep their wee heads above water.
geo_gan 4y ago
You must have very high income and very little expenses then. Maybe you lived at home for free so no mortgage or rent, or have no children so no childcare or maintenance expenses. Or maybe you live like hermit spending nothing, so basically have lots of money in bank but don’t actually have much of a life. That’s only way you could be saving thousands every month. I can only manage to have a few hundred between saving and spending money a month. All rest of wages goes to other companies and people.
Imperator_Red 4y ago
Let me guess. You only save like 6% of your income in your 401k...
RedPilledGodEmperor 4y ago
Exactly. I don't get this idiot who is attacking theorymeltfool1 and making it seem as if having half a million to his name didn't take hard work and hustle. He's trying to come up with dumb excuses for why he can't do it, while theorymeltfool1 was able to. Just saving 20%+ of your income like I do goes a long way towards building wealth. some people like geo_gan just come up with excuses for where they are, instead of coming up with solutions to improve their situation. Just trying to downplay the success of others
Theorymeltfool1 4y ago
Maybe you should ask questions and try to learn something instead of being a mysanthropic “know-it-all”?
geo_gan 4y ago
Not answering the questions I raised above then? All I hear is bragging from you trying to look down at others, saying how much fucking money you have hoarded.
shadedDay 4y ago
What questions? All you did was make a bunch of statements, most of them inflammatory
wowmansohacked 4y ago
All any of us hear is you trying to make excuses for your self and hide your failures.
Mgtow_troaway 4y ago
Don't be fooled, these are basic bitch self realizations, they aren't catalysts for change or psychological self mastery.
She isn't maturing. She had a couple of experiences in a row that made her realize she can't pull like she used to, which indicated that's she's crossed the apex of her SMV, and so now she's looking to cash out.
Is a gambler who feels like his hot streak is over and wants to cash out for the night a more "mature" gambler? Or was this all part of one process?
Project_Zero_Betas 4y ago
"Gambler's ruin" is a documented cognitive bias.
nobody_thinks 4y ago
that implies she was thinking.
Project_Zero_Betas 4y ago
Women are so transparent it's become depressing.
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VasiliyZaitzev 4y ago
So another woman, having gone out and ridden a mile of cock and given the pussy up to every Drug Dealer, Outlaw Biker and Escaped Mental Patient, discovers that "Eat, Pray, Slut" turns into "Eat, Pray, Cats."
Men: "We prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos."
Drama ensues.
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n8dawwg 4y ago
Can't upvote this enough. Women unlike men can still find someone who will provide for them. He won't give het any tingles, but will provide for her mooching ass.
Protocol_Apollo 4y ago
Depends on whether she’s realises her options or not.
If she tries to find her “alpha bucks”, she will get just keep getting pumped and dumped.
If she realises she has to settle, she’ll try to find her beta bucks. But even betas can be apprehensive about marrying a 35 year old.
Either way, she’s playing a losing game. She’s already 35, if and IF she finds a partner say in the next few months, it will take a few months for them to become serious. Then at least few more months /a year for the engagement. Then a few more/a year for the actual marriage. Then they can start family planning- the kid will take 9 months to grow.
She’ll end up having a kid at roughly 39 (assuming she still can )at the best which is still extremely pushing it
KingOfPomerania 4y ago
It's funny how women who's SMV/DMV is like 3 or 4 at this point define dating someone who is a 4-6 (and that's being conservative) as "settling"!
silent_dominant 4y ago
She needs the kid before she gets her beta bucks. Unless she cheats on him and carries another man's child
Spicychickenaholic 4y ago
This author sounds like a religiously fundamental autist.. insisting your woman has a STEM? Wtf? Encouraging her to make as much or more money than you and having her be self sufficient??
I dunno wtf this is, it's not a good idea and not particularly red
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Mr7FootCock 4y ago
Modern woman are all heavily used goods. The days of pride and dignity are long gone. Marriage is fundamentally worthless knowing they are a essentially cum rags
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5etho 4y ago
lol, i stopped reading when ChRiStiAn VaLuEs pop up in the text